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Post by Silent Brad on Aug 15, 2007 16:47:06 GMT -5
ok so like theres this girl and i love her more then anybody in my life but she doesnt seem to care at all. I've tried to forget about her and just get on with my life but i cant. It gets annoying cause she bases who she likes on the fact of how they look. I've tried over and over to get her to realize how much i care but she never seems to really understand. The thing that eats at me the most is she likes these guys that dont give a crap about her at all. Sometimes i wish i never woulda met her but other times im so happy that i did meet her.
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Post by The Scuba Guy on Aug 15, 2007 16:50:22 GMT -5
Dude, I had the same problem. Just ask her out. If she says no, start thinking about other girls, or even other things. What I did was talk on here a lot, but thats what I always do
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Post by The Great El' PANDA King on Aug 15, 2007 16:51:31 GMT -5
Move on?
Sorry, but it seems she just isn't physically attracted to you. Find a girl who is.
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Post by Clash, Never a Meter Maid on Aug 15, 2007 16:53:53 GMT -5
I've felt that way before. That's one of those situations where you have to bite the bullet and tell her how you feel. It could possibly end badly, but it's better than letting the problem eat away at you, which will always end badly.
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Post by Edison taps to the ARMBAR! on Aug 15, 2007 16:54:02 GMT -5
She's not worth the time. Just let another guy have her and treat her like crap, it's what she really wants. Stop putting your mental energy towards her. The reason you want her so much is because you know you can't have her.
I would bet money on it that if you DID get her, a while later you would get sick of her or find something wrong with her. It is the nature of the human mind and you should use your judgement to determine if your actions are wholesome and will bring you peace of mind and happiness or if they are unwholesome and you are simply using some outer object to please your sense and emotions in the short term.
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Post by Thomas Powers of Paine on Aug 15, 2007 16:54:52 GMT -5
Sounds like she has extremely low self-esteem if she only goes for guys who treat her like crap. She's probably very self-centered, and not ready to actually care about anyone. You'll just have to move on because you can't make her change. A relationship with a girl like that would probably be very disappointing anyway.
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Post by Silent Brad on Aug 15, 2007 16:55:50 GMT -5
I've felt that way before. That's one of those situations where you have to bite the bullet and tell her how you feel. It could possibly end badly, but it's better than letting the problem eat away at you, which will always end badly. ive pleaded my heart to her many a time.
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Post by Silent Brad on Aug 15, 2007 16:56:25 GMT -5
She's not worth the time. Just let another guy have her and treat her like crap, it's what she really wants. Stop putting your mental energy towards her. The reason you want her so much is because you know you can't have her. I would bet money on it that if you DID get her, a while later you would get sick of her or find something wrong with her. It is the nature of the human mind and you should use your judgement to determine if your actions are wholesome and will bring you peace of mind and happiness or if they are unwholesome and you are simply using some outer object to please your sense and emotions in the short term. i once had her
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Post by Silent Brad on Aug 15, 2007 16:56:52 GMT -5
Sounds like she has extremely low self-esteem if she only goes for guys who treat her like crap. She's probably very self-centered, and not ready to actually care about anyone. You'll just have to move on because you can't make her change. A relationship with a girl like that would probably be very disappointing anyway. yeah im pretty sure she has a very low self-esteem
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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2007 16:57:13 GMT -5
have you ever asked her why she likes guys that dont care about her?
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Post by Silent Brad on Aug 15, 2007 16:58:21 GMT -5
have you ever asked her why she likes guys that dont care about her? good idea
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Post by Thomas Powers of Paine on Aug 15, 2007 16:58:29 GMT -5
have you ever asked her why she likes guys that dont care about her? He shouldn't bother. If he goes down that road, he'll only end up feeling sorry for her and trying to solve her problems which only she can fix.
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Post by The Great El' PANDA King on Aug 15, 2007 16:58:44 GMT -5
...GET OVER HER AND EAT A HAMBURGER.
Gosh.
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Post by Edison taps to the ARMBAR! on Aug 15, 2007 16:58:48 GMT -5
She's not worth the time. Just let another guy have her and treat her like crap, it's what she really wants. Stop putting your mental energy towards her. The reason you want her so much is because you know you can't have her. I would bet money on it that if you DID get her, a while later you would get sick of her or find something wrong with her. It is the nature of the human mind and you should use your judgement to determine if your actions are wholesome and will bring you peace of mind and happiness or if they are unwholesome and you are simply using some outer object to please your sense and emotions in the short term. i once had her You're wasting your time man. If you had her and don't anymore, there is probably a reason for it. You're gonna keep feeling lonely and miserable if you devote all your attention to her, cuz you are probably missing out on tons of people who would like to be your freind/have a relationship with you etc. And "pleading your case" over and over again is gonna push her away more, because she knows that she has you to fall back on if it ever came to it. You're only hurting yourself.
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Post by The Scuba Guy on Aug 15, 2007 16:59:22 GMT -5
She's not worth the time. Just let another guy have her and treat her like crap, it's what she really wants. Stop putting your mental energy towards her. The reason you want her so much is because you know you can't have her. I would bet money on it that if you DID get her, a while later you would get sick of her or find something wrong with her. It is the nature of the human mind and you should use your judgement to determine if your actions are wholesome and will bring you peace of mind and happiness or if they are unwholesome and you are simply using some outer object to please your sense and emotions in the short term. i once had her I had the girl I was talking about too. How old are you?
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Post by Edison taps to the ARMBAR! on Aug 15, 2007 16:59:31 GMT -5
...GET OVER HER AND EAT A HAMBURGER. Gosh. Yep, except I don't endorse the hamburger part. But otherwise . . .
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Post by Johnny on Aug 15, 2007 16:59:47 GMT -5
MAN UP! and move on. This girl is a waste of your time.
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Post by Silent Brad on Aug 15, 2007 16:59:48 GMT -5
I had the girl I was talking about too. How old are you? 22
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Post by Edison taps to the ARMBAR! on Aug 15, 2007 17:01:24 GMT -5
I had the girl I was talking about too. How old are you? 22 22? You are wasting the best years of your social life man! Have some fun and stop worrying about this stuff. You have rest of your life for that! ;D
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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2007 17:01:32 GMT -5
have you ever asked her why she likes guys that dont care about her? He shouldn't bother. If he goes down that road, he'll only end up feeling sorry for her and trying to solve her problems which only she can fix. Well maybe there's a reason she does. If not, she might have her eyes opened to the truth and give him a shot.
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