Dub H
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Post by Dub H on Dec 26, 2012 18:56:01 GMT -5
I will be honest,i have incredibly lac of social skill so if someone flirts with me i keep thinking there is no way because they are out of my league.So i have no idea! And so ,you guys will be my test subjects! For the sake of science,tell the world how you know someone if flirting with you.I asked some of my friends and discovered it varies from person to person.
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Blindkarevik
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Post by Blindkarevik on Dec 26, 2012 19:01:56 GMT -5
A lot of the old schoolyard stuff is pretty true. If they seem to like to hit you, poke you, or whatever... that's a sure sign of flirting.
However, I didn't realize this until recently..... "sweetie" "Dear" "sweetheart" "Hon"... all that stuff, not necessarily flirting. Had I known that earlier, I would've spared myself a lot of awkward moments.
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SEAN CARLESS
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Post by SEAN CARLESS on Dec 26, 2012 19:03:25 GMT -5
I will be honest,i have incredibly lac of social skill so if someone flirts with me i keep thinking there is no way because they are out of my league.So i have no idea! And so ,you guys will be my test subjects! For the sake of science,tell the world how you know someone if flirting with you.I asked some of my friends and discovered it varies from person to person. Number 1 is that girls go out of their way to touch you. The more girls do it, the more they're into you. Another thing they subconsciously do is play with their hair, or fix it while you talk (while never looking away from you).
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BigBadZ
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Post by BigBadZ on Dec 26, 2012 19:36:01 GMT -5
I usually notice about an hour after we finish talking. I never seem to catch on until hindsight kicks in.
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Dec 26, 2012 19:49:53 GMT -5
I will be honest,i have incredibly lac of social skill so if someone flirts with me i keep thinking there is no way because they are out of my league.So i have no idea! And so ,you guys will be my test subjects! For the sake of science,tell the world how you know someone if flirting with you.I asked some of my friends and discovered it varies from person to person. Number 1 is that girls go out of their way to touch you. The more girls do it, the more they're into you. Another thing they subconsciously do is play with their hair, or fix it while you talk (while never looking away from you). When I was younger, I had that happen a couple of times and was unaware until later in life. Felt pretty stupid about it too. One thing I find, being that I'm the type of person that makes wisecracks and jokes on a near constant basis, is the ratio of how much a girl laughs at the jokes. For example, I made one a few weeks ago, not even that funny, yet a girl that I'm 80% likes me was like, full on laughing at it. I dunno man, maybe it's just me.
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Post by Mochi Lone Wolf on Dec 26, 2012 19:53:27 GMT -5
I will be honest,i have incredibly lac of social skill so if someone flirts with me i keep thinking there is no way because they are out of my league.So i have no idea! And so ,you guys will be my test subjects! For the sake of science,tell the world how you know someone if flirting with you.I asked some of my friends and discovered it varies from person to person. Number 1 is that girls go out of their way to touch you. The more girls do it, the more they're into you. Another thing they subconsciously do is play with their hair, or fix it while you talk (while never looking away from you). Those are pretty much the surefire signs. And yeah, "Sweetie" and "Dear" and other terms like that are terms girls like to throw around pretty randomly and they more often than not mean nothing as far as flirting.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 26, 2012 20:01:58 GMT -5
There is no real way to tell, unless the girl is fairly blunt.
I had someone once tell me that they were flirting with me because, "I was always saying 'hi' to you and smiling at you." Which is someone just being polite, but you know.
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jagilki
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Post by jagilki on Dec 26, 2012 20:51:12 GMT -5
When she sticks her tongue in my ear.
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Dub H
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Post by Dub H on Dec 26, 2012 21:18:02 GMT -5
When she sticks her tongue in my ear. I don't know....i don't thin its enough to be considered flirting,better play safe
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Post by Oak: Certified Jade Hater on Dec 26, 2012 21:24:01 GMT -5
I'll be honest, I have no clue when a girl is flirting with me. On a daily basis I talk to at least five or six girls, both in relationships and single. Turns out I flirt without knowing it (and have been called out on it before), and because I'm oblivious to my flirting, I miss the girl's flirting.
I can tell when a girl is flirting with me sometimes, but for the most part it's touch and go. Which can lead to some awkwardness, but hey, you never know until you try.
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Post by Optimax on Dec 26, 2012 23:29:00 GMT -5
I'll be honest, I have no clue when a girl is flirting with me. On a daily basis I talk to at least five or six girls, both in relationships and single. Turns out I flirt without knowing it (and have been called out on it before), and because I'm oblivious to my flirting, I miss the girl's flirting. I can tell when a girl is flirting with me sometimes, but for the most part it's touch and go. Which can lead to some awkwardness, but hey, you never know until you try. Yeah same for me, I'll flirt with or have girls flirt with me and be completely oblivious too it thinking we are just being friendly too each other. The touching the hair, and going of their way to touch one is one part of flirting that is obvious.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Dec 27, 2012 1:42:03 GMT -5
it varies from person to person. Sometimes girls will press up against me with their breasts. They usually work with me so that throws me off a lot.
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Post by Throwback on Dec 27, 2012 1:59:46 GMT -5
I've been told by many girls that I'm clueless when it comes to knowing that I'm being flirted with. I always seem to just assume their being nice.
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Dec 27, 2012 2:17:20 GMT -5
They are flirting at 'hello.'
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Dub H
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Post by Dub H on Dec 27, 2012 2:32:06 GMT -5
They are flirting at 'hello.' ....so you are flirting with me? Wanna have a cup of coffee?
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Post by darthalexander on Dec 27, 2012 9:00:17 GMT -5
I've been told by many girls that I'm clueless when it comes to knowing that I'm being flirted with. I always seem to just assume their being nice. I've often had that problem. They'll tell me how this girl was flirting with me and I would just stand there like a dummy and say something like "really?" Then they'd give me a sad head shake and walk away while saying something along the lines that I'm really hopeless. I am not as bad now as I was then and I can actually spot it a lot better now. My problem was low self-esteem. I could never imagine anyone liking me that way so "obviously" they would not be flirting with me. I was always the type that would see a girl smiling at me and I'd turn behind me to see who she was really smiling at. Sometimes I look back at all the missed chances I had...big dumb stupid idiot that I was.
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Post by Bo Rida on Dec 27, 2012 9:17:39 GMT -5
More importantly how do you differentiate between somebody flirting with you for fun and flirting with intent? On the other side of the coin when does flirting turn into leading somebody on?
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Post by EvenBaldobombHasAJob on Dec 27, 2012 9:39:54 GMT -5
I must really suck at it, because I could swear this girl from my program was into me, so I asked her out last day of classes and she told me she's a lesbian.
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jagilki
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Post by jagilki on Dec 27, 2012 13:28:41 GMT -5
I must really suck at it, because I could swear this girl from my program was into me, so I asked her out last day of classes and she told me she's a lesbian. Wow, you turned her Lesbian?
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The QC Loser
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Post by The QC Loser on Dec 27, 2012 13:39:15 GMT -5
You know it's never come up
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