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Post by Xxcjb01xX [PIECE OF: SH-] on Apr 5, 2023 23:44:39 GMT -5
And here’s a statement from Kaylie Guerrero(Eddie’s youngest daughter from when he & Vickie were separated) It's a damn shame this family seems so divided over something that should be so simple to agree was awful, it's just a shame this situation's as sad as it is.
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Post by asuka007 on Apr 6, 2023 0:11:01 GMT -5
The issue is that they’re essentially blaming her for not wanting to go to therapy with the guy who assaulted her and the family members who still stick with him.
She’s under no obligation to have anything to do with the guy who they admit assaulted her.
Why should she trust them when they refuse to get away from him despite knowing what he did?
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Post by Mozenrath on Apr 6, 2023 0:13:01 GMT -5
It's awful. I am glad Sherilyn is getting support.
I just do not get it. I have been in love before. I have been in abusive relationships. I've been with people who ultimately turned out to not be good people, but I cannot for the life of me understand sharing a bed with someone who has assaulted my own flesh and blood, someone I raised from infancy. I'd hope I could live to be 400 and that I would never understand that kind of thinking.
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Post by asuka007 on Apr 6, 2023 0:26:37 GMT -5
Also the idea that an assault survivor can lash out, at times disproportionally admittedly, is actually not that uncommon.
Add in her needing surgery, plus whatever other issues she was dealing with (Shaul has talked about her own mental health struggles before as well TBF). It sounds like it was a mess for a long time.
But it’s really hard to overlook the fact that they’re still associating with the guy. And the fact that they cannot see that that alone disgusts a lot of people.
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Post by DichEvans on Apr 6, 2023 0:41:21 GMT -5
It's awful. I am glad Sherilyn is getting support. I just do not get it. I have been in love before. I have been in abusive relationships. I've been with people who ultimately turned out to not be good people, but I cannot for the life of me understand sharing a bed with someone who has assaulted my own flesh and blood, someone I raised from infancy. I'd hope I could live to be 400 and that I would never understand that kind of thinking. Like honestly, what kind of POS sides with a person who SA'd their CHILD?? Like good lord, I will never understand parents who put themselves before their children. If you feel that way, why on earth would you have kids in the first place??
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Post by Mighty Attack Tribble on Apr 6, 2023 1:45:13 GMT -5
Speaking as a father, if my significant other harms my child they're done without a second's hesitation. If they sexually assault my child, they'll be lucky not to turn up in a missing person's report. Just insane to me that Vickie would side with her husband even after acknowledging the allegations were true, no matter how strained her relationship with Sherilyn had been prior.
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Post by Jedi-El of Tomorrow on Apr 6, 2023 3:42:01 GMT -5
Might do some of y'all better to see Shaul's full statement: The main things I see here is acknowledgement that the stepfather did sexually assault Sherilyn, followed by a bunch of things that become irrelevant once you realize that... they just overlooked the assault as if it wasn't a big deal, kept him in their lives, and ditched Sherilyn. Garbage people.
Yeah, that's the thing. That can explain her lashing out at Vickie and Shaul. They're her family, and when they found out that her step father SA'd her, they thought therapy would fix it, but didn't boot the abuser out of their lives. That's gonna cause somebody to lash out, because they're gonna feel massively betrayed, and like they were abandoned. They may have helped her financially, and tried to stay close, but that's ignoring the Godzilla in the room that they sided with her abuser. There were no consequences for him.
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Post by Mid-Carder on Apr 6, 2023 4:36:41 GMT -5
Chavo is a good guy. The fact he's been quiet and supporting her behind the scenes speaks volumes about him.
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Post by Tenshigure on Apr 6, 2023 6:57:55 GMT -5
Immediately contradicting yourself in your statement isn't doing you any favours, Shaul. The fact you KNOW that this sexual assault happened, and the next actions in response weren't some form of separation or restraining order but instead allowing that person not only to continue to be a part of that family, but think that it's water under the bridge because he financially supported her isn't good enough. Your reluctance to speak up against this (I don't mean publicly, I mean standing by your abused sister and continuing to associate with the assaulter shows you did in fact abandon her in her time of need, you're just too afraid to admit you made a mistake and want to come out as 'the good guy' on both sides. Sorry you got your feelings hurt by the person you abandoned; at least you had support from your husband in your time of need. Maybe you should've reflected on how you felt with her lashing out and put yourself in your sister's shoes for once in this situation.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Apr 6, 2023 7:03:16 GMT -5
Won't get too in the weeds w it but religion has to play a part on how they're able to just hand wave sexual assault and insist dude is a good man.
You see that happen a lot.
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Post by Alice Syndrome on Apr 6, 2023 7:09:29 GMT -5
People have spotted she's no longer listed in the AEW site.
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Post by XIII on Apr 6, 2023 7:09:43 GMT -5
Shaul’s full statement isn’t that much better honestly. It’s still that she was SA’d which everyone just seems completely fine with which is bizarre. They’re acting like it’s not a big deal or at least that’s the way that it comes across. Then it’s a “woe is me” about how Sherilyn was mean to me even though I was helping her and I had some struggles.
This family is f***ed up.
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Post by WoodStoner1 on Apr 6, 2023 7:23:03 GMT -5
And here’s a statement from Kaylie Guerrero(Eddie’s youngest daughter from when he & Vickie were separated) It's a damn shame this family seems so divided over something that should be so simple to agree was awful, it's just a shame this situation's as sad as it is. "So divided over something that should be so simple..." That's our society in a nutshell.
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Post by Toates Madhackrviper on Apr 6, 2023 17:00:53 GMT -5
I'm glad that Chavo and Kylie seem to understand how family should work.
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Post by Beets by Schrute on Apr 6, 2023 17:46:15 GMT -5
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Post by darbus alan on Apr 6, 2023 17:59:47 GMT -5
I know she was on the way out anyway, but good riddance.
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Post by champchumpchange on Apr 6, 2023 18:04:21 GMT -5
When Shaul says her sister was sexually assaulted, but not raped, what does she mean?
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Post by Mighty Attack Tribble on Apr 6, 2023 18:25:31 GMT -5
When Shaul says her sister was sexually assaulted, but not raped, what does she mean? All sexual behaviour committed without consent is sexual assault, including rape, but in the most generalised sense (as the legal definition varies state-to-state and country-to-country) rape requires penetration. Shaul is saying Sherilyn was most likely groped or coerced into performing a non-penetrative sexual act, probably the former what with their "It was accidental" protestations.
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Post by Stone Coke Miami Watson 🥃 on Apr 6, 2023 23:03:08 GMT -5
Aaaaaand….she (Vickie) took down her Instagram page earlier this evening.
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Post by WoodStoner1 on Apr 6, 2023 23:21:04 GMT -5
Aaaaaand….she (Vickie) took down her Instagram page earlier this evening. And nothing of value was lost.
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