agent817
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Post by agent817 on Nov 22, 2014 9:53:00 GMT -5
Okay, there is this girl at the gym who caught my attention a while ago, but I have not said a single word to her yet.
We have made eye contact with each other before, but usually result in a smile or polite smirk. That's pretty much it. However, today, and I had not seen this girl for two weeks, and for about a month now, I mostly see her once a week because of a different schedule I have. Today, we made eye contact with each other, but it's one of those moments where I catch her looking in my direction and I make a quick glance. That was it.
However, it happened again later on when I think she was leaving and I was in the middle of doing sit-ups and I caught her looking in my direction from a distance. This isn't the first time that this has happened, by the way. However, it had been a couple of weeks since I've seen her and even the last time I saw her, I don't recall paying much attention to her. I don't stare at her. I may make a glance, but I still maintain my focus on my workout.
What do you think the deal was? Like I said, it had been a couple of weeks since I had last seen her, and yet I noticed her kind of looking at me from a distance.
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Bad Moon
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Post by Bad Moon on Nov 22, 2014 10:07:26 GMT -5
Ask her out to some casual sex.
If she says no, just settle on coffee or a late lunch or something and see where things go from there.
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Goldenbane
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Post by Goldenbane on Nov 22, 2014 10:16:27 GMT -5
Yeealgh! She vas looking at youra little gurly mahn arms! Ya! Stop looking at all da gurls and get to PUMPING YOURA SELF UP!!!
What the...I didn't type that? Dang it, Schwarzenegger must be getting on my computer again!!!
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Post by Brother Nero....Wolfe on Nov 22, 2014 10:32:24 GMT -5
Make up an excuse to talk to her. My favorite excuse for situations like this is pretending you are waiting for a workout buddy who is not showing up. The plan involves shaking your head, seeming torn between disappointment and anger, the kind that makes you go "Oh brother, really?" because that's the perfect tone to have. You go up to the girl and you're like "Hey, did you see a guy that looks like..." once she obviously says no, you then complain about that friend and try to turn the conversation back to her, like "Yeah, you know those people who--" and then just take things from there. Like, see how comfortable she is talking to you about random stuff or if she's obviously waiting to get away. If it's the latter, politely excuse yourself and no harm to your pride. If it's the former, then keep going and see where things take you.
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Welfare Willis
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Post by Welfare Willis on Nov 22, 2014 10:44:55 GMT -5
Go for it, dude. if the worse happens then that's one less person you have to care about. If the best happens then you'll be too busy BONING THE HELL OUT THAT GIRL to talk to us.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2014 11:06:42 GMT -5
If porn taught me anything its to whip it out and if she notices she'll approach you and have sex with you and nobody will notice or do anything about it. Except for her bf if she has one and he'll want to join in on the action
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Sparkybob
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Post by Sparkybob on Nov 22, 2014 11:21:12 GMT -5
If porn taught me anything its to whip it out and if she notices she'll approach you and have sex with you and nobody will notice or do anything about it. Except for her bf if she has one and he'll want to join in on the action Also if you whip it out make sure you have a box of pizza with you. |
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Nov 22, 2014 11:22:49 GMT -5
Try this approach:
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Professor Chaos
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Post by Professor Chaos on Nov 22, 2014 11:50:19 GMT -5
Girl's HATE being hit on at the gym. I'd do some undercover work to try to run into her somewhere else.
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agent817
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Post by agent817 on Nov 22, 2014 12:12:35 GMT -5
Girl's HATE being hit on at the gym. I'd do some undercover work to try to run into her somewhere else. If I were only that lucky to run into her somewhere else. There's a small chance with that one. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2014 12:17:50 GMT -5
the gym is like anywhere else, just go up to her when she's not busy and make some small talk, crack a few jokes, and above all else smile. Guys make this shit way more complicated than it has any right to be.
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adamclark52
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Post by adamclark52 on Nov 22, 2014 12:21:52 GMT -5
If porn's taught me anything talk to her and you'll be boning her on a weight chair in no time.
Doing lunges with no underpants on usually works for Danny D.
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Post by Magic knows Black Lives Matter on Nov 22, 2014 12:26:30 GMT -5
the gym is like anywhere else, just go up to her when she's not busy and make some small talk, crack a few jokes, and above all else smile. Guys make this shit way more complicated than it has any right to be. Seriously, don't overthink this shit. Just go over and be friendly. If she ain't feeling you, move on. It really is that simple. |
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Post by Mid-Carder on Nov 22, 2014 13:00:42 GMT -5
Girl's HATE being hit on at the gym. I'd do some undercover work to try to run into her somewhere else. Girls may hate being hit on at the gym but we hate stalkers even more |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2014 14:07:09 GMT -5
the gym is like anywhere else, just go up to her when she's not busy and make some small talk, crack a few jokes, and above all else smile. Guys make this shit way more complicated than it has any right to be. Seriously, don't overthink this shit. Just go over and be friendly. If she ain't feeling you, move on. It really is that simple. Word. Also, don't make it awkward. Talk about workout stuff first to see if there's a rapport. Then ask her out to coffee or whatever. If she declines be sure to be very casual and not too let down about it in front of her. Keep it fun and light. |
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Legion
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Post by Legion on Nov 22, 2014 14:50:39 GMT -5
Just wave at her next time you see her looking over.
If she waves back, go and say hi, if she blanks you, not worth the bother.
A wave is friendly and non-threatening and isn't actually talking to her just in case she is only working out and you happened to be in her line of sight, and avoids the whole 'hitting on her at the gym' thing.
Just wave.
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Welfare Willis
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Post by Welfare Willis on Nov 22, 2014 16:30:23 GMT -5
Girl's HATE being hit on at the gym. I'd do some undercover work to try to run into her somewhere else. Girls may hate being hit on at the gym but we hate stalkers even more Yes, Mid-Carder who lives at 123 Fake Street, has a small dog, and doesn't close her bedroom window at night is right. |
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Post by Glitch on Nov 22, 2014 16:45:29 GMT -5
Remember, if you get turned down, the whole gym will turn in your direction and point and laugh. That's how stuff works.
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Post by Mid-Carder on Nov 22, 2014 16:50:21 GMT -5
Girls may hate being hit on at the gym but we hate stalkers even more Yes, Mid-Carder who lives at 123 Fake Street, has a small dog, and doesn't close her bedroom window at night is right. Well I'll be closing it tonight, after this! |
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Post by Main Eventer on Nov 22, 2014 17:10:38 GMT -5
If porn has taught me anything, that once you are finished doing what you are doing
Check your computer for viruses.
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