So my family likes to play with my head sometimes. A brother or sister will offer me some money or something new to replace something broken. If I say "no thank you", they laugh and say "You clearly don't know when people are trying to bless you. You need to grow up."
If I say yes and take it, then later on, they use that particular situation as proof for, "You're always relying on people and never stand on your own two feet. You need to grow up."