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Post by Cela on Sept 9, 2009 13:48:53 GMT -5
f***ing other dudes
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Post by Mattification on Sept 9, 2009 13:49:24 GMT -5
Passing gas. If she lets one rip then I'm outta there. Haha you know, there are a whole load of deal breakers for me but this would probably be my number 1. |
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Post by Man Hating Horace on Sept 9, 2009 14:39:31 GMT -5
1. Naval piercings
2. Likes to watch reality show/was/wants to be on a reality show
3. Heavily racist
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Post by Desi on Sept 9, 2009 14:45:26 GMT -5
Someone who feels the need to "win" at everything in the relationship (I.E.: they always have to get their way with no compromises).
Edit: Also concurring with the having kids thing. I can barely handle little cousins and nephews so kids are a huge no-no for me as well.
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Post by TheDieselTrain on Sept 9, 2009 15:34:09 GMT -5
Yup thats the one for me. Written in my dating contract. I was open to it a little while go but the girl I was talking to I lost contact with so now i'm like yea no milfs for me. I can tolerate some smoking even though I loathe the habit but I wouldnt break up with a girl because of it. |
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Post by Jay Carroll on Sept 9, 2009 15:35:56 GMT -5
Lack of intelligence. Oh, and for some reason (probably linked to the first one) being blonde.  [/quote and whats wrong with being....uhhmmm...*looks at hair colour* ... oh yeah...blond? Actually, I've relaxed that policy since I turned 18. But previous to that, most blondes I knew were arrogant airheads. |
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Post by Nacho STAYS Hyped on Sept 9, 2009 15:37:04 GMT -5
She can't have a penis.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 9, 2009 15:40:47 GMT -5
Just heavily? Attracted to moderate racists, are you?  "Shoot, those black people, they....well I just don't feel as comfortable when I'm in the company of a number of them as I do when I'm in a group of my own people, gosh dang it." |
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Post by bob on Sept 9, 2009 15:50:19 GMT -5
1. Smokes tobacco and/or does other drugs. This is more a dealbreaker for me than pot. I don't do either, but for some reason I can tolerate marijuana more, while tobacco's instant turn-off. Other illicit drugs, too. I'm fine with alcohol, though, as long as she doesn't get excessively drunk all the time. 2. Kids. Maybe when I'm older and if I'm still looking, but I'm only 24. I don't want to be dating anyone with a kid when I'm not anywhere near ready to be even a surrogate father. 3. Stupidity. I need someone with some sort of intelligence. If I don't have any sort of mental stimulation with someone, it isn't going to last long. 4. Infidelity - Kind of a "duh." 5. Tries to "change me" into her ideal of what a partner should be. People change in subtle ways in relationships, but if she's trying to change me into something I'm not, I'll change her relationship status to "single."[/b] oh yes I've run into that, it's awful |
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Post by Kananga on Sept 9, 2009 15:52:44 GMT -5
I have no deal breakers(Other then maybe hard drugs) i'm pretty messed up myself so i'm not going to judge anyone.
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Post by "Hollywood" Cactus Matt on Sept 9, 2009 16:08:01 GMT -5
1. Naval piercings 2. Likes to watch reality show/was/wants to be on a reality show 3. Heavily racist As opposed to mildly racist? For me, it would be dishonesty. My wife and I both smoke and drink, and she had kids when I met her - she was also previously married (to the kids' dad, for the record, and they were married before they had kids) so a lot of these are blowing my mind; I'm actually kinda surprised dishonesty hasn't been mentioned in every single post thus far. I can handle a smoker or a drinker or kids ... but I don't want to be lied to. Ever. |
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Post by The QC Loser on Sept 9, 2009 16:09:28 GMT -5
Something else I thought of is a deal breaker it seems to be with every woman. The relationship being with me. I get no respect I tells ya
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Post by HMARK Center on Sept 9, 2009 16:24:22 GMT -5
If I haven't started dating a woman yet, then, yes, kids would be a deal breaker at this stage in my life. I'm 24, and I make decent money, but I'm in no position to be raising a family, both due to what I feel is my lack of personal readiness, and the fact that I want to continue saving money and then go back to school, and I'm not giving that up. Once I've begun seeing a woman, I guess I don't have anything most other people haven't already said: -I would never stay in a relationship with anyone who tries to "change" me to fit a mold or whatever. Compromise is fine, but completely giving in to anything somebody else wants is not really my nature. -I don't have much of a problem with seeing somebody who smokes or does pot (though I LOATHE cigarette smoking), but there are points of excess I'm not interested in. Especially when it comes to cigarettes; I never want to date somebody who has a serious smoking habit who also happens to complain about not having money for various things. Stop buying the damn stogies. -Excessive drama. One of my personal flaws is a lack of patience (my whole family admits to this flaw ), but I have zero issues with listening to somebody who has real problems or issues they want to vent about, and if I'm seeing somebody and I've done something wrong, I can deal with talking about it. But once it turns into a stupid TV show and maudlin farce, or Facebook stalking of ex's, or snooping into what I'm doing with my free time, I'm out. Added points if it's drunk drama; I'm a very happy drunk, so I hate it when some other people get drunk and get all worked up about stupid things. -Lack of communication. I outright refuse to play the "I'm not telling you why I'm mad, YOU figure it out" game. If you're not going to be open to me, I'm leaving, end of story. |
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Post by Brick Killed a Guy on Sept 9, 2009 16:27:51 GMT -5
There's this girl at work that I was attracted to. But whenever she comes back on Monday, she goes on and on about getting plastered and doing some random dude(s).
Does she do anything else besides get plastered on weekends? No, that would be boring.
Yeah, that's my dealbreaker.
No, I'm not CM Punk.
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Post by Ducky Momo on Sept 9, 2009 16:28:38 GMT -5
Smoking/drug use or just plain being a whore.  This + stupidity & shallowness/vanity/inconsiderate. The biggest deal breaker is being judgmental/gossip. Shut the f*** up and mind your own business.  Let people live their f***ing lives how they like. I can't count the number of women who I've heard talk smack about their own friends or others behind their backs. It's just nasty and makes me lose all respect for them as human beings. |
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Post by Sir Woodrow on Sept 9, 2009 16:32:09 GMT -5
If they like The Hills then get the f*** out.
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Post by Richard on Sept 9, 2009 16:32:31 GMT -5
1. Drugs - Already tore my family apart and damned if I want to deal with more crap.
2. Stupidity - If I cannot carry on a normal conversation than we are not going to get along.
3. Clingy/Needy/childish - I am not your dad or your lapdog, I am a human that has a life and things that don't always involve you, deal with it.
Outside of that, I can deal with whatever. While I don't want kids at the moment, if their situation is secure and not all screwed up, I would at least think about it.
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Post by Brick Killed a Guy on Sept 9, 2009 16:36:41 GMT -5
Oh one more thing, I cannot deal with a girl who feels like she needs drama in her life 24/7. That's another thing that gets me about this girl at work. It's like she's trying to turn her life into an episode of The Hills.
Sad, sad, sad.
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Post by "The Natural" Bustin Loads on Sept 9, 2009 16:59:28 GMT -5
Assuming everything else is awesome, these are the ones that would likely break it:
1) Having/Wanting kids. I don't hate children but I definitely don't want any of my own or to be raising someone else's. Plenty of guys out there who want to be fathers, but it's not for me.
2) Smoking cigarettes. Never could and likely never will be able to stand being around people who do it constantly, doubt that would change for someone I'd date.
3) Having to be doing something ALL THE TIME. I don't mind doing activities together with a girl, even with others now and then. But I'm talking about the kind of girls that know so many people that they have a friend's party/baby shower/whatever twice every week. Ignoring the fact that I don't like most people as it is, I want a girl I can relax and just be with without having to do too much. Video gamin', watching a TV-season DVD, etc and going out and doing something wild when it hits our fancy. I can't be doing stuff all the time, I need time for myself and time alone with just her.
4) Wanting to get married. I'd have no problem with a long-term relationship but marriage wouldn't be a part of it. I find the concept hollow for a variety of reasons so I can't see myself doing something I don't believe in, much less if it deals with love.
I imagine I'll have a pretty hard time with that last one, but eh. Them's the works I guess.
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Post by Mattification on Sept 9, 2009 17:01:54 GMT -5
Real insecurity.
Everyone has insecurities, but when it gets to the stage where you can't say anything without her looking for hidden meanings or making everything about her, it'd be time for me to call it a day.
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Let people live their f***ing lives how they like. I can't count the number of women who I've heard talk smack about their own friends or others behind their backs. It's just nasty and makes me lose all respect for them as human beings.
