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Post by Deleted on Sept 7, 2012 9:34:45 GMT -5
Eh...y'know, 19 year olds are usually pretty crazy. I'm not saying an age difference is a big deal, but specifically the late teens/early 20's are a very crazy time in people's lives and if you're passed that stage in your life it might be hard to date with someone like that. If she were like...26 and you were 32, I'd say don't worry about it, but 19 year olds...well, if she's super mature for her age then I guess its not a big deal.
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Post by Legion on Sept 7, 2012 9:36:59 GMT -5
You disgust me.
She's still practically a child!
(I dont really think this, but I felt someone needed to say it in this thread of nothing but positives)
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Post by THE Baldy Kendrick on Sept 7, 2012 9:51:09 GMT -5
Well, here's the big question: are you looking to be in a relationship with her, or are you just looking for some sexy time? Because making the former work with her is going to be a lot more difficult due to your differences in experiences and expectations, while the latter should be relatively smooth sailing if both parties know what's going on up front.
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Post by agent817 on Sept 7, 2012 9:53:52 GMT -5
Well, here's the big question: are you looking to be in a relationship with her, or are you just looking for some sexy time? Because making the former work with her is going to be a lot more difficult due to your differences in experiences and expectations, while the latter should be relatively smooth sailing if both parties know what's going on up front. I think it's more the latter. She seems cool and all, but most of my attraction towards her is physical. Of course, being that we have a class together, maybe I can work with her to see if I can get to know her that way. Like I said, I am also attracted to a girl I see around on campus who is my age.
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Post by HMARK Center on Sept 7, 2012 10:51:05 GMT -5
Ha, I had this happen when I went back to school for a semester in spring 2010. She was a first year undergrad and I already had a degree, but was studying a different field at ages 24/25.
She was pretty cool, but it might've been for the best that nothing came from it...turns out she had a boyfriend older than me!
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Post by Baldobomb-22-OH-MAN!!! on Sept 7, 2012 11:00:55 GMT -5
I would've objected in the past but I say why not? fair warning, there may be a huge gap in maturity, though.
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Post by unoriginalalex on Sept 7, 2012 11:08:43 GMT -5
Go for it! As a 19 year old girl, I just got out of a relationship with a 29 year old, as long as she's mature enough you won't even notice the age difference.
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Post by agent817 on Sept 7, 2012 11:12:43 GMT -5
Well, my attraction is mostly based on lust, so I am not sure if anything more than that would happen, but there is a possibility. However, I agree with people talking about maturity and while sometimes I question my maturity, I mostly consider myself mature.
Also, I remember this girl I know who was 21 dating a guy who was 42. Of course, that gap is big considering the guy is old enough to be her father. Also, this other girl who I am cool with and also talking to was with someone who is 13 years older than she is.
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Post by chazraps on Sept 7, 2012 11:18:03 GMT -5
Jennifer Love Hewitt was 19 in 'I Know What You Did Last Summer.'
Let that fact guide you and you should be alright.
Come to think of it, I dated a 26 year old when I was 19 too. Can she rap?
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Post by agent817 on Sept 7, 2012 17:24:53 GMT -5
Jennifer Love Hewitt was 19 in 'I Know What You Did Last Summer.' Let that fact guide you and you should be alright. Come to think of it, I dated a 26 year old when I was 19 too. Can she rap? Well, regarding JLH, I was only 11 or 12 when that came out. I know I have had a crush on her ever since I was a kid and she is still hot. She did have a lot of attention during that time, too. Anyway, I will keep this in perspective.
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Post by Banecat on Sept 7, 2012 18:07:29 GMT -5
She must be really hot if you don't find her annoying.
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Post by agent817 on Sept 7, 2012 23:09:00 GMT -5
She must be really hot if you don't find her annoying. I don't know her all too well yet, but she doesn't seem annoying. And yes, she is hot.
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Post by kolani on Sept 8, 2012 0:31:49 GMT -5
The main thing I'm bumping into is a gap in frame of references. I was playfully saying "as you wish" to her for the first week we were dating, only to discover later that she'd never seen The Princess Bride when she finally got embarrassed enough to ask me what that meant.
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Post by Hit Girl on Sept 8, 2012 2:31:08 GMT -5
Go forth and make your move
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Sept 8, 2012 6:30:21 GMT -5
Huh, I was kinda hesitant about potentially chatting up a 16 year old earlier, not as much now after the responses in this thread. And before anyone kicks up, it's legal in the UK!
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Post by Legion on Sept 8, 2012 8:05:55 GMT -5
Huh, I was kinda hesitant about potentially chatting up a 16 year old earlier, not as much now after the responses in this thread. And before anyone kicks up, it's legal in the UK! But how old are you?
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Sept 8, 2012 10:23:31 GMT -5
Huh, I was kinda hesitant about potentially chatting up a 16 year old earlier, not as much now after the responses in this thread. And before anyone kicks up, it's legal in the UK! But how old are you? 18. She's in the year below me in College.
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Post by Magician under the moonlight on Sept 8, 2012 10:29:36 GMT -5
Remember, after 18, age is just a number.
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Post by Legion on Sept 8, 2012 10:39:44 GMT -5
18. She's in the year below me in College. That's totally fine. Why were you even worried?
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Post by agent817 on Sept 8, 2012 10:49:50 GMT -5
Remember, after 18, age is just a number. This is a good indicator:
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