Has anyone ever been the person cheated with?

[Vice honcho room temperature]

To clarify since I fear my posts are never clear enough. Has anyone every been the person that the cheater cheats with knowingly or unknowingly?

[tommyvercetti]

Huh?


I mean....yes. I felt bad about it even though I didnt know the guy. But to my credit I've turned down ex gf's who had a bf at the time.

[chibidiablo]

Nope and I've even turned down opportunities to be "that" guy

[Baixo Astral]

Yes, to my shame... on one occasion, I and my university housemates were having a party, and some people were up in my room, myself, my friend John and Alison, his GF, included. I have a large, cardboard, hanging poster of Kate Winslet in my room - John was chatting on one side, and I was making out with Alison on the other. On another occasion, he was at the bar, getting us drinks, whilst I was making out with her on the dancefloor. Neither time was to his knowledge.

At the same party mentioned above, I went back to my friend's g/f's place, and then to his, and we made out in his room, on his bed. Hopefully, he never found out.

In my defence, although this was wrong, these are both girls I'd essentially LET the other guys have, cos I'm so diffident about actually coming on to girls.

On the other hand, I'm like a fat, casually-dressed version of this guy

[Johnny Danger (Godz)]

Not exactly, but I've stolen a girl before. She dumped the other guy before we did anything heavy though.

[TheDieselTrain]

Yeah they both happened within a year back in 1999. So this girl was a friend of my sis and we met and later we saw each other again at a party the same day and we ended up making out (which ironically was my 1st real kiss) and ya know having friendly conversation in my car and turns out on monday she cheated with a couple of people but the important thing is I was the 1st one

The 2nd time was on my senior trip to Aruba (before the island got crazy) and I met this girl at the bar and we talked and we ended up back in her room we both were VERY drunk and we were having a wild makeout session like on her bed with her on top of me and unbeknowst to me because the lights werent on her roomate was already in the room in her bed and I guess we woke her up and she says to me I dont think her FIANCE would enjoy that. So I was thinking to myself thanks for telling me. So her roomate was pretty much giving us both the evil eye so that pretty much signaled the end of my night with her so I left.

Then there was this time a few months ago I met this girl at a club and we were dancing and all and I guess she sees her b/f or ex b/f (I really wasnt paying attention) with another girl. So she says to me do you mind if I use you and i'm like damn right at least your telling me now. So she just brings me to where her guy is and just like gets all up on me trying to make him jealous and I played along with her. Needless to say I enjoyed it.

[Pierre the Renaissance Man]

I think so. I never had my 100% proof, but Im positive she was with someone else when she said she was with me. So basically she was cheating on both of us.

["Hollywood" Cactus Matt]

Does it count if the boyfriend is in jail?

Because I "dated" (a temrn I use loosely) a woman whose boyfriend was in jail for about a year. As soon as he was out, we broke up. Two months later, she was pregnant with his kid.



A month after that, he was back in jail.

[Dr. Marzvon Zombie M.D.]

I dont know if i have or not, have had a few ons and then seen the gf back with there bf's that they said they left so hmmm maybe i was just used for my body. DAMMIT ALL TO HELL I WAS USED I NEED A HUG!!!!

[eightyeight]

No, I wouldn't do that. I know what it's like to be cheated on so I wouldn't do that to a guy I don't know, he could be the best guy in the world for all I know.

[Ken Ivory]

Yea, earlier this year for about 3 months. An American girl was at my college for a semester and we just hit it off as soon as we met, really.

I didn't know/meet her boyfriend (who was back in the states) and we tried to call it off more than once but it never worked.

She's back in America now and we still keep in touch but she's back with her boyfriend now...i think (apparently "it's complicated")

[Deus Ex Machina]

Only once, that I know of.

I was out with some friends and we hooked up with some female friends of a friend.
One of these girls used to go to the same school I went to, but a year ahead of me. I was joking around and suddenly she's feeling me up and such. We end up at another bar where she drags me to the toilet, and tells me she "owns me now". I prove how little time I have for the game, by walking out and she comes after me. So she tries to gain the upper hand for a while, but I don't care, so she tells me she "has to see me naked".
She's adamant about not going back to her place and so we take a cab back to my apartment and do what grown drunken people do.
Afterwards she doesn't want to stay and sleep. She has to get home.
I'm probably a scumbag, but that was perfect with me.

A talk to my friend who knows her a few days later and he tells me she has a boyfriend.
I didn't and don't feel bad, because I didn't know, so it's not like I made her cheat or condone infidelity.
And like another friend said "You gotta feel good that someone had someone at home, but they would rather go home and sleep with you." ;D
I know: I'm a scumbag.

Postscript: I went to get tested for VD after I was with her (since I didn't know her) and while I was there, I asked to have a mole removed. It was later discovered that that mole had cancer in it and I was treated for it. I might not have had that mole removed, had I not slept with this woman.
I was told she had gotten married a month later and was about a month pregnant.
The marriage was true, but the pregnancy was just a joke to make me worried.

Practice safe sex, kids.

[Dr. T is an alien]

Nope, but there was this one girl that REALLY made me think about it. It was this beautiful blonde that I worked with with natural WWE Diva sized boobs (and yes, I do know that they were real). She really put some effort into getting anything out of me. She frequently rubbed against me when she walked by. She often leaned into me (face to boob) when I was sitting in the break room. I got to see a few flashes of skin that only your man or gyno should see. It was killing me that this girl had a boyfriend and was doing all of these things to me.

Edit: The killer is, I have no idea why she chose me. Trust me, she had hundreds of guys ask her out all of the time. I'm also no competition for Brad Pitt in the looks dept.

[Baixo Astral]

marzvon said:

I dont know if i have or not, have had a few ons and then seen the gf back with there bf's that they said they left so hmmm maybe i was just used for my body. DAMMIT ALL TO HELL I WAS USED I NEED A HUG!!!!

I WAS USED!!!

[Deus Ex Machina]

You down with OPP?
Yeah, you know me!

[T.J. "the Crippler" Stevens]

Yes. I broke up with my girlfriend before she went off to live at college. I told her I could not trust her. I had my reasons. She had done things in the past to make me question how trustworthy she was.

Anyway. Later that year, she had moved on to a new boyyfriend that she met in her dorm at UCONN. I went to visit her on campus. With her new boyfriend right down the hall in another room, she cheated on him with me. I guess I was right in my assumption that she couldn't be trusted.

[Two-Time Champ Darth Violence]

Yeah, I was the "other guy" at one point. I didn't really know it, and it was fun while it lasted...

[Deus Ex Machina]

crippler228 said:

Yes. I broke up with my girlfriend before she went off to live at college. I told her I could not trust her. I had my reasons. She had done things in the past to make me question how trustworthy she was.

Anyway. Later that year, she had moved on to a new boyyfriend that she met in her dorm at UCONN. I went to visit her on campus. With her new boyfriend right down the hall in another room, she cheated on him with me. I guess I was right in my assumption that she couldn't be trusted.

Oh, the irony.

["Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat]

Yeah I have, with this girl I used to work with, her boyfriend at the time was manager of another department in the store and his was a "Cee U Next Tuesday" for want of a better word.

We ended up doing stuff on her mates 21st birthday, wasn't that bad really, although I found out later she'd been around the store a few times

[BigBadZ]

I've never been that guy... yet. I say that because there is a girl I just started to hang out with and she has been kinda more friendly to me than the other guys we hang out with. Her b/f hangs out with us but I don't talk to him very much. When we are at parties, she hits the booze and usually comes for me. I don't know if I would do anything even tho if she was single, I'd definately go at it. She's pretty good looking.