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Post by Kash Flagg on Oct 25, 2011 20:17:12 GMT -5
I mean this in the best possible way, but I could not care less. I have never understood other people's incessant need to have a say in how other people live their lives. If you have no actual impact on my life, why should I have an impact on yours? Edit: Don't get me wrong, I think it is a brave thing to do. Choosing your happiness over the possible objections of others is not easy. I just don't see why that pressure should be a reality. You've always impacted my life...for good OR bad.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2011 20:23:15 GMT -5
I mean this in the best possible way, but I could not care less. I have never understood other people's incessant need to have a say in how other people live their lives. If you have no actual impact on my life, why should I have an impact on yours? Edit: Don't get me wrong, I think it is a brave thing to do. Choosing your happiness over the possible objections of others is not easy. I just don't see why that pressure should be a reality. Oh, I agree... just that over half the USA doesn't, and most of Arizona doesn't. Hate crimes are rampant here, sadly. Good Luck telling your parents! I hope they're cool about it. I really like the name Taylor btw, I kinda wish it were my name hahaha. Just wondering, how'd you chose the name? Thanks~ I've liked the name for quite a while. I originally was going to use it if I ever got into a relationship and had kids.
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Post by mattperiolat on Oct 25, 2011 21:22:14 GMT -5
I've liked the name for quite a while. I originally was going to use it if I ever got into a relationship and had kids. When. You'll find, pardon the expression, the right for you someday. Someone who understands, cares and loves you unconditionally and you'll feel the same way for. Sorry for blurting that, but I used to say 'if' all the time until I found my now-ex. It didn't work out, but it happened once, which means someday it will happen one time and that next time may be continuously.
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Post by bob on Oct 25, 2011 21:49:18 GMT -5
as long as it makes you happy, I wish you nothing but the best
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Post by eukaryote on Oct 26, 2011 1:06:14 GMT -5
However, for several years now, I've known that I'm actually female. My friends online all know now and I've so far gotten nothing but encouragement and support. And I thank everyone for that. Hey, that's awesome. Um, I'm new here but I wanted to extend my support. It's astonishing to me that we still live in an age where people have to fear "coming out" and being who they want to be. I don't see what it matters to anybody but you. I don't want to start regurgitating cliches, so I'll just say kudos. I hope you're much happier for doing it.
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Post by Orange on Oct 26, 2011 1:34:24 GMT -5
However, for several years now, I've known that I'm actually female. My friends online all know now and I've so far gotten nothing but encouragement and support. And I thank everyone for that. Hey, that's awesome. Um, I'm new here but I wanted to extend my support. It's astonishing to me that we still live in an age where people have to fear "coming out" and being who they want to be. I don't see what it matters to anybody but you. I don't want to start regurgitating cliches, so I'll just say kudos. I hope you're much happier for doing it. f***ing ridiculous, isn't it? I hope for a day that we all can live happy with our own lives, without caring so much about everybody else's. Some people care too much about other people, especially when it comes to stuff like this. To the OP, an incredibly brave thing to do. You live once and only once, you do what makes you happy, and if you find happiness than that's the best thing you can ask for out of a life. Hopefully everybody is cool with it, but if some aren't, screw them and take joy out of the fact that they're insecure in their lives and only wish to bring others down with them - on their never-ending quest to make others feel the way they do. Do what's best for you, you have my support
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Post by Banjo Is Broken on Oct 26, 2011 1:38:47 GMT -5
Don't forget to post pics of yourself as a lady. If you want, you can just PM those to me. ;D I'm sorry, I'm a pig.
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Post by Toates Madhackrviper on Oct 26, 2011 10:08:07 GMT -5
The attitude this board has about stuff like this is actually truly and legitimately inspiring. When I see the positive reaction threads like this one and times that Citten posts about this stuff and the affably positive relationship the straight posters have with the gay thread and so on it really actually warms my heart to see so many people who feel the same way I do about people's right to live comfortably with sexuality and gender identity.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 26, 2011 10:21:41 GMT -5
The attitude this board has about stuff like this is actually truly and legitimately inspiring. When I see the positive reaction threads like this one and times that Citten posts about this stuff and the affably positive relationship the straight posters have with the gay thread and so on it really actually warms my heart to see so many people who feel the same way I do about people's right to live comfortably with sexuality and gender identity. We may not agree on everything, but there is more of a family mentality here than with most message boards.
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Post by darbus alan on Oct 26, 2011 10:42:51 GMT -5
I salute your courage. Best of luck telling your parents, and I hope they're understanding and supportive of you.
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Post by FUNK_US/BRODUS on Oct 26, 2011 10:49:24 GMT -5
The attitude this board has about stuff like this is actually truly and legitimately inspiring. When I see the positive reaction threads like this one and times that Citten posts about this stuff and the affably positive relationship the straight posters have with the gay thread and so on it really actually warms my heart to see so many people who feel the same way I do about people's right to live comfortably with sexuality and gender identity. We have a fairly decent sized gay community, not to mention a lot of people who happened to be outsiders at some point, whether it was being bullied in high school or whatever, and people just generally see through the stupid bullshit. Its generally just a case of having a "one of us" mentality as forum members, and people just look out for each other. Some people (myself included) wont really give a damn about someone coming out as gay or lesbian or trans, but just simply want that person to be happy and comfortable, whatever they happen to be. Im not an activist for gay rights, I just dont see why LGBT people should have to catch shit for being honest about themselves in a decision that affects them and them only.
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Post by Porky's Butthole on Oct 26, 2011 10:57:03 GMT -5
I respect the courage of anyone who comes out. Respect, and I wish nothing but happiness for you. This. One million times this. God bless.
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Post by mattperiolat on Oct 26, 2011 11:45:13 GMT -5
The attitude this board has about stuff like this is actually truly and legitimately inspiring. When I see the positive reaction threads like this one and times that Citten posts about this stuff and the affably positive relationship the straight posters have with the gay thread and so on it really actually warms my heart to see so many people who feel the same way I do about people's right to live comfortably with sexuality and gender identity. We're fans of a sport where half naked sweaty guys are hitting each other, why is being supportive of LGBT rights so shocking? Kidding aside, here's my thing: I've worked with openly gay and lesbian people for quite a while. Come to think of it, some of my best friends where I worked before were lesbian, but that's not the point. Point is I saw them as the people they were, not the stereotype or negative image that is broadcast. I had to cover for a co-worker when he took time off when his partner died and he had to fly his ashes back back his family and seeing the pain he was going through made me realize (as if I needed convincing) that the love he felt was no different than the love I felt for whomever I cared for. I'll stay away from the politics part, for good reason, but it is enough to say that I want everyone to have the same rights I do. We're all people under the skin and we're all together for a very short time, so let us make the most of it, no?
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Post by Munkie91087 on Oct 26, 2011 12:10:15 GMT -5
Best of luck to you. Life's way too short to not do what makes you happy. Much respect for you coming out, even in an online setting. I have no insight, but you get nothing but good vibes from me.
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Post by The QC Loser on Oct 26, 2011 16:07:19 GMT -5
I believe this site (as well as many others) could use more transgendered people. Thought that might be my own personal attractions talking. Either way, good for you and I hope your parents are able to accept you for who you are. I totally agree with this!!! ;D
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Post by kayfabulous on Oct 26, 2011 19:12:22 GMT -5
Yay for knowing who you are! All the best of luck, Taylor.
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