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Post by s l i k on Jul 24, 2009 22:16:59 GMT -5
Why do I always hear "Ohhh you are so cute and sweet and sensitive" instead of "lets go back to my place and _______."
I remember when I had to do an exercise in an acting class of mine where people had to go around the room and "type" you. My "type" was pretty much "guy who is best friends the lead girl, said lead girl is in love with the jock, but realizes at the end of the film she really loves him...you know, Ducky from Pretty in Pink."
Why do I have to be Jon Cryer? Why can't be, I don't know, Charlie Sheen?
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Post by Dave at the Movies on Jul 24, 2009 22:22:43 GMT -5
Most girls never like the nice guy because their dads were a-holes so that is the kind of guy they are attracted to.
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Post by Johnny Danger (Godz) on Jul 24, 2009 22:32:08 GMT -5
Because, no offense, and I'm not saying this applies to you, but....most guys who describe themselves as "nice guys" are actually "pussies". I know, cause I was one. That, or you're just ugly. I know, cause I am.  Was that helpful? In essence, toughen up some, be kind of jerky....and maybe change your hairstyle. |
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Post by Just Jay on Jul 24, 2009 22:35:01 GMT -5
Well, in a nutshell, assholes usually act like they don't care around women. I know that it tends to drive girls crazy when they want something but can't get it.
Most nice guys on the other hand are usually attentive and don't pose a threat. Well, it kind of sucks.
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Post by Dave at the Movies on Jul 24, 2009 22:35:25 GMT -5
Because, no offense, and I'm not saying this applies to you, but....most guys who describe themselves as "nice guys" are actually "pussies". I know, cause I was one. That, or you're just ugly. I know, cause I am. Was that helpful? In essence, toughen up some, be kind of jerky....and maybe change your hairstyle. Great advice. You just told him to turn into a douchebag.  lol |
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Post by Johnny Danger (Godz) on Jul 24, 2009 22:36:11 GMT -5
Because, no offense, and I'm not saying this applies to you, but....most guys who describe themselves as "nice guys" are actually "pussies". I know, cause I was one. That, or you're just ugly. I know, cause I am. Was that helpful? In essence, toughen up some, be kind of jerky....and maybe change your hairstyle. Great advice. You just told him to turn into a douchebag. lol LOL, well, he said he wanted girls to basically say "Hi, lets f***", and its always the douchebags that hear that. |
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Post by s l i k on Jul 24, 2009 22:38:16 GMT -5
Well, in a nutshell, assholes usually act like they don't care around women. I know that it tends to drive girls crazy when they want something but can't get it. Most nice guys on the other hand are usually attentive and don't pose a threat. Well, it kind of sucks. I think you nailed it. |
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Post by sunwukong on Jul 24, 2009 22:41:48 GMT -5
You don't have to be a total douche, but there's not much attractive about a person with no edge to them. Every guy I've ever known that did the "Nice Guy Lament" was usually a complete doormat. You can be a good person and still get girls. But you need to modify your attitude.
I also notice a lot of guys that don't treat women as equals, but instead as these holy objects that can do no wrong, and they behave around them accordingly. That's nonsense. They're just people. It's ok to tease them or joke with them or tell them no every once in a while. Way too many guys are too delicate and fearful.
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Post by Johnny Danger (Godz) on Jul 24, 2009 22:42:45 GMT -5
Plus they want "strong" guys, not sensitive ones, who they perceive as "weak" and "emotional"
Until they're with some bonehead idiot who they want to talk about feelings with and he just bench presses the toilet instead. Or whatever the devil it is they do.
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Post by S-Chrome on Jul 24, 2009 22:44:15 GMT -5
Being a dick = Mucho action with the ladies.
It's damn near scientific fact.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2009 22:46:23 GMT -5
honestly? its not the dad issues that people assume...its just that "nice" guys are so damn predictable and are quick to go out of there way when things occur...there's no real element of surprise with someone who will wait hand over feet for someone...they want mystery...we want intercourse...its all relative
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Post by Nacho STAYS Hyped on Jul 24, 2009 23:22:32 GMT -5
Cause the nice guy is usually either a puss, ugly as sin, or a nerd. Like me, for instance.  |
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Post by Munkie91087 on Jul 24, 2009 23:31:14 GMT -5
Here's my advice, grow a beard.
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Post by Lair of the Shadow MaDaBa on Jul 24, 2009 23:31:23 GMT -5
I was the "nice guy". I was the fat, ugly teddy bear who treated everyone--especially women--with respect, while all the good-looking jackasses, who treated me like horseshit, got all the 'jingo.
Now, I'm a 23-year-old man who has resolved to the fact that I'll never date, never have sex, never have a family, and will probably live a very long life in lonely misery, all the while wishing I could have died by the time I hit 20, only to die in a filthy hovel before getting thrown into a big drawer in a morgue somewhere.
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I'm not a happy person.
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Post by Nacho STAYS Hyped on Jul 24, 2009 23:33:31 GMT -5
I was the "nice guy". I was the fat, ugly teddy bear who treated everyone--especially women--with respect, while all the good-looking jackasses, who treated me like horses***, got all the 'jingo. Now, I'm a 23-year-old man who has resolved to the fact that I'll never date, never have sex, never have a family, and will probably live a very long life in lonely misery, all the while wishing I could have died by the time I hit 20, only to die in a filthy hovel before getting thrown into a big drawer in a morgue somewhere. That's the spirit! |
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Post by Munkie91087 on Jul 24, 2009 23:37:11 GMT -5
I was the "nice guy". I was the fat, ugly teddy bear who treated everyone--especially women--with respect, while all the good-looking jackasses, who treated me like horses***, got all the 'jingo. Now, I'm a 23-year-old man who has resolved to the fact that I'll never date, never have sex, never have a family, and will probably live a very long life in lonely misery, all the while wishing I could have died by the time I hit 20, only to die in a filthy hovel before getting thrown into a big drawer in a morgue somewhere. ... I'm not a happy person. You really seem like you need this...  |
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Post by Lair of the Shadow MaDaBa on Jul 24, 2009 23:38:04 GMT -5
I was the "nice guy". I was the fat, ugly teddy bear who treated everyone--especially women--with respect, while all the good-looking jackasses, who treated me like horses***, got all the 'jingo. Now, I'm a 23-year-old man who has resolved to the fact that I'll never date, never have sex, never have a family, and will probably live a very long life in lonely misery, all the while wishing I could have died by the time I hit 20, only to die in a filthy hovel before getting thrown into a big drawer in a morgue somewhere. ... I'm not a happy person. You really seem like you need this... ......*knee to the crotch* Don't ever do that again. |
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Post by Munkie91087 on Jul 24, 2009 23:41:34 GMT -5
You really seem like you need this... ......*knee to the crotch* Don't ever do that again. You always know exactly what I like...now come here again!  |
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Post by Lair of the Shadow MaDaBa on Jul 24, 2009 23:42:25 GMT -5
......*knee to the crotch* Don't ever do that again. You always know exactly what I like...now come here again! ..................................Go Patriots. >_< That actually physically hurt me saying that, but whatever gets you the f*** away from me. |
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Post by Munkie91087 on Jul 24, 2009 23:43:41 GMT -5
You always know exactly what I like...now come here again! ..................................Go Patriots. >_< That actually physically hurt me saying that, but whatever gets you the f*** away from me. and you wonder why no one will ever love you. |
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