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Post by lildude8218 on Nov 14, 2006 21:25:00 GMT -5
So my friend calls me up at noon today telling me he got fired and was going to the bar. I didn't really feel like going since I just got sick but figured he should have someone there. So I went and other friends showed up so I eventually left. I finally got home around 6:30-6:45 tonight.
Fast forward to now and he calls me up drunk off his ass asking me if I want to go to a strip club with him. I told him I didn't really want to and he's like "what? i'm dropping a whole bunch of money tonight, why?" So I said I didn't feel like driving all the way back out there and he gets this huge frickin attitude and gives me a "eh whatever" and hangs up on me.
Seriously, WTF?
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Nov 14, 2006 21:26:45 GMT -5
Meh. Depressed drunken friends are wonks. He's not looking for company, he's looking to wallow in his sorrows. I deal with them all the time when I work the door at the bar/restaurant I work at. They generally get belligerant enough that they do something dumb and we politely set them outside of the door...sometimes with bruises or a bloody nose, if necessary.
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Post by Deus Ex Machina on Nov 14, 2006 21:29:47 GMT -5
He needs you, man.
And if my friends need me to get a pair of boobs jiggled in my face, well, that's just a sacrifice I'm gonna have to make.
Seriously, though, he feels sad for losing a job and just wants to forget the sadness with some good times with his friends. I'd probably be a little upset if one of my friends didn't wanna stand by me in my time of crisis, but even at my most drunk I do realise that people have to get up on a weekday and can't stay out partying all night.
He'll probably feel bad about in the morning and you can make things better by forgiving him.
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Post by lildude8218 on Nov 14, 2006 21:33:19 GMT -5
He wasn't even upset about his job at all and he was falling asleep when I was there so I left him with the other people at our table.
Plus he was trying to get some stupid chick that he's not even interested in to go to the strip club with him anyway so I figured "why be a 3rd wheel?"
Actually it would've been more of a 4th wheel because he had a friend there who does nothing but go to strip clubs constantly.
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Nov 14, 2006 21:42:06 GMT -5
If that's the case, then I still don't think he was interested in having friends for a good time...I think he was just wanting to get sillily annihilated, and if he's sore at you for not jiving on that, then he probably needs to get some perspective on the situation...ya know...put himself in your shoes.
And if he was already as drunk as you're describing, there's a good chance (though not a certainty) that he'd, at best, make you madder'n hell at the strip club, and at worst, get you all in trouble for his antics. Gentlemen who make passes at ladies who aren't interested and is too drunk to stay away...well, damn, man...in my experience as a bouncer at the couple of joints I've done that at, they're not always trouble, but they're not always NOT trouble either.
You made the right choice, man. Give it until tomorrow or the next day, and I bet you guys can sort it out just fine.
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Post by Deus Ex Machina on Nov 14, 2006 21:43:48 GMT -5
But obviously he values your company the highest.
He's just struggling with changes in his life and trying to hide it under a veneer of happiness. But the paint is still wet and tears make it run.
Oh, and while I'm no expert on females at all (!) I'm pretty damn sure taking a girl to a strip club is not the best place for a date.
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Post by MGH on Nov 14, 2006 21:43:55 GMT -5
I've had one too many 2-3 AM phone calls from my friends than I wanted. But you know, nothing I can ever stay pissed about. Heh, serves me right. I'm the one out of our group who doesn't drink, I guess I have to get the calls.
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Post by lildude8218 on Nov 14, 2006 21:50:38 GMT -5
But obviously he values your company the highest. He's just struggling with changes in his life and trying to hide it under a veneer of happiness. But the paint is still wet and tears make it run. Oh, and while I'm no expert on females at all (!) I'm pretty damn sure taking a girl to a strip club is not the best place for a date. Just to clear a few things up. She wanted to go and it wasn't a date, just a hanging out thing since she's supposed to be more of a friend than anything. But then again at the same time he mentioned something about going home with her tonight. So who the hell knows anymore. I think it just bothers me that as drunk as either of us have ever been, neither of us have ever snapped like that at another person over something so small. |
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Nov 14, 2006 22:13:40 GMT -5
Which is justification for you. It seems like his judgement is a wee bit impaired from the alcohol, and the fact that he's hashed over the fact that you chose to make a responsible decision seems like it lends credit to that theory.
I'd say relax, man. I feel like you have every right to be bothered by this. But I also think that after a day or two, you guys will sort it out just fine.
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Post by Voldemar H. "Brak" Guerta on Nov 14, 2006 22:49:44 GMT -5
F'N your friends while they are drunk is certainly not a very friendly thing to do...  |
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Post by TuneinTokyo on Nov 14, 2006 22:59:01 GMT -5
Hopefully his drunk ass ain't drivin' to the club.
And for the record, if one of my friends said he was dumping change at the titty bar then sick or not I make the drive.
I never say no to two things free food and free titty.
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Nov 14, 2006 22:59:12 GMT -5
F'N your friends while they are drunk is certainly not a very friendly thing to do... Hey, I've had a friend or two that were VERY friendly with the F'N when drunk... Just not with me. So the hell with 'em. |
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Post by Deus Ex Machina on Nov 14, 2006 23:00:46 GMT -5
But obviously he values your company the highest. He's just struggling with changes in his life and trying to hide it under a veneer of happiness. But the paint is still wet and tears make it run. Oh, and while I'm no expert on females at all (!) I'm pretty damn sure taking a girl to a strip club is not the best place for a date. Just to clear a few things up. She wanted to go and it wasn't a date, just a hanging out thing since she's supposed to be more of a friend than anything. But then again at the same time he mentioned something about going home with her tonight. So who the hell knows anymore. I think it just bothers me that as drunk as either of us have ever been, neither of us have ever snapped like that at another person over something so small. So... lemme get this straight: She wanted to go, wanted to be a friend and wanted to go home with him anyway tonight?? Can I have her phone number? |
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Nov 15, 2006 0:47:42 GMT -5
Just to clear a few things up. She wanted to go and it wasn't a date, just a hanging out thing since she's supposed to be more of a friend than anything. But then again at the same time he mentioned something about going home with her tonight. So who the hell knows anymore. I think it just bothers me that as drunk as either of us have ever been, neither of us have ever snapped like that at another person over something so small. So... lemme get this straight: She wanted to go, wanted to be a friend and wanted to go home with him anyway tonight?? Can I have her phone number? That'd be a helluva score...if you pull it off, I'll regard you as I do Ash and Duke Nukem... HAIL TO THE KING, BABY! |
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Post by lildude8218 on Nov 15, 2006 1:15:12 GMT -5
Just to clear a few things up. She wanted to go and it wasn't a date, just a hanging out thing since she's supposed to be more of a friend than anything. But then again at the same time he mentioned something about going home with her tonight. So who the hell knows anymore. I think it just bothers me that as drunk as either of us have ever been, neither of us have ever snapped like that at another person over something so small. So... lemme get this straight: She wanted to go, wanted to be a friend and wanted to go home with him anyway tonight?? Can I have her phone number? Trust me....the bads outweigh the goods with that one. She's one of those girls who thinks and says how effing hot she is when she's just sort of ok looking. I remember she was trying to think of costume ideas for Halloween and said something about being Meg from Family Guy but then paused and said "No, I'm too cute to be Meg" and I just sat saying to myself "Bite your tongue, bite your tongue, bite your tongue." |
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Nov 15, 2006 1:18:34 GMT -5
DAMMIT!
Would everyone quit no-selling my Ash and Duke Nukem tonight?
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Post by grapejellydoesit on Nov 15, 2006 1:28:50 GMT -5
I used to have this ex boyfriend who would call me up every so often around 4:am to ask me to come get him cuz he was too drunk to drive. He'd usually be at the strip club.
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Post by Rorschach on Nov 15, 2006 3:27:45 GMT -5
*Cues up Evanescense's "You Never Call Me When You're Sober" on the WrestleCrap jukebox.......*
That song rings pretty true to you then, huh?
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Post by Deus Ex Machina on Nov 15, 2006 8:20:38 GMT -5
I used to have this ex boyfriend who would call me up every so often around 4:am to ask me to come get him cuz he was too drunk to drive. He'd usually be at the strip club. I have a theory about how he became an ex. |
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Post by superfoe on Nov 15, 2006 8:48:23 GMT -5
I used to have this ex boyfriend who would call me up every so often around 4:am to ask me to come get him cuz he was too drunk to drive. He'd usually be at the strip club. I have a theory about how he became an ex. Me too... He left the cap off of the toothpaste, didn't he? |
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