Advice with the Meat that has Heat

[eeriebagel]

gmanquik said:

eeriebagel said:

That is such truth.

Yes, prepare to have harass you at all times. I will always win. :-D

.... *grammar police*

[gmanquik]

gmanquik said:

eeriebagel said:

That is such truth.

Yes, prepare to have me harass you at all times. I will always win. :-D

Edit. So eat it, Bagel!

[eeriebagel]

see what i mean, Meat?

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

eeriebagel said:

see what i mean, Meat?

You did it to yourself.

Told ya. And as long as you reply to him, he'll be all over you.

[gmanquik]

Eheheheh...I win so much. :-D

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

gmanquik said:

Eheheheh...I win so much. :-D

If by winning you mean, killed my thread, then yes... you are correct sir.












I'm kidding with you... ja kno.

[eeriebagel]

No, this thread can't be dead!

But you helped me so much with my problems!

[jcdenton]

b... u... m...



HEY!

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

Questions? Somebody? Anybody?

[humanoid]

Mr. Meat, Your campaign seems to have the momentum of a runaway train, to what to you owe your immense popularity?

[Johnny]

Why am I so cool? I have cool jobs and am leaving in twenty minutes to see Bob Saget do stand up comedy so answer quickly.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

humanoid said:

Mr. Meat, Your campaign seems to have the momentum of a runaway train, to what to you owe your immense popularity?

Dear Mr Humanoid,

That is actually a rather well thought out question.

I gather I am popular because I tell it like it is. I don't BS, and can sometimes be funny. (Other times, it's a crash and burn in the joke department.)

Besides, as you know... He-Man fans = Best people on this planet. Thank you.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

johnnysb said:

Why am I so cool? I have cool jobs and am leaving in twenty minutes to see Bob Saget do stand up comedy so answer quickly.

Dear Johnny,

You are cool because you WANT to be cool.

The more confidence one has, the better you want to be. Now, if only everyone out there in TVLand had confidence, we wouldn't have whiners and people blaming each other living amongst us.

As far as Bobby Saget goes, hopefully you asked him how Lori Loughlin was doing.

[Johnny]

thewarryah said:

johnnysb said:

Why am I so cool? I have cool jobs and am leaving in twenty minutes to see Bob Saget do stand up comedy so answer quickly.

Dear Johnny,

You are cool because you WANT to be cool.

The more confidence one has, the better you want to be. Now, if only everyone out there in TVLand had confidence, we wouldn't have whiners and people blaming each other living amongst us.

As far as Bobby Saget goes, hopefully you asked him how Lori Loughlin was doing.

Sorry Meat, didn't get to meat Bob Saget. And thanks for the answer.

I could use a tad of real advice. I was invited to a coworkers wedding, and by the way people are talking, I should bring a date. I am currently not dating, is it cool to ask a female friend of mine to go with me? Its really a just for show date. I don't know if thats breaking a friend barrier or not.

[BigBadZ]

Ok, so this girl I like and am very close to has been ditching me as of late, a whole lot. She's that 'I only wanna be friends' type, which I am cool with and have dealt with for a very long time. So anyways, yesterday she starts arguing with me and I smart off to her and I tell her she is being very annoying and to just stop talking to me.

I plan on waiting for her to apologize (which I assume will happen tonight or tomorrow) but do you think I should apologize for this one? I don't want to lose my closest friend but then again I don't wanna lose face on this one...

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

johnnysb said:

thewarryah said:

Dear Johnny,

You are cool because you WANT to be cool.

The more confidence one has, the better you want to be. Now, if only everyone out there in TVLand had confidence, we wouldn't have whiners and people blaming each other living amongst us.

As far as Bobby Saget goes, hopefully you asked him how Lori Loughlin was doing.

Sorry Meat, didn't get to meat Bob Saget. And thanks for the answer.

I could use a tad of real advice. I was invited to a coworkers wedding, and by the way people are talking, I should bring a date. I am currently not dating, is it cool to ask a female friend of mine to go with me? Its really a just for show date. I don't know if thats breaking a friend barrier or not.

Dear Johnny,

Ask the hottest lady friend that you have out to the wedding. You go to a wedding to have fun. There shouldn't be any stress over it. Besides, weddings are a GREAT place to hook up, so if you take someone that's just a friend, it'll be that much easier for BOTH of you to hook up with someone.

The reason I said, take the hottest lady friend that you have is, your stock grows when you are seen with a hot girl. Other hot girls notice, and wonder what it is that you have that enables you to be with such a hot girl.

Worst case: you both get drunk and hook up with eachother And it shouldn't get weird, because it was just a wedding and not really a "date" after all. Good luck!

[humanoid]

thewarryah said:

johnnysb said:

Sorry Meat, didn't get to meat Bob Saget. And thanks for the answer.

I could use a tad of real advice. I was invited to a coworkers wedding, and by the way people are talking, I should bring a date. I am currently not dating, is it cool to ask a female friend of mine to go with me? Its really a just for show date. I don't know if thats breaking a friend barrier or not.

Dear Johnny,

Ask the hottest lady friend that you have out to the wedding. You go to a wedding to have fun. There shouldn't be any stress over it. Besides, weddings are a GREAT place to hook up, so if you take someone that's just a friend, it'll be that much easier for BOTH of you to hook up with someone.

The reason I said, take the hottest lady friend that you have is, your stock grows when you are seen with a hot girl. Other hot girls notice, and wonder what it is that you have that enables you to be with such a hot girl.

Worst case: you both get drunk and hook up with eachother And it shouldn't get weird, because it was just a wedding and not really a "date" after all. Good luck!

Good advice. Damn I miss not being married.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

bigbadz said:

Ok, so this girl I like and am very close to has been ditching me as of late, a whole lot. She's that 'I only wanna be friends' type, which I am cool with and have dealt with for a very long time. So anyways, yesterday she starts arguing with me and I smart off to her and I tell her she is being very annoying and to just stop talking to me.

I plan on waiting for her to apologize (which I assume will happen tonight or tomorrow) but do you think I should apologize for this one? I don't want to lose my closest friend but then again I don't wanna lose face on this one...

Dear Big Badz,

You're waiting for her to apologize? I wouldn't hold my breathe if I were you. In general, women are never wrong. It takes a lot for them to face the fact that they were wrong.

And in this case, she wasn't wrong. So she isn't about to apologize. It sounds like you are jealous, and you took it out on her for something trivial. You want to spend more time with her, and for whatever reasons, she just doesn't have time for you right now. Hence, when you finally do get to spend time with her, you were being a punk, which made her act out towards you... and made you tell her off.

See, it's all your fault. You just have to apologize for being that way with her, and you have to learn: if you're "just a friend," you have to be ready for her to not spend time with you if there's a boyfriend, or guys to date around. That's why, I personally believe, that while cool to go out with a girl, once you enter friends zone, you move on. Because eventually, she'll find a man and you'll be left out in the cold.

Hope everything turns out well for you.

What, you're still here, reading? GO APOLOGIZE ALREADY!

This is all you need to say:
"Hey <insert girls name here>, I just want to apologize to you for being rude to you the other day. It was a bad day, and I took it out on you. It wasn't right of me to do that. Hopefully you can forgive me."

See? You say you're sorry, yet you are ambiguous about what exactly you did, AND you don't have to explain that fact you acted like a punk was because you were jealous. PLUS it makes you look like a man in her eyes cuz you man'd up to what happened. It's win-win.

[BigBadZ]

thewarryah said:

bigbadz said:

Ok, so this girl I like and am very close to has been ditching me as of late, a whole lot. She's that 'I only wanna be friends' type, which I am cool with and have dealt with for a very long time. So anyways, yesterday she starts arguing with me and I smart off to her and I tell her she is being very annoying and to just stop talking to me.

I plan on waiting for her to apologize (which I assume will happen tonight or tomorrow) but do you think I should apologize for this one? I don't want to lose my closest friend but then again I don't wanna lose face on this one...

Dear Big Badz,

You're waiting for her to apologize? I wouldn't hold my breathe if I were you. In general, women are never wrong. It takes a lot for them to face the fact that they were wrong.

And in this case, she wasn't wrong. So she isn't about to apologize. It sounds like you are jealous, and you took it out on her for something trivial. You want to spend more time with her, and for whatever reasons, she just doesn't have time for you right now. Hence, when you finally do get to spend time with her, you were being a punk, which made her act out towards you... and made you tell her off.

See, it's all your fault. You just have to apologize for being that way with her, and you have to learn: if you're "just a friend," you have to be ready for her to not spend time with you if there's a boyfriend, or guys to date around. That's why, I personally believe, that while cool to go out with a girl, once you enter friends zone, you move on. Because eventually, she'll find a man and you'll be left out in the cold.

Hope everything turns out well for you.

What, you're still here, reading? GO APOLOGIZE ALREADY!

This is all you need to say:
"Hey <insert girls name here>, I just want to apologize to you for being rude to you the other day. It was a bad day, and I took it out on you. It wasn't right of me to do that. Hopefully you can forgive me."

See? You say you're sorry, yet you are ambiguous about what exactly you did, AND you don't have to explain that fact you acted like a punk was because you were jealous. PLUS it makes you look like a man in her eyes cuz you man'd up to what happened. It's win-win.

See I was thinking that too, and yes she is usually the one to apologize even if we both knew I was wrong. But I don't like it when she lies to my face plus the fact she has been ditching me (not for guys mind you but 'better things' I suppose) She's had her boyfriends and I have never talked bad about any of them, so jealousy is somewhat there but not a factor for me to get mad at her... My friends hate her because they say she runs over me, which has happened before but not how our friendship goes.

I guess the way I am looking at this situation is despite my feelings for her, I have to treat her just like I would treat anyone else who lies and ditches me constantly. So I guess the real point of this HUGE post is, even if I didnt care for her in that way, how would you handle this situation?

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

bigbadz said:

thewarryah said:

Dear Big Badz,

You're waiting for her to apologize? I wouldn't hold my breathe if I were you. In general, women are never wrong. It takes a lot for them to face the fact that they were wrong.

And in this case, she wasn't wrong. So she isn't about to apologize. It sounds like you are jealous, and you took it out on her for something trivial. You want to spend more time with her, and for whatever reasons, she just doesn't have time for you right now. Hence, when you finally do get to spend time with her, you were being a punk, which made her act out towards you... and made you tell her off.

See, it's all your fault. You just have to apologize for being that way with her, and you have to learn: if you're "just a friend," you have to be ready for her to not spend time with you if there's a boyfriend, or guys to date around. That's why, I personally believe, that while cool to go out with a girl, once you enter friends zone, you move on. Because eventually, she'll find a man and you'll be left out in the cold.

Hope everything turns out well for you.

What, you're still here, reading? GO APOLOGIZE ALREADY!

This is all you need to say:
"Hey <insert girls name here>, I just want to apologize to you for being rude to you the other day. It was a bad day, and I took it out on you. It wasn't right of me to do that. Hopefully you can forgive me."

See? You say you're sorry, yet you are ambiguous about what exactly you did, AND you don't have to explain that fact you acted like a punk was because you were jealous. PLUS it makes you look like a man in her eyes cuz you man'd up to what happened. It's win-win.

See I was thinking that too, and yes she is usually the one to apologize even if we both knew I was wrong. But I don't like it when she lies to my face plus the fact she has been ditching me (not for guys mind you but 'better things' I suppose) She's had her boyfriends and I have never talked bad about any of them, so jealousy is somewhat there but not a factor for me to get mad at her... My friends hate her because they say she runs over me, which has happened before but not how our friendship goes.

I guess the way I am looking at this situation is despite my feelings for her, I have to treat her just like I would treat anyone else who lies and ditches me constantly. So I guess the real point of this HUGE post is, even if I didnt care for her in that way, how would you handle this situation?

BigBadz,

You didn't apolgoize. Alright, I took you for granted. Thought you were like the other guys on the board.

K, if it were me, I would just leave her alone. If she wants to treat you like that, then let it be. Seriously, if she wanted you alongside her when she went out, you would be there.

And if she starts calling you to go out and hang or whatever, leave it alone. Make yourself busy. Shoot, you can be home scratching yourself, but tell her your busy, and you'll be home late.

You were probably too available to her, and she took it for granted. (if what you are saying is true). And she probably knows all she has to do is say 'im sorry, do you want to go to the mall so you can buy some stuff?' and you'll be right back at her doorstep. So now, teach her a lesson. Can it cost you your friendship? Possibly. But is it really a friendship if she has been walking all over you? I don't think so.