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Post by BRAINFADE on May 24, 2019 23:38:16 GMT -5
Probably not so much of a small thing, but displaying any kind of bigotry towards anything. Makes me completely write off a person and makes me want to have nothing to do with them.
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Post by The 1Watcher Experience on May 25, 2019 1:43:26 GMT -5
Insecurity or paranoia. I realize that may be an unusual reason not to trust someone but I’ll explain. I’ve had insecure or paranoid friends, co-workers and girlfriends before. Many of them didn’t value themselves enough and screwed me over in some way because they thought I didn’t value our relationships or that I was going to screw them over for whatever reason so I guess they had to betray me in some way before I could do whatever they thought I was going to do to them. Idk. I had to explain to them that we were cool but now we’re obviously not. If I’m too busy to talk it doesn’t mean I’m angry or cheating or that I no longer like someone. It simply means I’m too busy at the moment or that day and I will get back to you. Once I made an effort to spend less time with insecure and paranoid people my quality of friends, acquaintances and girlfriends went way up. Stability rules.
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Post by SmashTV on May 25, 2019 6:07:24 GMT -5
Letting you down when they rarely did before and then lying about what they actually did instead.
Yes, I’m talking from experience.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on May 25, 2019 7:18:48 GMT -5
A person who I really do love. Well, she’s still alive and far as I know hasn’t killed anyone, imagine whatever you want and it’s happened.
I’m not kidding.
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Post by The Dark Order Inferno on May 25, 2019 8:20:02 GMT -5
If someone tells me someone else's secrets, I'll never fully trust them again. It doesn't matter if they trust me not to repeat it, someone else trusted them and they broke that trust.
It's bad form.
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Post by "Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay on May 25, 2019 10:59:38 GMT -5
If I’m dating a girl, I also find it hard to trust her if she’s got a bunch of guys texting her and telling her how hot she is. That’s probably my problem however. That's not your problem, it's hers. She shouldn't be talking to a bunch of dudesthat speak to her that way. It's okay if she has a couple of male friends or whatever that are just platonic friends. They should be the guys texting her about what happened on Game Of Thrones, not the dickheads trying to get into her pants. It is 100% his problem, no loyalty is owed after any number of dates without discussion.
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Post by The 1Watcher Experience on May 25, 2019 12:33:02 GMT -5
That's not your problem, it's hers. She shouldn't be talking to a bunch of dudesthat speak to her that way. It's okay if she has a couple of male friends or whatever that are just platonic friends. They should be the guys texting her about what happened on Game Of Thrones, not the dickheads trying to get into her pants. It is 100% his problem, no loyalty is owed after any number of dates without discussion. Yeah, I have to agree. Maybe she’s a player. Maybe she’s not. If you don’t feel comfortable and can’t handle who she talks to then she’s probably not for you. You can’t tell someone who they can or can’t be friends with. It’s best to move on instead of stressing yourself out about it. There are plenty of girls that don’t have a bunch of guys chasing them around like their own personal fan club. Lots of people are looking for attention or validation through social media so if anyone has insecurity issues with that they’re probably going to have a tough time dating. My gf was posting lots of cute pics on her snapchat before we met. She’d get comments on there from random guys all the time. I never sweated it. I don’t get jealous because that’s a huge turn off to me and I don’t feel a need to compete with anyone. One day she just deleted it on her own. I never asked her to and I never would have. I guess it was her way of showing me that she only needed my attention or something. It really wasn’t necessary but I appreciated the gesture.
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Post by EvenBaldobombHasAJob on May 26, 2019 6:44:53 GMT -5
It is 100% his problem, no loyalty is owed after any number of dates without discussion. Yeah, I have to agree. Maybe she’s a player. Maybe she’s not. If you don’t feel comfortable and can’t handle who she talks to then she’s probably not for you. You can’t tell someone who they can or can’t be friends with. It’s best to move on instead of stressing yourself out about it. There are plenty of girls that don’t have a bunch of guys chasing them around like their own personal fan club. Lots of people are looking for attention or validation through social media so if anyone has insecurity issues with that they’re probably going to have a tough time dating. My gf was posting lots of cute pics on her snapchat before we met. She’d get comments on there from random guys all the time. I never sweated it. I don’t get jealous because that’s a huge turn off to me and I don’t feel a need to compete with anyone. One day she just deleted it on her own. I never asked her to and I never would have. I guess it was her way of showing me that she only needed my attention or something. It really wasn’t necessary but I appreciated the gesture. basically how I feel too. women get random messages from guys they barely know telling them they're hot all the time. and there's not much they can do about it, sadly. it's really not something worth getting worked up about at all.
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Post by "Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay on May 26, 2019 10:35:00 GMT -5
Yeah, I have to agree. Maybe she’s a player. Maybe she’s not. If you don’t feel comfortable and can’t handle who she talks to then she’s probably not for you. You can’t tell someone who they can or can’t be friends with. It’s best to move on instead of stressing yourself out about it. There are plenty of girls that don’t have a bunch of guys chasing them around like their own personal fan club. Lots of people are looking for attention or validation through social media so if anyone has insecurity issues with that they’re probably going to have a tough time dating. My gf was posting lots of cute pics on her snapchat before we met. She’d get comments on there from random guys all the time. I never sweated it. I don’t get jealous because that’s a huge turn off to me and I don’t feel a need to compete with anyone. One day she just deleted it on her own. I never asked her to and I never would have. I guess it was her way of showing me that she only needed my attention or something. It really wasn’t necessary but I appreciated the gesture. basically how I feel too. women get random messages from guys they barely know telling them they're hot all the time. and there's not much they can do about it, sadly. it's really not something worth getting worked up about at all. This is true, but also, she's perfectly entitled to just enjoy getting messages from a bunch of guys, she doesn't owe anybody anything.
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