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Post by The"threadicidal"bristolspapa on Jun 29, 2007 12:34:32 GMT -5
So did you cheat on the woman? Get accidentally castrated? How did you indirectly hurt yourself? She needs to forgive whatever it is, or cut you loose. Living like this isn't healthy.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Jun 29, 2007 12:41:01 GMT -5
I can't get a job. Applied damn near everywhere. I have school loans to pay off and I have no money...
A girl I was interested in was going to give me a shot, then decided her near 40 year old guitar teacher would be better for her. Every other woman seems to either be attached to someone else or uninterested...
I've lived with depression for two years and this isn't really helping the recovery.
I got stuck in Idaho because of horrible airline/airport happenings, and it blows hard since I hated it out here when I was younger and I hate it now.
And to make things awkward, I find the easiest to talk about my problems to either the cat, or a BeGoths doll....
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Post by Maidpool w/ Cleaning Action on Jun 29, 2007 12:41:25 GMT -5
Meat go down to your closest mall and pretend like an army of the undead is coming to invade and build a fort! That's what I (don't) do when I'm feeling down.
Actually usually I just play games and watch movies so I don't know. Well, I like to take a hike if I'm in the mountains, or watch the tide if I'm at the beach (Outer Banks!). Especially with a sunset or moonlit or something. Nature makes me feel nice.
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 29, 2007 12:43:57 GMT -5
Oh come on. You can't stay down like that. If the hair place is close...then massage your own scalp. Head to a store and get some of that Tea Tree shampoo if you can, or something with mint in it. It feels wonderful. Also, if all else fails, try to have a good cry, and let it all out. You'll feel much better...and although there's another 'stress reliever' I can think of, I'm not gonna say it, but you likely know what it is. Don't make me beat you, Meat!  I can't massage my own head... it's not as fun. (that goes for both the ideas you had, you know what I'm saying). As for crying, real men don't cry. And if they do, they don't cry for three days straight. In their beds. Clutching a teddy bear that smells like their fiancee. Ahem. And no, I haven't cheated on her. I would never do anything like that. And if I were castrated, um, man. That would suck. I guess there are worst things, huh. She most likely will cut me loose, and that's what has me the saddest of all. |
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Post by gmanquik on Jun 29, 2007 12:46:24 GMT -5
Oh come on. You can't stay down like that. If the hair place is close...then massage your own scalp. Head to a store and get some of that Tea Tree shampoo if you can, or something with mint in it. It feels wonderful. Also, if all else fails, try to have a good cry, and let it all out. You'll feel much better...and although there's another 'stress reliever' I can think of, I'm not gonna say it, but you likely know what it is. Don't make me beat you, Meat! I can't massage my own head... it's not as fun. (that goes for both the ideas you had, you know what I'm saying). As for crying, real men don't cry. And if they do, they don't cry for three days straight. In their beds. Clutching a teddy bear that smells like their fiancee. Ahem. And no, I haven't cheated on her. I would never do anything like that. And if I were castrated, um, man. That would suck. I guess there are worst things, huh. She most likely will cut me loose, and that's what has me the saddest of all. Aww, then do what I think will heal you best--head to a grocery store, and get some Haagen-Dazs, or some Ben and Jerry's. Albeit not healthy, it just tastes so yummy! And if we can't figure it out here, I am gonna beat you, Meat. |
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 29, 2007 12:55:25 GMT -5
subba... you'll be okay. there's more than one girl out there, so im pretty sure you'll find one. It's not all about relationships and stuff, it's all about having fun. You are probably young, and need to do stuff for yourself right now. Make yourself happy, doing whatever you can to acheive that... and you'll be alright.
As for Idaho... I would suggest coming to Southern California. You can get a job easily, and if you are still sad, you'll always have the beach to cheer you up. I think that's where I'll end up today. Just walking on the beach.
Deadpool - I've been watching Simpsons season 8 and 9, with commentary... I can't really get into movies or plotlines if I'm sad. Hence my XBox getting pushed aside as well.
Fetus, I know you mean well, but I'm lactose intolerant. Ice Cream + me = BAD THINGS. I love ice cream too... so yeah, it bites.
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Post by gmanquik on Jun 29, 2007 12:56:54 GMT -5
Ugh, everyone is lactoseintolerant. :-( Skip the ice cream, and get some Luigi's Italian Ice. Same effect, as long as you're not allergic to strawberry or lemon. I'm really sorry. :-(
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Jun 29, 2007 13:14:43 GMT -5
subba... you'll be okay. there's more than one girl out there, so im pretty sure you'll find one. It's not all about relationships and stuff, it's all about having fun. You are probably young, and need to do stuff for yourself right now. Make yourself happy, doing whatever you can to acheive that... and you'll be alright. As for Idaho... I would suggest coming to Southern California. You can get a job easily, and if you are still sad, you'll always have the beach to cheer you up. I think that's where I'll end up today. Just walking on the beach. Yeah. I've got a few confidence/esteem issues to work through before I can really do anything. And I know I'm young(21), but I sure as hell don't feel it. I feel about 35... And Iived in Southern California before. I loved it down there, but I was also a little kid then. It was awesome and I'd definitely consider going back, but I also have things pulling me out East so I'm not sure what to do with all that stuff. |
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Post by The"threadicidal"bristolspapa on Jun 29, 2007 13:17:10 GMT -5
I can't massage my own head... it's not as fun. (that goes for both the ideas you had, you know what I'm saying). As for crying, real men don't cry. And if they do, they don't cry for three days straight. In their beds. Clutching a teddy bear that smells like their fiancee. Ahem. And no, I haven't cheated on her. I would never do anything like that. And if I were castrated, um, man. That would suck. I guess there are worst things, huh. She most likely will cut me loose, and that's what has me the saddest of all. Aww, then do what I think will heal you best--head to a grocery store, and get some Haagen-Dazs, or some Ben and Jerry's. Albeit not healthy, it just tastes so yummy! And if we can't figure it out here, I am gonna beat you, Meat. The juxtaposition of the last two words is a little too touch feely for my liking. |
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 29, 2007 13:20:25 GMT -5
Aww, then do what I think will heal you best--head to a grocery store, and get some Haagen-Dazs, or some Ben and Jerry's. Albeit not healthy, it just tastes so yummy! And if we can't figure it out here, I am gonna beat you, Meat. The juxtaposition of the last two words is a little too touch feely for my liking. I take it you didn't read the entire "Hooters" thread. Read all 7 pages, if you dare. And scubba... dude, you're young. even if you don't have confidence, act like you do. Trust me, things will change. Women know when you have no self esteem, and that's one of the reasons they stay away from guys like that. |
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Post by The"threadicidal"bristolspapa on Jun 29, 2007 13:37:33 GMT -5
The juxtaposition of the last two words is a little too touch feely for my liking. I take it you didn't read the entire "Hooters" thread. Read all 7 pages, if you dare. And scubba... dude, you're young. even if you don't have confidence, act like you do. Trust me, things will change. Women know when you have no self esteem, and that's one of the reasons they stay away from guys like that. Oh I read that. Must have been disturbing to see all your brothers and sisters flushed away. Though I assume the tape didn't roll that far along. |
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 29, 2007 13:40:45 GMT -5
I take it you didn't read the entire "Hooters" thread. Read all 7 pages, if you dare. And scubba... dude, you're young. even if you don't have confidence, act like you do. Trust me, things will change. Women know when you have no self esteem, and that's one of the reasons they stay away from guys like that. Oh I read that. Must have been disturbing to see all your brothers and sisters flushed away. Though I assume the tape didn't roll that far along. Nah, it wasn't me that it happened to. And man, that's what got me. I think the tape DID get that far along. Otherwise, why would he be that disturbed about it? I was talking about the allusions to Fetus spanking other guys, and then offering to beat my meat. |
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Jun 29, 2007 13:43:24 GMT -5
The juxtaposition of the last two words is a little too touch feely for my liking. I take it you didn't read the entire "Hooters" thread. Read all 7 pages, if you dare. And scubba... dude, you're young. even if you don't have confidence, act like you do. Trust me, things will change. Women know when you have no self esteem, and that's one of the reasons they stay away from guys like that. Oh, I've been acting. And things have gotten slightly better in those areas. I freakin' danced and I've never in my life danced with 4 women at the same time. Or had someone else take pictures of said dancing. |
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 29, 2007 13:45:51 GMT -5
I take it you didn't read the entire "Hooters" thread. Read all 7 pages, if you dare. And scubba... dude, you're young. even if you don't have confidence, act like you do. Trust me, things will change. Women know when you have no self esteem, and that's one of the reasons they stay away from guys like that. Oh, I've been acting. And things have gotten slightly better in those areas. I freakin' danced and I've never in my life danced with 4 women at the same time. Or had someone else take pictures of said dancing. That's good to hear. Listen to myself, humanoid, sheltonspapa, and Jed and you can do no wrong, young grasshopper. See, the thing is, you need to get yourself happy first before you can take on a serious, fulfilling relationship. Work on that, and I guarentee you, good things will come. |
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Jun 29, 2007 13:52:24 GMT -5
Oh, I've been acting. And things have gotten slightly better in those areas. I freakin' danced and I've never in my life danced with 4 women at the same time. Or had someone else take pictures of said dancing. That's good to hear. Listen to myself, humanoid, sheltonspapa, and Jed and you can do no wrong, young grasshopper. See, the thing is, you need to get yourself happy first before you can take on a serious, fulfilling relationship. Work on that, and I guarentee you, good things will come. I agree so much with that. I do like myself. Granted, some things I wouldn't mind changed. It's more though that, as soon as I get to liking myself more, things screw up and I get rejected/wrongly accused of horrible things/something else horrible, me liking myself takes a backseat to struggling over figuring out what happened and punishing myself rather than letting it roll right by me. |
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Post by Millie D on Jun 29, 2007 14:14:02 GMT -5
why can't they just leave e and my boyfriend alone?
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Post by erisi236 on Jun 29, 2007 14:21:34 GMT -5
Dear Life Cereal: Where do you get off? Part of a balanced breakfast and delicious? Who do you think you are?
By now you may have guessed I'm speaking ironically and have nothing but good things to say about what you do. Life Cereal, do not change a thing.
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 29, 2007 15:15:48 GMT -5
Dear Life Cereal: Where do you get off? Part of a balanced breakfast and delicious? Who do you think you are? By now you may have guessed I'm speaking ironically and have nothing but good things to say about what you do. Life Cereal, do not change a thing. What always bothered me was Mikey. I mean, here's this kid that doesn't like anything. And he LOVES Life Cereal. So, since this kid without taste likes Life, we are supposed to like it too? |
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 29, 2007 15:32:00 GMT -5
why can't they just leave e and my boyfriend alone? Because they're jealous, that's why. |
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Post by humanoid on Jun 29, 2007 17:40:05 GMT -5
That's good to hear. Listen to myself, humanoid, sheltonspapa, and Jed and you can do no wrong, young grasshopper. See, the thing is, you need to get yourself happy first before you can take on a serious, fulfilling relationship. Work on that, and I guarentee you, good things will come. I agree so much with that. I do like myself. Granted, some things I wouldn't mind changed. It's more though that, as soon as I get to liking myself more, things screw up and I get rejected/wrongly accused of horrible things/something else horrible, me liking myself takes a backseat to struggling over figuring out what happened and punishing myself rather than letting it roll right by me. The way I got over my lack of confidence was by watching characters in movies that I thought were cool, and taught myself to act the way they would. Eddie Murphy's charater in Boomerang was a big help. As far as avoiding the "setbacks" the trick I used was over confidence. Not in an outward manner necessarily but in your head if you tell yourself things like "that person isn't even good enough to talk to me" It is something completely foreign to your brain and it will make you take notice. Eventually you will be able to stop the acting over confident, and you will be confident. Because nobody likes a jerk. |
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