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Post by Zaq "That Guy" Buzzkill on Aug 27, 2014 11:37:25 GMT -5
I wear a "No Fat Chicks" shirt yet all the fatties keep showing up and ruining everything for me. The f*** is wrong with society?
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Post by suave on Aug 27, 2014 11:38:31 GMT -5
I wear a "No Fat Chicks" shirt yet all the fatties keep showing up and ruining everything for me. The f*** is wrong with society? Bitches don't respect the shirt, man!
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Post by Zombie Mod is not a ghoul. on Aug 27, 2014 11:47:55 GMT -5
Well, I've been away from the forum a lot recently, and I... ... bye. someone stop him... he still hasn't painted my fence from the last time he was here, I gave him a plate full of chocolate chip muffins to paint it!
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Post by Sephiroth on Aug 27, 2014 12:02:03 GMT -5
I like how it's only ever the responsibility of the woman and never the guy. There are a lot of women that I find attractive that I don't stare at. You're a better man than me! haha! But yeah - I love the old "its their choice to dress that way - so they can't be surprised when dudes stare!" routine. Its like, yeah - If you walk around with a wallet in your back pocket you can't be surprised when someone tries to steal it. Don't wear that wallet if you don't want it to happen!!! The ridiculously false notion that every or even most women dress a certain way for male attention needs to be squashed down because it is utter nonesense. The only reason a man would think that is beacuse we are unable to comprehend what goes on in a woman's head so we just assume that their thought process is the same as ours. Of course I have no comprehension of what goes on in a woman's head-I'm a guy.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2014 12:04:20 GMT -5
You're a better man than me! haha! But yeah - I love the old "its their choice to dress that way - so they can't be surprised when dudes stare!" routine. Its like, yeah - If you walk around with a wallet in your back pocket you can't be surprised when someone tries to steal it. Don't wear that wallet if you don't want it to happen!!! The ridiculously false notion that every or even most women dress a certain way for male attention needs to be squashed down because it is utter nonesense. The only reason a man would think that is beacuse we are unable to comprehend what goes on in a woman's head so we just assume that their thought process is the same as ours. Of course I have no comprehension of what goes on in a woman's head-I'm a guy. Or so you would have us believe! **rips off mask and reveals your true identity**
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Post by Sephiroth on Aug 27, 2014 12:08:05 GMT -5
Of course I have no comprehension of what goes on in a woman's head-I'm a guy. Or so you would have us believe! **rips off mask and reveals your true identity** And I would have gotten away with it if it weren't you meddling kids!
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Post by Ishmeal Loves Kaseyhausen on Aug 27, 2014 12:15:14 GMT -5
Are we making a distinction from "taking a glance" and "oogling?" Cuz to me there's a distinct difference.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Aug 27, 2014 12:18:00 GMT -5
Luckily for me, I've got full range of motion with my neck. I see something I'm not aesthetically fond of, my head can turn.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2014 12:25:34 GMT -5
What's with ugly people thinking they can leave their specified ugly zone? I shouldn't have to look at ugly fat people. Wearing clothes that they feel comfortable in no less! The humanity!
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Post by Adam Black on Aug 27, 2014 12:27:47 GMT -5
Because it's f***ing hot literally
Though in all honesty I think the only reason why we wear clothes is because indecent exposure is not only shunned down by society but also illegal I mean seriously I prefer being naked all the time f*** clothes man. If we are all forced to dress why not do it in a way where it makes you feel good or something comfortable.
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Post by rapidfire187 on Aug 27, 2014 15:07:00 GMT -5
Hey man, they're my eyes, don't tell me what to do with them. It's rude to expect me to NOT look where I please. If I don't have to do anything other that move my freaking eye muscles to see cleavage or whatever, then you better find a more appropriate way to dress or just accept the looks. Right now you're actually saying that women have to cover up or accept that you're going to ogle their breasts because you have no self control or decency. Lovely. No, I said I'll look at whatever the f*** I want. It's absolutely ridiculous to expect everyone else to avoid looking at you because YOU dressed inappropriately. It's like me wearing a speedo and expecting nobody to look at my banana hammock. Looking doesn't = ogling either. Like, does anyone literally just sit there and blatantly stare at people? No, we do that shit on the sly. Again, they're my eyes and I will point them in whatever direction I choose to. You don't want me to see you? Then go somewhere else. It's a pretty simple concept that somehow gets lost with this whole white knight stuff.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2014 16:03:15 GMT -5
Who cares? Keep trying to chase perfection, more sexy, chubby chicks for me.
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Post by Andrew is Good on Aug 27, 2014 16:09:19 GMT -5
Right now you're actually saying that women have to cover up or accept that you're going to ogle their breasts because you have no self control or decency. Lovely. No, I said I'll look at whatever the f*** I want. It's absolutely ridiculous to expect everyone else to avoid looking at you because YOU dressed inappropriately. It's like me wearing a speedo and expecting nobody to look at my banana hammock. Looking doesn't = ogling either. Like, does anyone literally just sit there and blatantly stare at people? No, we do that shit on the sly. Again, they're my eyes and I will point them in whatever direction I choose to. You don't want me to see you? Then go somewhere else. It's a pretty simple concept that somehow gets lost with this whole white knight stuff. Fun story. A co-worker had that exact thing happen when someone literally stood there (not sat) and ogled her. It got to the point where she yelled at him to stop, he didn't, so she went up to him and threatened him. I also hate the white knight stuff people claim. How dare people complain about women being mistreated. Why would they stand up against bullshit? They're not gonna get pussy anyway. So looking doesn't equal ogling or harassing. I think most people, men or women know that, but if it is uncomfortable staring, then yes, it does entail harassment. And depending on the place, like at work or something, it will be you going someplace else. I understand as a male it can be hard, I'll admit I've done it, but I also try to stop myself and take heed of what I'm doing and understand that looking or staring for a least a small extended period of time can make someone uncomfortable and people have the right to go somewhere without feeling uncomfortable. I guess that's what always burns my craw when reading threads like these. The insane lack of empathy shown. The sexism is annoying, but it comes from the lack of empathy people have for others, and usually here on this board, the others are women. On top of the original topic of some people can't wear something while hot because they'll be shamed for it.
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Post by Raskovnik on Aug 27, 2014 16:23:04 GMT -5
Who cares? Keep trying to chase perfection, more sexy, chubby chicks for me. Man, this post makes me happy. It takes all kinds. Different strokes to move the world.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2014 16:32:12 GMT -5
I'm terribly sorry someone had to suffer the indignity of witnessing something that wasn't visually pleasing to them. Pooh also doesn't have pants, so I can't say his is a midriff top To be fair, I don't think anyone but Christopher Robin in the 100 Acre Wood wears pants, either, unless you count Piglet's singlet thing, but if you have a shit and no pants, it stands out more. You know I'd never thought about Piglet's attire before as a singlet, but now in my head, Piglet will forever be a former collegiate wrestler.
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Post by rapidfire187 on Aug 27, 2014 16:36:38 GMT -5
I just showed this thread to one of my female friends. She seems to agree with the idea that women dress that way for attention usually. She also said that she has trouble not looking at cleavage when chicks dress that way, and she's completely straight. Does that mean she's insensitive to women?
I really do not like how quick people on this board are to make personal character judgments based on a simple comment. You guys don't know me, especially not well enough to say who I do and don't have respect for. Like, I'm imagining talking to a cute girl with a low cut top and thinking of how I would take a glance or two, but some people here take that to mean something really vile.
My whole point is that it's easier to change your actions as an individual than it is to change everybody. If you keep getting stares, you're the only person that can fix that, even if it means compromising your style.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2014 16:43:00 GMT -5
My whole point is that it's easier to change your actions as an individual than it is to change everybody. If you keep getting stares, you're the only person that can fix that, even if it means compromising your style. I agree. It is easier to change your actions as an individual.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Aug 27, 2014 16:46:46 GMT -5
There seems to be two issues here; larger women wearing revealing clothing and men objectifying women. Which is it?
My answer is I'm gonna look and I don't mind a little muffin top.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2014 16:51:05 GMT -5
Creepy thread, dudes!
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Post by BRV on Aug 27, 2014 16:55:14 GMT -5
It's fine for anyone to find it attractive, just as much as it's fine for anyone to find it unattractive.
Hate to be sitting on the flagpole on this one, but that's really what it comes down to.
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