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Post by Kash Flagg on Dec 27, 2012 14:44:44 GMT -5
Well, I thought about it all night, considering your opinions and my opinions, and I talked to my parents about it and they gave their own opinions. And I know it's the popular vote, but I just can't see myself being with her. Believe me, I'm looking for a relationship, and here's one standing in front of me, but I keep getting mixed feelings over what to do, and I figure since I can't picture myself with her and neither can my parents, it's not meant to be. If I "friendzone" her, will that make me a bad person? Would I be making a mistake in saying no? You're a good person for not wanting to hurt her feelings. There's nothing wrong with being friends or going out places as friends. You got a good head on your shoulders for your age.
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Post by Ben Wyatt on Dec 27, 2012 15:15:08 GMT -5
Well, I thought about it all night, considering your opinions and my opinions, and I talked to my parents about it and they gave their own opinions. And I know it's the popular vote, but I just can't see myself being with her. Believe me, I'm looking for a relationship, and here's one standing in front of me, but I keep getting mixed feelings over what to do, and I figure since I can't picture myself with her and neither can my parents, it's not meant to be. If I "friendzone" her, will that make me a bad person? Would I be making a mistake in saying no? You're a good person for not wanting to hurt her feelings. There's nothing wrong with being friends or going out places as friends. You got a good head on your shoulders for your age. What he said
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Post by lodirulz on Dec 27, 2012 15:58:04 GMT -5
So I finally got the chance to talk with her again, and I told her that after putting some thought into it, I would like to be just friends. She understood and we both agreed to still talk to each other in Drama club and hang around every now and then.
I'll admit, that's probably the toughest thing I ever had to do. Because who knows if they'll be another opportunity like that?
At least I can breath a sigh of relief that she understood and didn't get angry about it.
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Post by Crusty Ruffles on Dec 27, 2012 16:46:44 GMT -5
I'm glad it worked out for you!
And don't worry, there will be plenty of opportunity for you. It may not seem like it now, but trust me, it happens.
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Post by Piccolo on Dec 27, 2012 19:35:59 GMT -5
Well, I thought about it all night, considering your opinions and my opinions, and I talked to my parents about it and they gave their own opinions. And I know it's the popular vote, but I just can't see myself being with her. Believe me, I'm looking for a relationship, and here's one standing in front of me, but I keep getting mixed feelings over what to do, and I figure since I can't picture myself with her and neither can my parents, it's not meant to be. If I "friendzone" her, will that make me a bad person? Would I be making a mistake in saying no? No, you're not a bad person. Friendzoning is completely 100% normal and fine. Would you be making a mistake, it's hard to say. That's why I typically go out with people a time or two before writing them off, just to find out whether there's anything there. But if you feel confident that there's nothing there, it's not a mistake.
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Post by Urethra Franklin on Dec 27, 2012 19:52:48 GMT -5
So I finally got the chance to talk with her again, and I told her that after putting some thought into it, I would like to be just friends. She understood and we both agreed to still talk to each other in Drama club and hang around every now and then. I'll admit, that's probably the toughest thing I ever had to do. Because who knows if they'll be another opportunity like that? At least I can breath a sigh of relief that she understood and didn't get angry about it. You weren't into her and you were honest about it. You did the right thing. Dating somebody for the sake of it is absurd.
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Post by Mozenrath on Dec 27, 2012 20:02:17 GMT -5
So I finally got the chance to talk with her again, and I told her that after putting some thought into it, I would like to be just friends. She understood and we both agreed to still talk to each other in Drama club and hang around every now and then. I'll admit, that's probably the toughest thing I ever had to do. Because who knows if they'll be another opportunity like that? At least I can breath a sigh of relief that she understood and didn't get angry about it. Other opportunities will come, many down the line. Hopefully other ones will be more fitting to you and your needs. You did good.
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