Dating Question

[tigermask]

We all can't look like Mickie James, but we can sure dream.

[EZ: Brainy Bae]

vektastic said:

mcp said:

I heard from a friend whose dad went to med school for a week that fat people are descended from the devil.

Sometimes Fi,
MCP

You so need to get the teeth kicked out of your tiny, narrow-minded head.

Thats the most absurd post I have ever read.

It's so awesome when people get worked up because they can't get sarcasm.

[Deleted]

I'd be her friend, but I wouldn't date her just because everyday is going to be a psycho holiday with her.

[Psy]

grapejellydoesit said:

At the risk of being flamed, here are my thoughts. Those of you say that she's "whiney or self pitying, that might be so......for the moment. Have any of you given the thought that maybe just maybe she needs a friend to talk to. It sounded to me she doesn't. Having a sounding board (an ear), does wonders for the stability of the mind. As for her size, where do I begin. You know guys, just because someone is "bigger" than you, doesn't mean they eat more than you. A lot of times it's based on genetics or health. She did mention she was half Indian. For those of you that are intelligent enough, you'll understand this. There are women out there teaching kick boxing and weigh in at 220 lbs, and by no means is this person super muscular. Her self esteem doesn't seem to be the problem, she didn't seem to have a problem with her size.

That's all well and good, but the question isn't "Would you be friends with her", but "Would you date her", and based on the limited knowledge I have of her, no, I would not.

[Franchise]

Nah. She already has 2 strikes against her-she's too depressive for my tastes and, although this'll sound mean, she's too big for me. I'm 5'10, 150 pounds. I mean come one!

[Shy Guy]

no, because i don't swing that way

[tardis99]

I can't go out with her. What would I do? I can't take her for a meal, my overdraft couldn't cope with it.

[Kevin Hamilton]

That's all well and good, but the question isn't "Would you be friends with her", but "Would you date her", and based on the limited knowledge I have of her, no, I would not.

Exactly. If you're trying to be a friend or are already friends with someone and they go into the whole 'my life sucks' riff. Then yes, you're an ear.. but no you don't want someone's own emotional baggage unloaded on you from the very getgo. At the risk of sounding like a bad guy, if I don't already know you and the circumstances behind a depressive attitude that would lead you to conclude 'life sucks'; I'm not apt to stick around long enough to find "the person underneath" or what have you. That's just me though, my feeling is try to someone with less baggage than you, not more.. positive people are more fun to be around and I'm not trying to date anyone to 'save' or 'fix' them.

[nisi]

This is a sad result of our talk show culture, where people cannot go 5 minutes without expressing their "deepest" thoughts. She needs counseling, not a boyfriend.

[wolfpackbitch]

nisi said:

This is a sad result of our talk show culture, where people cannot go 5 minutes without expressing their "deepest" thoughts. She needs counseling, not a boyfriend.

Yeah exactly ! We should all keep our emotions and thoughts to ourselves and never ever open up to anyone. Women should never tell a guy how she feels for fear of this kind of backlash. Men only want sex, and are, for the most part, not capable of handling anything more emotional than a pizza commercial on TV

[Kevin Hamilton]

Not even a lil bit true.

[nisi]

wolfpackbitch said:

nisi said:

This is a sad result of our talk show culture, where people cannot go 5 minutes without expressing their "deepest" thoughts. She needs counseling, not a boyfriend.

Yeah exactly ! We should all keep our emotions and thoughts to ourselves and never ever open up to anyone. Women should never tell a guy how she feels for fear of this kind of backlash. Men only want sex, and are, for the most part, not capable of handling anything more emotional than a pizza commercial on TV

That's harsh, Wolfie, I just think she "overdisclosed," especially with the whole bit about her best friend being suicidal and her tempted to follow him. A dating site is not where she needs to be right now.

[wolfpackbitch]

well there's just no pleasing guys.. none at all. If women don't tell them what's on our minds it becomes "You're keeping secrets from me" If we have an open hearted conversation it becomes "shut up and let me watch football" At least she's open, honest and you know what you're getting. How many of you have been involved with women who seemed perfectly normal from the start and then turned into nutcases ??

[Kevin Hamilton]

That's kinda what I'm sayin to.. no guy is gonna be looking at profiles and go " wow this chick's first sentence was how horrible her life is, where do I get me some o' that?"

and flip it around, ladies, do you want a dude with that attitude? Seriously? Outside of the 'diamond in the rough I can change him set' and there are a few out there, I don't think your average female wants one sad bastard either.

[wolfpackbitch]

hey ! I'm attracted to moody guys !

[Kevin Hamilton]

Moody's one thing bats*** insane is quite another.

[EvilMasterBetty, Esq.]

wolfpackbitch said:

nisi said:

This is a sad result of our talk show culture, where people cannot go 5 minutes without expressing their "deepest" thoughts. She needs counseling, not a boyfriend.

Yeah exactly ! We should all keep our emotions and thoughts to ourselves and never ever open up to anyone. Women should never tell a guy how she feels for fear of this kind of backlash. Men only want sex, and are, for the most part, not capable of handling anything more emotional than a pizza commercial on TV

See wolfie, now you get it...

*awaits to be beaten to a pulp*

[wolfpackbitch]

evilmasterbetty said:

wolfpackpregnant said:

Yeah exactly ! We should all keep our emotions and thoughts to ourselves and never ever open up to anyone. Women should never tell a guy how she feels for fear of this kind of backlash. Men only want sex, and are, for the most part, not capable of handling anything more emotional than a pizza commercial on TV

See wolfie, now you get it...

*awaits to be beaten to a pulp*

You are SOOOOO lucky that Sanch is asleep and I'm gonna take a shower or I'd continue this.

But remember.. I never forget.. I think ?

[EvilMasterBetty, Esq.]

HAHA!

I got away with another one.

I guarantee there will be a Kill EMB thread up at your place in 20 minutes.

[nisi]

wolfpackpregnant said:

well there's just no pleasing guys.. none at all. If women don't tell them what's on our minds it becomes "You're keeping secrets from me" If we have an open hearted conversation it becomes "shut up and let me watch football" At least she's open, honest and you know what you're getting. How many of you have been involved with women who seemed perfectly normal from the start and then turned into nutcases ??

All's I'm sayin' is that the time to tell me what's on your mind is AFTER I'm a little crazy about you, AFTER I fall asleep thinking about your perfume and wondering what you're wearing, trying to think of something I can say or do to impress you. Putting all her baggage in a personal ad is like a warning light for guys to stay away or use her.