Really pissed off at my ex now!!!

[Wolf Hawkfield no1 NZ poster]

Sorry for the bitching and whining but right now I don't think I've ever been more pissed at anyone that I've know in person.

Now last night a mate of mine who is leaving for Brazil had a going away party and by random chance I bumped into my previous ex for the first time in several years. Even though I wasn't really thrilled to see her I still decided to be somewhat sociable towards her and ask her how things are going.However this was bad idea as an hour or so later she came back to me drunk and started to hit on me in front of several people who are good friends with my missus. I dragged her to a corner and got her to sit down. Now I asked her what the bloody hell are you doing as she knows that I am currently involved with someone. Out of blue she asked me why are you with that cheep Asian slut (yes she called my partner that) and that we should get back together, she also offered to have sex with me in another room. I told her point blank to f*** off and leave me alone however things were only going to get much worse.

While I wasn't drunk or anything I figured that I would be over the limit so I asked my mate if I could crash on his couch for the night. However an hour late I awoke to see that my ex was on top of me wearing only her bra and knickers in a 69 position, and she was in the middle of trying to unzip my pants. I pretty much panicked and tossed her off me. I yelled what the f*** are doing at her and told her to f*** off as I beyond pissed. According to her she reckons that I had been playing hard to get the entire night even though I made it quite clear that I love my missus and I have no intention of cheating on her.

Like I said before I don't think I've ever been this pissed off at someone in my entire life.

[Deleted]

Ex's suck.

[Objection!]

First off, fair play. A lot of guys would have been weaker than you and taken up the offer.

Secondly your ex is a total harpie by the sounds of it. I hope she's not causing any problems for your current relationship.

[rapidfire187]

Heh, I wish I could say that the most mad I've ever been at somebody IRL was my ex girlfriend because she was trying to blow me.

[chazraps]

Jul 29, 2011 11:48:42 GMT -5 rapidfire187 said:

Heh, I wish I could say that the most mad I've ever been at somebody IRL was my ex girlfriend because she was trying to blow me.

Ha! Legit LOLL (laugh out loud, loudly)

But seriously, props for your faithfulness.

[Magician under the moonlight]

I really admire you loyalty towards your girlfriend. However, Some advice, Don`t tell her about the incident though since it may put your relationship in jeopardy , even if you blew her off. Also, make sure your gf does not meet that girl. Chances are that she will lie and say the opposite of what you said.

[Sharpy Snow]

I'm in the situation where my ex is trying to keep me as part of her life and acting like we could be back together one day... while already going off to see another guy.

She's lying to me saying she's only had one drunk kiss but I know from one of her friends telling me it's not just that.

Right now I'm just telling her that "If she values me as much of a friend as she claims to be, then she'll tell me the truth and stop the lies."



Le sigh. Been a very mixed emotions of a week...

[Deleted]

Jul 29, 2011 12:12:56 GMT -5 Magician under the moonlight said:

I really admire you loyalty towards your girlfriend. However, Some advice, Don`t tell her about the incident though since it may put your relationship in jeopardy , even if you blew her off. Also, make sure your gf does not meet that girl. Chances are that she will lie and say the opposite of what you said.

But isn't there also the danger that this ex goes around telling lies about this incident making it look like he cheated on his current relationship? And when his current gf hears about this, then trouble will start up.

To prevent this, I would say the better course would be to talk with his current girlfriend about this incident so that she hears it firsthand from him and not from a third source.

This is just a suggestion, though.

[Deleted]

I would definitely tell the current girlfriend. She needs to hear it from you first. If she hears something from someone else, then she's going want to know why you kept it from her.

[Deleted]

Better pissed off than pissed on, I say.

Unless you like that sort of thing.

[biafra]

Jul 29, 2011 12:28:05 GMT -5 @jeffx said:

I would definitely tell the current girlfriend. She needs to hear it from you first. If she hears something from someone else, then she's going want to know why you kept it from her.

Agreed 100%. Hell, you should have called her right after the other bitch hit the floor. It'd be a f***ed up situation if you do the right thing and you still get shit for it.

[Deleted]

Prof. Orton says: You, should have taken a dump in her handbag.

More seriously, why wasn't your girlfriend at the party?

[Magician under the moonlight]

Jul 29, 2011 12:18:39 GMT -5 @desertassassin said:

Jul 29, 2011 12:12:56 GMT -5 Magician under the moonlight said:

I really admire you loyalty towards your girlfriend. However, Some advice, Don`t tell her about the incident though since it may put your relationship in jeopardy , even if you blew her off. Also, make sure your gf does not meet that girl. Chances are that she will lie and say the opposite of what you said.

But isn't there also the danger that this ex goes around telling lies about this incident making it look like he cheated on his current relationship? And when his current gf hears about this, then trouble will start up.

To prevent this, I would say the better course would be to talk with his current girlfriend about this incident so that she hears it firsthand from him and not from a third source.

This is just a suggestion, though.

I actually did not think about it that way. IF that was the case, it is better to tell her straight up. He may get some shit for it, but it is better than hearing it from a third party source. Maybe he can get some witness from the incident so that she does believe him and not get caught by her ex's lies.

Also, as I said earlier, make sure these 2 girls do not see each other.

["Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay]

Yeah, you have TOLD your current missus about this, right? Because if she finds this out some other way the fit is going to hit the shan.

[Wolf Hawkfield no1 NZ poster]

I have told my missus and she is willing to give me the benefit of the doubt.

Interesting enough today I found out this isn't the first time she hasn't tried to have surprise sex with a man who is asleep.

[BigJerichool222]

Jul 29, 2011 8:39:24 GMT -5 @jeffx said:

Ex's suck.

Unless you wake up.

[rapidfire187]

Jul 30, 2011 0:16:24 GMT -5 BigJerichool222 said:

Jul 29, 2011 8:39:24 GMT -5 @jeffx said:

Ex's suck.

Unless you wake up.

Or if you're Rapidfire. In that case ex's get married to dudes that are way more successful than you. But they can't rap as good so you feel superior. *cries*

[spec]

Jul 30, 2011 0:16:24 GMT -5 BigJerichool222 said:

Jul 29, 2011 8:39:24 GMT -5 @jeffx said:

Ex's suck.

Unless you wake up.

Now that's what i call a sticky situation!
Sounds like she's an ex for a reason and you did well to resist and prevent her screwing up what you have with your current partner.

[Deleted]

Yeah I wish I could complain that someone wanted to sleep with me.

[OblivionSorceress]

Wow, I'd be pissed off at her too. She really should have taken a hint but then again she was stupid ass drunk so what do we expect. You should be proud of how you handled yourself, quite a few guys would have just done it and blamed it on booze or something. Your girlfriend is a lucky girl. ^.^ In my opinion though, I would tell your girlfriend the entire story before one of those friends who knows her and was at the party tells her. That way it will show her you have nothing to hide. If it were me I know I would want to know in case that chick were to ever try it again or do something crazy.