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Post by suave on Jan 3, 2015 16:52:50 GMT -5
Kinda wanted opinions on this. I won't go to sleep before my girlfriend. Like, it doesn't matter if it's a school night or the weekend, I always want to be up later than her. It's not like we live with each other either, I just feel like I have to be up later. If she tells me she was up later, I feel like I did wrong somehow. Is this weird?
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Post by Mid-Carder on Jan 3, 2015 16:57:37 GMT -5
Need more info. Why?
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Post by suave on Jan 3, 2015 17:16:24 GMT -5
I don't know. Like, last night I was up till 4 am because I wanted to stay up later than her. Idk if it's some kind of masculinity thing, or what, but it just feels wrong if I fall asleep before she does.
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Dennis Stamp
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Post by suave on Jan 3, 2015 18:02:36 GMT -5
Very weird. At best, it's OCD. At worst, it could be something....well, bad. For her, not you Huh. How do you figure?
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Jan 3, 2015 18:29:26 GMT -5
Yeah, that seems a bit odd.
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Jan 3, 2015 18:58:15 GMT -5
Maybe you're just over-competitive.?
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Post by Juice on Jan 3, 2015 19:02:59 GMT -5
No man, I do the same thing. I don't let myself sleep until my wife does.
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Post by Mozenrath on Jan 3, 2015 19:05:11 GMT -5
I think they might be reading a little much into this, but this is coming from someone very particular with sleep, too. Like, I use a blanket even if it's hot, I have to have a fan on to get decent sleep, and I end up flipping my pillow like 4000 times to keep it cool. Maybe this is just your thing, her being asleep may be relaxing for you if you are used to it.
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Dennis Stamp
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Post by suave on Jan 3, 2015 20:18:56 GMT -5
You asked. Your incessant need to remain awake later than her could be interpreted as a lack of trust and a need to control her. If she's asleep, she can't be doing things behind your back - like seeing other guys. What's the next step? Making her go to bed at a certain time and forbidding her to have her phone and/or computer in her room? And oftentimes, controlling men (and women) escalate into violence. I am in no way saying this is the case with you, which is why I said "at worst." But if my daughter's boyfriend said something similar to this, my alarms would be going off big time. Geez, yeah, that's really extreme and I don't think that's the case.
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