mattperiolat
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Post by mattperiolat on Dec 18, 2010 2:31:48 GMT -5
I mentioned in the past here on the boards how a family friend was battling stage 4 cancer. A few weeks ago, he opted to end chemotherapy and come home. His condition has worsened to where he can't leave his bed anymore and it is becoming painfully clear he will not live to see the New Year at best.
What is worse is between finals and a brutal turn in the weather, I'm currently unable to travel the hour and a half to reach where the family is to be there. I'm praying he'll live long enough for me to get there to say goodbye and be there for the family. But, suffice to say, it has really killed this year as far as Christmas goes.
I know a lot of folks will be traveling and with family during the holiday, but I really have to admit I'm hoping there will be some 'Crappers on standby for support when the end comes because I really could use some friends in this time.
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Post by Alex Shelley on Dec 18, 2010 3:09:11 GMT -5
*hug* I'm really sorry to hear that. I wish there was something I could do or say.
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percymania
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Post by percymania on Dec 18, 2010 3:22:38 GMT -5
Unfortunately, I can't be with my family this year. I'm broke and have nothing to do and nowhere to go. I'll likely be posting here and stuff. We'll be your support. Just remember to be thankful for the things you do have. That's really the best thing you can do during hard times. That helps me, at least.
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Dean-o
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Post by Dean-o on Dec 18, 2010 3:31:25 GMT -5
My father died on Christmas back in 2004, after suffering a full year with pulmonary fibrosis, so I know exactly what you are going through.
PM me if you ever want to talk. You're more then welcome to...
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mattperiolat
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Post by mattperiolat on Dec 18, 2010 13:46:36 GMT -5
Thanks to everyone who has replied and to those who just have read and don't have the words. I am grateful.
I'm still stuck with the icy roads and it is just a question of time, but I'm trying to find some escapism between my blog writing and spending way too much time on WoW. Probably not good for my emotional health to cope right now, but at least I'm focusing on other things at the moment since there is absolutely nothing I can do about getting there currently.
Believe me, I am hoping that I can take people up on the PM offers since I'm sure I will need them soon.
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Big L
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Post by Big L on Dec 18, 2010 13:51:10 GMT -5
Dang that's really sad man I'll be on here periodically if u need me
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Grendel
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But ... why is all the rum gone?
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Post by Grendel on Dec 18, 2010 16:40:16 GMT -5
That sucks man. A few years back, I lost my father just a few weeks before Christmas. He had told my mother that if he passed, he didn't want it to ruin our holiday season. No such luck ...
But this is a great place to find support if you need it ...
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Post by Clash, Never a Meter Maid on Dec 18, 2010 16:46:43 GMT -5
I've got a close friend who's going through a lot stress due to her family not being around for the holidays. Stuff like that always sucks.
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mattperiolat
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Post by mattperiolat on Dec 21, 2010 20:58:34 GMT -5
Friend of the family just passed about 20 minutes ago. He died in his sleep with no pain. No funeral plans. PM box is open.
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percymania
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Post by percymania on Dec 25, 2010 2:27:23 GMT -5
Ii'm sorry to hear that. With today being Christmas, I remembered this topic and I came back to see how you were doing and to wish you a Merry Christmas.
I don't know if this will help at all, but I'll share a personal story that may or may not be relevant. A few years ago I lost one of my best friends on my birthday. He had struggled with diabetes his whole life and he finally lost his battle while I was out having a good time. I cursed the timing of it, but just remember that no time is ever a convenient time for such matters. At least from then on whenever I celebrate my birthday I'm reminded of him and how he was a positive influence in my life. I get a chance to celebrate his memory every year when otherwise I would have forgotten. I feel blessed for that and I feel blessed that I did get to spend time with him during his short time on Earth.
For you, it may be difficult to deal with this situation now, but keep in mind that things will get better. I hope you have family/friends close to you during this holiday season who will be your support system. It's important to talk about how you are feeling. That will help you a lot. Life truly is precious, and during this season of giving try to recall all the things your friend was able to give to you. I'll bet that the things he did for you feel more special and more important than ever before.
May God bless you and may you have a merry Christmas.
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Post by A Dubya (El Hombre Muerto) on Dec 25, 2010 2:40:06 GMT -5
Unfortunately, I can't be with my family this year. I have nothing to do and nowhere to go. I'll likely be posting here, drinking and stuff. That helps me, at least. FIXED for me. Sorry to hear the bad news.
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percymania
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Post by percymania on Dec 25, 2010 2:49:28 GMT -5
Unfortunately, I can't be with my family this year. I have nothing to do and nowhere to go. I'll likely be posting here, drinking and stuff. That helps me, at least. FIXED for me. Sorry to hear the bad news. I'm drinking too, but I'm still broke. LOL
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Tigerlily
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In a beaker?
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Post by Tigerlily on Dec 25, 2010 11:32:16 GMT -5
I'm so sorry to hear, I'm sure he appreciated having a friend like you who cares, some people on this planet don't even have that.
RIP.
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