BigJerichool222
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by BigJerichool222 on Aug 5, 2011 22:39:11 GMT -5
Quality, not quantity
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Post by GuyOfOwnage on Aug 5, 2011 22:52:26 GMT -5
Don't be too rough on yourself. I didn't even kiss a girl until I was 15, and didn't have my first serious relationship until just before I turned 17. Trust me, you'll get there in due time. Until then, try to relax and enjoy life.
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ibdude
Don Corleone
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Post by ibdude on Aug 5, 2011 22:53:51 GMT -5
One thing that you should always do: Never let a girl that you have your eye on get away from you. I've done that way too many times and regret that I did. If you see a girl that you like or think is pretty, go for it, because someone else will if you don't.
Also, dude I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship, I'm still a virgin, and got my only 2 kisses when I was 15. So, don't sweat it. There are always people worse than you.
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Aug 5, 2011 23:30:02 GMT -5
Hey, you shut up! I was in ADVANCED algebra! That makes my girlfriend ADVANCED as well! Not to brag, but I was in ADVANCED English. So my girlfriend was not only ADVANCED but BRITISH as well! I bet you feel awful now, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I bet mine had better teeth.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 6, 2011 0:02:26 GMT -5
Dude, don't even sweat it. A lot of people don't get involved with girls and stuff until a few years later than you. I didn't kiss a girl until I was about 15 and I'm still a virgin at 18. Ain't no thang.
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darthalexander
Hank Scorpio
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Post by darthalexander on Aug 6, 2011 1:19:21 GMT -5
Because at my school, The kids there are always bragging about how they have had a insane amount of girlfriends and then i look at myself and I haven't had a single girlfriend. I sometimes feel mad at this. So, do I have a right to be bitter or what? Ah that will change somewhat. I was there, most of my friends were as well and I am sure a ton of people here felt the same way. It gets better as you get older (well, usually). You may actually even get to the point where you'll laugh at yourself for thinking the way that you do now. I know I often do when I think about the way I was in high school. Don't forget as well, many guys are full of shit when it comes to this stuff. I once met a guy who looked like a troll at my job years ago who claimed he had slept with 5,000 women. There is no way in hell that's remotely true. Not this guy. Unless he paid them all and I don't think the guy was that rich. It was actually difficult to not crack up laughing when he came out this stat.
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Post by ThereIsNoAbsurdistOnlyZuul on Aug 6, 2011 1:26:59 GMT -5
Girlfriend = "Chick I sat next to in algebra class." Hey, you shut up! I was in ADVANCED algebra! That makes my girlfriend ADVANCED as well! "I BEAT DUNGEONS AND DRAGONS! AND IT WAS ADVANCED!"
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Post by ScottishProWrestling on Aug 6, 2011 15:42:23 GMT -5
Your 14, go race bikes, play sports, get an achievment on your xbox, get down by the stream and build a damn. At your age you don't even truly know who you are, nevermind trying to find out who and what a woman is... get out and have fun. Leave the women till your older, the kids in your year are talking smack. At that age its all about whos coolest, "smoking, drinking, sex" are all the "cool" things to do so kids accentuate and lie to get a little boost of the fonz factor.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Aug 6, 2011 16:29:16 GMT -5
Because at my school, The kids there are always bragging about how they have had a insane amount of girlfriends and then i look at myself and I haven't had a single girlfriend. I sometimes feel mad at this. So, do I have a right to be bitter or what? Ah that will change somewhat. I was there, most of my friends were as well and I am sure a ton of people here felt the same way. It gets better as you get older (well, usually). You may actually even get to the point where you'll laugh at yourself for thinking the way that you do now. I know I often do when I think about the way I was in high school. Don't forget as well, many guys are full of s*** when it comes to this stuff. I once met a guy who looked like a troll at my job years ago who claimed he had slept with 5,000 women. There is no way in hell that's remotely true. Not this guy. Unless he paid them all and I don't think the guy was that rich. It was actually difficult to not crack up laughing when he came out this stat. And if it was true, that actually would be sorta disgusting. I don't know what the number would be, but I think there's a number where most anyone would be " yeah that's too many people". 5k would be well past that barrier.
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Post by hbk4ever09 on Aug 6, 2011 16:33:10 GMT -5
I feel primarily like this about life. I'm not one who usually shares about life experiences on the forum, but I'll open up a little here. I have a condition called Facebook Depression. Simple disease, it's that little feeling of regret/depression you have whenever you see someone else have fun, or get to experience life. As a 21 year old turning 22 on Tuesday, I've yet to have a girlfriend, go to a party, get drunk, or experience anything "fun". To me, its what happens when you're raised in an area where there's no friends nearby and EVERYONE has to drive you around, so you feel guilty even feeling one iota of popularity amongst your peers. I feel just like you at age 18, also in NY. I've never experienced any of those things you listed partly because my parents are pretty damn conservative, partly because i don't have a ton of temptation to party and do that shit. It is depressing though, i hope things get better in college.
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Post by noleafclover1980 on Aug 6, 2011 17:10:52 GMT -5
Because at my school, The kids there are always bragging about how they have had a insane amount of girlfriends and then i look at myself and I haven't had a single girlfriend. I sometimes feel mad at this. So, do I have a right to be bitter or what? Ah that will change somewhat. I was there, most of my friends were as well and I am sure a ton of people here felt the same way. It gets better as you get older (well, usually). You may actually even get to the point where you'll laugh at yourself for thinking the way that you do now. I know I often do when I think about the way I was in high school. Don't forget as well, many guys are full of s*** when it comes to this stuff. I once met a guy who looked like a troll at my job years ago who claimed he had slept with 5,000 women. There is no way in hell that's remotely true. Not this guy. Unless he paid them all and I don't think the guy was that rich. It was actually difficult to not crack up laughing when he came out this stat. You know, if you're gonna BS, at least have a feasible number. I mean how old is this guy? I lost my virginity at 20, I'm 31 now and have been with roughly 20 women or so, and I have girls say THAT'S a big number lol. I'm just trying to find out if it's even be mathematically possible. Like for ME to have been with 5,000 it would require 455 women A YEAR. That averages to more then one a day, every day, for 11 years. No one has that much free time/knows that many people.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 6, 2011 17:53:03 GMT -5
Quality over quantity. You have the rest of your life to find someone worth being with. Just don't let it get you down, that's the worst thing. One of my best friends is 25, a virgin, and he lets it eat him alive sometimes. So, don't waste opportunities (and your so young, you shouldn't have any opportunities yet) but don't sweat it. And, even if they aren't lying, it isn't a big deal if others have that many girlfriends.
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Post by draus on Aug 6, 2011 18:01:15 GMT -5
Do you think i should worry about not having a single girlfriend? Honestly you'll look back at Middle School/early High School and realize just how stupid it all was. Relationships at that age, if you even want to call it that, aren't based off of love or anything. Girls are airheads then and the guys are even worse. I remember being 14 in 1999-2000 and really the only kids that were popular in middle school were the "ghetto" white kids imitating Eminem or just the idiot kids, and the girls weren't much better. I look back at it now and just think of how ridiculous it all was and how it really means nothing in the grand scheme of things. If you want my honest opinion, I'm 25 and never had a girlfriend. Chances are you'll beat me to that. When I was your age I cared a lot about it and got pissed just like you, but then I stopped caring when I realize that there are more important things to do in life than to worry about having a girlfriend for the sake of having one. Did I have opportunities along the way? Sure, but for one reason or the other it just never happened. You'll go to college, meet new people, or even high school if you aren't there yet. Simply put you got plenty of time!
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Post by FUNK_US/BRODUS on Aug 6, 2011 18:40:15 GMT -5
Hey, you shut up! I was in ADVANCED algebra! That makes my girlfriend ADVANCED as well! Not to brag, but I was in ADVANCED English. So my girlfriend was not only ADVANCED but BRITISH as well! I bet you feel awful now, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA We're English, not British. Pet peeve of mine. And yeah, why do you need a girlfriend at 14? We seem to be getting a lot of "emo kid" threads lately, and the answer to all of them seems to be "sack up and deal with it". Which is the right way of going about your business. These kids are all full of crap.
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Aug 6, 2011 20:53:40 GMT -5
Ignore them & move on with your life, believe me.
Or hold onto the bitterness, invest in some energy weapons & armor and become a super villian!
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