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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Jan 3, 2015 7:54:25 GMT -5
Well...(Language) Seriously though, It means she just wants to be friends. No, I don't mean "BRUH, FRIENDZONE!", she obviously sees you as a good friend, otherwise she would've straight up told you to get tae f***. Don't be surprised if you like, drift apart though.
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Post by mizzziggler on Jan 3, 2015 9:55:56 GMT -5
You were placed in the friendzone a long time ago probably
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Post by "Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay on Jan 3, 2015 10:32:12 GMT -5
I don't know. Let's ask 'women.' Because 'women,' being a homogenous mass of identical viewpoints, will all mean the exact same thing when they say that.
Meanwhile, 'men,' I have a question for you - tits, ass or legs? Whoever answers first speaks for all mankind.
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Post by RedSmile on Jan 3, 2015 10:58:14 GMT -5
Meanwhile, 'men,' I have a question for you - tits, ass or legs? Whoever answers first speaks for all mankind. BRAAAAAINS
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Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 3, 2015 10:59:43 GMT -5
When you get to be my age your learn a few things. Like when a sign says "do not feed the bears" Man you better not feed the bears
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Post by Malibu Stacy on Jan 3, 2015 11:10:38 GMT -5
Will I ruin my friendship with the bears if I feed them, though?
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Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 3, 2015 11:12:30 GMT -5
Will I ruin my friendship with the bears if I feed them, though? Yes why do you think they put up the damned sign?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2015 11:35:07 GMT -5
Goddammit FAN, it means that she has no interest in you romantically and you should try to work your mojo with a different girl.
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Post by Mid-Carder on Jan 3, 2015 11:53:29 GMT -5
Why don't you ask her instead of strangers who don't know what she's thinking?
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Post by ibdude on Jan 3, 2015 11:55:27 GMT -5
Why don't you ask her instead of strangers who don't know what she's thinking? I've asked her before. I just want some other opinions. People don't always tell you the truth.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2015 12:15:26 GMT -5
To put it crudely, it means she thinks you are a nice guy, but she has no interest whatsoever in sleeping with you.
In general, I get a little bugged by how often guys here ask the wrong girls out and get heartbroken. Nine times out of ten, if a woman wants you, she will make it known to you. She will find every possible excuse to talk to you and touch you. These are the girls you are supposed to ask out. If you are unsure about how a woman feels about you, she probably isn't interested.
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Post by BigWill on Jan 3, 2015 13:41:19 GMT -5
She likely just means exactly what she says, and just wants to stay friends.
And if you can't trust her to be honest with you to the point where you have to ask stranger's opinions on it, you probably shouldn't be trying to pursue a relationship with her anyway.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2015 13:46:05 GMT -5
What everyone else says: She has no interest in you, but she's trying to let you down gently and not hurt your feelings because she's worried THAT will ruin your friendship.
Almost no one ever seriously has feelings for someone but doesn't pursue it because it'll screw up the friendship.
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Post by Malibu Stacy on Jan 3, 2015 14:02:44 GMT -5
In general, I get a little bugged by how often guys here ask the wrong girls out and get heartbroken. Nine times out of ten, if a woman wants you, she will make it known to you. She will find every possible excuse to talk to you and touch you. These are the girls you are supposed to ask out. If you are unsure about how a woman feels about you, she probably isn't interested. This, SO MUCH this. Though I would say rather than it being a "guys here" thing, it's a "guys everywhere" thing. But yeah, that's why I hate when the scenario plays out in movies or t.v. shows that the girls are somehow "surprised" to find out the guy likes her. You know, the guy who's spent the entire episode gooing all over her, getting tongue-tied and tripping over his own feet every time she spoke or walked by or. Or, even worse, when characters who knew each other as children/teens reunite and the girl is, again, surprised, but also tells him something along the lines of "oh, wow, you should have asked me out, I would have totally said yes!" I just feel like it gives boys false expectations that their female friends may be harboring secret crushes when in reality, if you are spending that much time around each other, there would be at least SOME hints. It sometimes feels like some guys think girls are expressing potential romantic interest merely by being present. Wishful thinking, I suppose.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Jan 3, 2015 14:25:28 GMT -5
In general, I get a little bugged by how often guys here ask the wrong girls out and get heartbroken. Nine times out of ten, if a woman wants you, she will make it known to you. She will find every possible excuse to talk to you and touch you. These are the girls you are supposed to ask out. If you are unsure about how a woman feels about you, she probably isn't interested. This, SO MUCH this. Though I would say rather than it being a "guys here" thing, it's a "guys everywhere" thing. But yeah, that's why I hate when the scenario plays out in movies or t.v. shows that the girls are somehow "surprised" to find out the guy likes her. You know, the guy who's spent the entire episode gooing all over her, getting tongue-tied and tripping over his own feet every time she spoke or walked by or. Or, even worse, when characters who knew each other as children/teens reunite and the girl is, again, surprised, but also tells him something along the lines of "oh, wow, you should have asked me out, I would have totally said yes!" I just feel like it gives boys false expectations that their female friends may be harboring secret crushes when in reality, if you are spending that much time around each other, there would be at least SOME hints. It sometimes feels like some guys think girls are expressing potential romantic interest merely by being present. Wishful thinking, I suppose. f***ing mass media ruining life expectations.
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Post by xCompackx on Jan 3, 2015 14:53:01 GMT -5
Will I ruin my friendship with the bears if I feed them, though? Not if they're adorable.
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Post by Sephiroth on Jan 3, 2015 14:55:55 GMT -5
Show em mah motto!
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Post by Mutant Couch on Jan 3, 2015 15:53:45 GMT -5
She doesn't want to be romantically involved with you. Why was her explanation not good enough and you had to seek meaning behind it from a predominantly male space? This is exactly why women feel obligated to go beyond, "No. I'm not interested." Will I ruin my friendship with the bears if I feed them, though? It depends on how you feel about being mauled.
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Post by Brood Lone Wolf Funker on Jan 3, 2015 16:18:20 GMT -5
I have said the same thing to a girl mainly because I legit was that close to her it would feel really awkward being anything but friends. I still am friends with her and it is perfectly fine that way sometimes it is better to be a friend then a lover
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Post by ibdude on Jan 3, 2015 17:34:32 GMT -5
I thought I would ask a question and some of you turn it into something negative.
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