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Post by Bone Daddy on Dec 26, 2012 13:42:25 GMT -5
can have with another person?
Other than violence/actual abuse, I don't see anyway it can get worse than being hit with a LJBF
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Post by King Ghidorah on Dec 26, 2012 13:45:06 GMT -5
Yes, as It's a self inflicted wound.
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Dec 26, 2012 13:46:05 GMT -5
Anybody that annoyed with somebody for not wanting them to put their penis into them has no business undressing a person in the first place
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Post by BorneAgain on Dec 26, 2012 13:46:12 GMT -5
If "Friendzone" means one person doesn't realize their friend is resentful for not sleeping with them, and the other is too busy lamenting that they're not getting laid (for being nice I guess) to be an actual friend than yeah I'd say that's a pretty bad relationship.
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Dec 26, 2012 13:47:10 GMT -5
Yes, as It's a self inflicted wound. Can't disagree. It's a persons own ridiculous mindset that turns the idea of somebody just being friends as any kind of negative. Nobody elses fault.
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Post by Bone Daddy on Dec 26, 2012 13:48:52 GMT -5
Yes, as It's a self inflicted wound. Can't disagree. It's a persons own ridiculous mindset that turns the idea of somebody just being friends as any kind of negative. Nobody elses fault. I think it's just as bad for the person that does just want to be friends
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Dec 26, 2012 13:52:02 GMT -5
Can't disagree. It's a persons own ridiculous mindset that turns the idea of somebody just being friends as any kind of negative. Nobody elses fault. I think it's just as bad for the person that does just want to be friends Indeed, I could imagine it being pretty bad for a person being made to feel bad because they wont let somebody f*** them
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Post by Cela on Dec 26, 2012 13:52:03 GMT -5
Oh for the love of, can we stop with these damn threads already?
Let me some them up.
Poster 1. Does anyone hate when a person says "let's just be friends?" When it's just code for, I don't find you in any way worthy.
Poster 2. HOW DARE YOU want to have sex with a member of the opposite sex you find attractive, you're what's wrong with (country of posters origin).
Poster 1. But I didn't mean it like tha-
Poster 2. Yes you did, ad hominum attack!
Poster 1. Ok.
Repeat one week later.
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Post by FinalGwen on Dec 26, 2012 13:55:04 GMT -5
Having friends is so terrible, isn't it?
And I hate this attitude that people are obligated to return your affections/desires. It's almost as if they're actual people with their own thoughts and personalities...
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Post by Ben Wyatt on Dec 26, 2012 13:56:59 GMT -5
I loathe the term 'friendzone' and the connotation it has.
I'll be blunt: some people have some social issues if they can't understand that no member of the opposite sex has the obligation to date or f*** you just because you guys have some kind of regular interactions with each other.
Grow up and be happy that someone likes/cares about you as a friend.
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Post by Legion on Dec 26, 2012 13:59:29 GMT -5
I think it's worse when someone dislikes you so much they dont even want to friendzone you; when the very thought of you makes them so disgusted that forget sleeping with you, they dont even want to see you.
At least friendzone gets you a friend, all you get out of the other kind is a big old kick in the nads
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Post by Toxik916 on Dec 26, 2012 14:03:36 GMT -5
The whole friendzone thing is myth, either you're someone's friend or you're not. The friendzone is an imaginary place for guys with no confidence that are too scared to make a move because failing would crush their fragile ego.
Now being on someone's hook is a terrible thing because you've clearly made a move or shown interest and the other party keeps stringing you along.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Dec 26, 2012 14:07:55 GMT -5
If they don't want to go out, don't be their friend.
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Dec 26, 2012 14:08:10 GMT -5
Oh for the love of, can we stop with these damn threads already? Let me some them up. Poster 1. Does anyone hate when a person says "let's just be friends?" When it's just code for, I don't find you in any way worthy. Poster 2. HOW DARE YOU want to have sex with a member of the opposite sex you find attractive, you're what's wrong with (country of posters origin). Poster 1. But I didn't mean it like tha- Poster 2. Yes you did, ad hominum attack! Poster 1. Ok. Repeat one week later. I have a feeling this will work
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Post by nate5054 on Dec 26, 2012 14:38:06 GMT -5
It sucks, but it's all the fault of the male (ok, I guess it can be female but I'd wager it's 90% or more a male) who continues the friendship.
The last gf I had we broke up and she wanted to be friends and I didn't, so I just quit talking to her. No need to torture yourself if you can't get over the fact she doesn't want to go out with her, and there is no need to torture yourself by hearing her talk about current men she is going out with.
Now if you're one of those guys who insists on torturing yourself in the hope you'll be some sort of fallback/rebound plan more power to you I guess, but quit bitching about the situation you are putting yourself in.
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Post by Hit Girl on Dec 26, 2012 14:39:44 GMT -5
No
Friendzone can be a basis for a future relationship anyway. A meaningful romantic relationship requires friendship
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Post by nate5054 on Dec 26, 2012 14:41:42 GMT -5
Other than violence/actual abuse, I don't see anyway it can get worse than being hit with a LJBF Do people realize how silly this line of thinking sounds? No, it seems rather natural to me. Hearing "LJBF" from someone you are attracted to is an audible kick in the nads. That being said I don't believe it is possible to retain a friendship when there is an unrequited love thing going on from either party. Human emotions are too powerful for that.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Dec 26, 2012 14:47:17 GMT -5
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Post by DragonMasterP on Dec 26, 2012 14:52:56 GMT -5
I'd prefer to be friends with a girl than I would be an actual partner to her, you know?
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Dec 26, 2012 15:06:25 GMT -5
The whole friendzone thing is myth, either you're someone's friend or you're not. The friendzone is an imaginary place for guys with no confidence that are too scared to make a move because failing would crush their fragile ego. Now being on someone's hook is a terrible thing because you've clearly made a move or shown interest and the other party keeps stringing you along. This sums it up better than I could have. Bravo, dear sir.
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