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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Jan 31, 2015 20:12:50 GMT -5
Long story short. I met this girl online, wasn't too sure if she wasn't interested or just very shy. We go out three times and kissed on the third date. I've tried to make future plans and my responses were. "Yeah, we'll plan something. " and "Yeah maybe". Our last date was two weeks ago. Is this just a matter of scheduling or am I just being weird. I am debating if I should just ask what's up? I'm worried I'll look needy. Is two weeks really that long? It feels like forever.
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Post by bluemeii on Jan 31, 2015 20:16:09 GMT -5
Not even going to get into the whole kissing thing or whatever. It's been only 3 dates. Try to schedule another date or 2, if you get the same brushback thing just move on and stop wasting your time. If she's interested she'll make time.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Jan 31, 2015 20:24:45 GMT -5
If she's interested she'll make time. Yeah, we haven't communicated since Tuesday. I've been anxiously waiting, I guess I just have to chalk this up as a loss.
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Post by bluemeii on Jan 31, 2015 20:28:41 GMT -5
If she's interested she'll make time. Yeah, we haven't communicated since Tuesday. I've been anxiously waiting, I guess I just have to chalk this up as a loss. Sucks man, g/l to you on the next go round though.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Jan 31, 2015 21:13:49 GMT -5
I just figured three dates would at least warrant a conversation, instead of just fading away.
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Post by bluemeii on Jan 31, 2015 22:39:27 GMT -5
I just figured three dates would at least warrant a conversation, instead of just fading away. You said it yourself man. She's shy. Probably didn't want the confrontation of a "it's over" talk. Probably hoping you just fade away so she won't have to.
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Post by revolver86 on Feb 1, 2015 0:42:16 GMT -5
I'm not incredibly successful, with women, but I've gotten a lot better, over the years, and you develop a sixth sense. Sure, guys are supposed to lead, but if a woman wants to be with you, you'll know it. That's the truth about all this advice bs and dating, whatever. All you have to do is put yourself out there. If a girl likes you, it will become obvious and you'll get comfortable. You lose every second you're trying to "make something happen". As much as we don't actually want to hear this, be yourself is important. The key is to not envy the guys that either bang a million chicks or shack up with the finest lady, if you put yourself in the world, exactly as you are, you might find someone that digs you. It's about not caring. Everyone gets exactly what they deserve.
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Post by The Unconquered Sun on Feb 1, 2015 1:21:51 GMT -5
i love it when i get to quote my favorite movies... "Nah! It's simple as pie man, you plant your feet on the ground, you look her square in the eyes you say "Hey! baby, you and me's goin' on a date, that's in the story"
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Post by Venti on Feb 1, 2015 1:33:14 GMT -5
She probably new that you would have a hard time balancing a relationship as Bruce Wayne and Batman
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Post by Chip Chipperson on Feb 1, 2015 4:44:24 GMT -5
It's likely she isn't interested. I'd send a final text just inviting her somewhere and if she says she's busy and doesn't try to re-schedule then she probably has no interest.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Feb 1, 2015 6:50:54 GMT -5
Honestly 3 dates in and just getting a first kiss feels she's just not into you. Sounds like she didn't feel anything from the first kiss and is done with you. I've been there. I wish you luck.
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Post by ededdneddy on Feb 1, 2015 13:02:15 GMT -5
To quote the Nostalgia Critic from his "Dawn of the Commercials" video
"men are just not smart enough to recognize when they're being hit on. We're kinda dumb that way. If a woman is not interested, that's the one we go for, but if a woman IS interested, we're blindly naive to it for some reason."
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Post by Sam Punk on Feb 1, 2015 15:24:54 GMT -5
So true.
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Post by Sephiroth on Feb 1, 2015 17:50:32 GMT -5
I just figured three dates would at least warrant a conversation, instead of just fading away. That's why it's better to burn out.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 1, 2015 18:14:39 GMT -5
If a girl want to be with you, then she will be with you.
Better luck next time
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