ratetankmark
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Post by ratetankmark on Dec 22, 2013 10:51:07 GMT -5
You know when you hang around with your mates, like my college friends for instance, is it weird if you notice changes in them? Like I've known one of my college mates for quite a while and only recently he seems to have become more 'Not giving a damn' than he usually was, it's quite hard to explain, but does anyone else tend to notice changes in your friends even if the changes are subtle?
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Post by CM Dazz on Dec 22, 2013 11:48:32 GMT -5
You know when you hang around with your mates, like my college friends for instance, is it weird if you notice changes in them? Like I've known one of my college mates for quite a while and only recently he seems to have become more 'Not giving a damn' than he usually was, it's quite hard to explain, but does anyone else tend to notice changes in your friends even if the changes are subtle? Yep. Been bothering the shit out of me at times too. I just shake my head, & think WHAT!?!? WHAT IN THE EVER LIVING f***!?!? Everything, EVERYTHING is a f***ing conspiracy lately. f*** me. |
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Post by Hawk Hart on Dec 22, 2013 11:51:54 GMT -5
Things just weren't the same after they went to London, Monica and Chandler were doin' it, Ross said "Rachel" when he was marrying Emily, Pheebs was pregnant with her brother's babies, it was chaos.
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Post by SHAKEMASTER TV9 is Don Knotts on Dec 22, 2013 12:01:32 GMT -5
I've noticed a fluctuation in Chandler's weight. One episode he's really bloated, next he's skinny.
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Post by EvenBaldobombHasAJob on Dec 22, 2013 13:32:03 GMT -5
my best friend since I was 10 years old seems to get more misogynistic every time I talk to him.
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Post by EvenBaldobombHasAJob on Dec 22, 2013 13:33:17 GMT -5
I've noticed a fluctuation in Chandler's weight. One episode he's really bloated, next he's skinny. |
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Post by SOR on Dec 22, 2013 13:53:26 GMT -5
So basically the question is "Do people change?"
Well...Yeah?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2013 14:06:21 GMT -5
I'm too wrapped up in self awareness and worrying about my actions and what I say to notice changes in anyone else really.
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Post by Mozenrath on Dec 22, 2013 14:12:53 GMT -5
Some of it is them changing, but sometimes, they were always like that and only through getting to know them do you discover these parts of their personality.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2013 14:21:00 GMT -5
I've not been hanging around with my friends as much over the last few years. It wasn't a falling out, I just had a lot of personal shit and it made me withdraw from the world for a while. Now I'm back hanging out with them again, though not as much before, and they've all become big time drinkers, like alcoholic level. We used to not like bars and find better things to do, but now they're all about the bar, every weekend night and at least a few nights during the week. And a couple of them are always on their phones/laptops etc. playing games all the time while we're hanging out. It kinda sucks, but I was away for a while and we all changed, just in different directions. They're still my boys though.
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Post by agent817 on Dec 22, 2013 14:41:23 GMT -5
I've been wanting to reconnect with old friends and I will eventually, but I have been too focused on other things that I haven't really been talking to them much. It's not bad to try to reconnect with them, but just know that some things may be different. The changes may not always be negative, though.
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