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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Dec 26, 2014 18:59:53 GMT -5
Hey well done. I keep telling guys that being friends with a girl is 50% of the mission accomplished, if indeed you want a romantic relationship with her. You can't have a romance without friendship I've tried that, doesn't seem to work either.
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Post by Pooh Carlson on Dec 26, 2014 19:40:06 GMT -5
Betting friendzoned isn't just about not having sex with that person. I got caught on the friendzone with somebody that, it wasn't just about sex, I thought we clicked so good as friends that there could be a future there, especially when it seems to me like she's flirty and such and then when she says she doesn't feel that way, its a ton of bricks in your lap. And then to see that person with somebody else not long after you poor your heart out and it's not reciprocated, that feeling sucks. With that person, I'm very good friends now and I'm just fine being friends at this point with her, but at the time, yeah it sucks. There were times that I had to stop talking to her or stop hanging out with her because I still had feelings and she had none, sometimes you need to do that to get over it. Either way, congrats on getting out of the friendzone! Again, I'm not talking about the topic itself, as I said above, but the actual term "friendzone" which puts negative and sexual connotations into being friends with a woman. I wasn't talking about just this topic either, but the term as a whole. Overall I think this'll be an agree to disagree situation anyway as we both view the term and it's making differently. Just giving my view and experience on the subject.
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Post by suave on Dec 26, 2014 19:47:19 GMT -5
It was, actually, we've kinda patched things up from that awkward spot and we joke about it now. I fail to see how it's only a one way street. Because you're still friends. She's not begrudging you friendship because you won't sleep with her edit: which is my problem with the term "friendzone", not this topic by the way. It's a lot of negative connotations that I don't like Oh, I see what you mean. I think we have different understandings of the term.
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Post by "Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay on Dec 26, 2014 20:28:15 GMT -5
Something like that happened with me recently only I never felt "friendzoned". The girl is incredibly hot and 18 so I had always assumed she wouldn't be into me. I jusy avoided looking at her that way. We had hung out several times over the last year and she ended up asking me out. Suddenly, she was making me feel amazing about myself. Sadly, I think it ruined our friendship. We've had several breakups and fights already. It's almost like she's trying to break my heart. She brings other guys around, talks or texts on her phone constantly and asks for big favors every day. I only see her when I'm needed now. We haven't had sex in weeks yet she always hints at it. If I ever have a problem with any of this, she gets very verbally abusive and tries to withdraw from me. If I dump her, she just comes back afew days later begging me to take her back. Basically, she's driving me insane. I guess I'm saying be careful and have fun! So break up with her, lock your door, delete her from your phone, and f***ing ignore her. You are in a textbook abusive relationship. You need to stop that shit, immediately. Her being 18 and hot doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. Sorry to derail the thread but I ended up marrying my abusive nutjob and it left me as a husk of a person for a long time.
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Post by Dub H on Dec 26, 2014 20:55:26 GMT -5
Good for you man!I also dated my best friend
We broke up and went back to being best friends a few months later.
So if you are two mature people even if does not work out you can still be best friends.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Dec 26, 2014 21:52:10 GMT -5
Good for you man!I also dated my best friend We broke up and went back to being best friends a few months later. So if you are two mature people even if does not work out you can still be best friends. What's different? Just no sex?
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Post by Dub H on Dec 26, 2014 22:28:20 GMT -5
Good for you man!I also dated my best friend We broke up and went back to being best friends a few months later. So if you are two mature people even if does not work out you can still be best friends. What's different? Just no sex? That was a difference ? kidding kidding.But well basically same thing,except no dating,sex and doing less things together.
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