I'd Like Some Lady Advice(Long Read Ahead)*Update 4/20/17*

[Baldobomb-22-OH-MAN!!!]

Just f***ing go and see what happens. she seems into you and you are definitely into her.

[abjordans]

I can't tell what the update is?

[mattperiolat]

Apr 20, 2017 21:16:44 GMT -5 triplethreatmark said:

So if somebody out there cares, I have a bit of an update on the situation between myself and the lady I have a crush on:

I sort of embarrassed myself last week in front of my crush. To give context, towards the end of the day last Thursday(just about the last half hour of the day), I decided to walk over to her cubicle on the other side of our office. As it was Easter weekend, she had told me earlier that week that she was going to spend the weekend in San Diego with some family. Thus, I walked over just to wish her a safe and fun trip. As I get there, I notice that she's Facetiming her family(in Michigan) as it was her mother's birthday, I believe. I should note that I had no idea that she was calling her family before I walked over there. When I noticed, I immediately felt embarrassed beyond belief and left after a short apology. However, despite it all kind of being a blur, I do remember her giggling at the whole situation and the fact that in my nervousness did this weird shuffle thing before I walked back to my cube.

Anyways, later that evening(away from the office), I texted her a more formal apology. I also told her how embarrassed I was for just walking over without asking assuming she would be free to talk. Well, she accepted my apology and then apologized to ME about accidentally making me feel embarrassed(when she obviously didn't). She then proceeded to tell me that she got a real kick out of my nervous shuffle("A really smooth exit, lol" were he exact words). She then proceeded to tell me that I'm always welcome to come by her cubicle. I wished her a safe trip and she thanked me.

Here's the real big development. Please let me know if I'm reading way too much into this or if I have a reason to feel like I'll describe in a bit. So this past Monday night, I sent her a text asking how the weekend went. In that conversation, she invited me to the house she's staying at to play some more board games with some friends on Saturday. However, what really tipped me off was that she mentioned that the family she's rooming with won't be there at all. She also didn't mention any of her other board game friends by name and I met quite a few of them the first two times she and I hung out. Also, right before inviting me, I had mentioned that I restarted playing The Last of Us and that she'd get a real kick out it because of the similarities between it and The Walking Dead(She's a big fan of the show, if I hadn't mentioned). Well, anyways, she then(without my prodding) mentioned that I could bring my PS4 with the game to check it out and give the game a try. I told her that I would.

So after the invitation and the facts I laid out, am I wrong to feel like this could possibly be an attempt to get me to be with her alone in a private setting? I'm pretty confident that it will be the complete opposite and it'll be a bunch of us there. However, maybe I'm stupidly trying to convince myself that it'll be just me and her because deep down that's what I wish it would end up being. Regardless, I feel pretty scummy thinking this. Why do I do this to myself?

Well, anyways, thanks in advance to anybody who wants to impart any insight on these two recent developments

Dude. I mean, seriously, DUDE. Overthinking to the max. You are doing amazingly well. She is being receptive, cool and welcoming. Just accept it for what it is - an invitation to spend time with her, alone or otherwise. Let things progress and no matter what happens, just follow your instincts. They have served you well to this point.