Professor Chaos
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Jul 24, 2014 9:23:11 GMT -5
I pay her rent for her own bedroom, her car payment, and her health insurance. My lease is up this month. Would you tell her to go to hell and just move to your own place? Morally since I said "I Do" I feel obligated but at the same time feel I've been completely used and treated like crap. And no I'm no some Bastian Booger I workout every day. And no this isn't a troll thread real life just frustrated to hell with life in general.
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Post by Zombie Mod is not a ghoul. on Jul 24, 2014 9:27:58 GMT -5
The pair of you need to go see a marriage councilor if only to figure out the problems that are blatantly there.
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"Magic" Mark Hurr
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Post by "Magic" Mark Hurr on Jul 24, 2014 9:32:29 GMT -5
Damn. Does she have a doctor's excuse on why she can't?
In my book the marriage was done after the 2nd week going in the 3rd week without sex.
How sexually active were y'all before marriage? And has something happened that affected her psychologically?
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jagilki
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Post by jagilki on Jul 24, 2014 9:40:30 GMT -5
You do shower regularly right?
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Sorry, didn't see this part. Honest answer, I don't know what to tell you, but the counseling idea sounds like a good bet.
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Essential1
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Post by Essential1 on Jul 24, 2014 9:50:30 GMT -5
Wow I thought the 4 month no sex streak I once had in a relationship was bad. I could understand even going without every few months but that's a long drawn out period. It's obvious there is something wrong so why end it?
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Professor Chaos
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Jul 24, 2014 9:55:16 GMT -5
Damn. Does she have a doctor's excuse on why she can't? In my book the marriage was done after the 2nd week going in the 3rd week without sex. How sexually active were y'all before marriage? And has something happened that affected her psychologically? Before marraige it was great sexually. Then she got what she wanted (Being a legal U.S. citizen) out of it after we got married and I've just felt like hell with you you'll pay my way through life and getting nothing out of it.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Jul 24, 2014 10:11:16 GMT -5
Do you love her?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2014 10:18:16 GMT -5
No sex in a relationship is rarely about sex. There's something deeper going on with her.
Have you tried this move. Ask her, "Hey, why haven't we had sex in 16 months?"
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2014 10:32:06 GMT -5
A woman married you to get citizenship and you're surprised when she cuts you off and doesn't seem to be into you?
Sorry dude, but you've been played.
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Professor Chaos
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Jul 24, 2014 10:36:59 GMT -5
Anymore... Not Really. I've had a lot of opportunity's the past couple years I let slip away over this because I didn't want to cheat. I look back and think cheat on what?
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Post by Magic knows Black Lives Matter on Jul 24, 2014 10:39:48 GMT -5
Sounds like you guys need to have a long conversation about the lack of intimacy. You are obviously dissatisfied with the lack of sex so right of the bat, there's a pretty big point of conflict.
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Professor Chaos
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Jul 24, 2014 10:41:11 GMT -5
A woman married you to get citizenship and you're surprised when she cuts you off and doesn't seem to be into you? Sorry dude, but you've been played. I know. The biggest thing is she racked my credit cards to the max and stuck me with the car payment she promised to pay but doesn't. It's a bad way to look at things but I feel trapped and hope I die before I pay the crap off just to stick it to her.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2014 11:16:55 GMT -5
Divorce.
Seriously, some times that's the best option, especially when there are no kids involved. You may lose some money out of it and deal with the divorced stigma, but ultimately you have to enjoy your life and enjoy the company of your partner.
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Post by bluemeii on Jul 24, 2014 11:18:27 GMT -5
Dude if this is a serious thread, it's time to talk to a divorce lawyer before she does. She married you to stay here legally, got what she wanted and is now milking you dry.
You're gonna end up having to pay her something afterwords but hell it might be cheaper for you to get out ASAP.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Jul 24, 2014 11:34:39 GMT -5
Anymore... Not Really. I've had a lot of opportunity's the past couple years I let slip away over this because I didn't want to cheat. I look back and think cheat on what? Then why stay married? Get divorced.
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Professor Chaos
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Jul 24, 2014 11:37:30 GMT -5
Just went off on her via text that I wasn't resigning the lease and she NOW teases me with sex. I'm thru thinking with my d**k time for her to piss off. Thanks all.
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Professor Chaos
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Jul 24, 2014 11:41:05 GMT -5
Anymore... Not Really. I've had a lot of opportunity's the past couple years I let slip away over this because I didn't want to cheat. I look back and think cheat on what? Then why stay married? Get divorced. I've decided on it. Being her U.S. sponser the bill I get for it may highly suck tho.
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Sephiroth
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Post by Sephiroth on Jul 24, 2014 11:46:54 GMT -5
Pft, you're a lightweight; I'm single and haven't had it in three or four years.
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Lila
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Post by Lila on Jul 24, 2014 11:51:15 GMT -5
Just went off on her via text that I wasn't resigning the lease and she NOW teases me with sex. I'm thru thinking with my d**k time for her to piss off. Thanks all. Do her dirty the way she did you.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2014 11:56:04 GMT -5
I though you'd already established that she was a lesbian
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