I need an outside opinion

[Arthur Digby Stamp]

Long story short: My head is pretty messed up. I feel like I need to meet some new people, outside my normal friend circle.

Today on Myspace, a girl that I'm friends with posted a bulletin about how this Saturday she's going out for dinner and drinks for her birthday, and invited anybody to come. She and I haven't spoken in a couple years, not because of a falling out or anything, just because we were friends from work who never really talked all that much. I'm thinking about writing her a message, basically saying "Hey, I saw your bulletin, and I was wondering if you wouldn't mind me coming out and saying happy birthday on Saturday."

Is that stupid? Or creepy? Honestly, I can't tell anymore. I just need the opinions of complete strangers to help me formulate a gameplan, and there's no complete strangers that I trust more then you guys.

[I'm The Cool One]

go for it, bro... not really creepy at all

[A Dubya (El Hombre Muerto)]

It sounds okay to me. I would go for it man. It doesn't come off as too creepy in my opinion.

[Mozenrath]

It's cool, go for it.

Besides, should she say no for whatever reason, you guys weren't talking anyway. No risk situation with a chance for a rewarding night and a chance to meet people, like you want to.

[Maidpool w/ Cleaning Action]

kiddobradley said:

It's cool, go for it.

Besides, should she say no for whatever reason, you guys weren't talking anyway. No risk situation with a chance for a rewarding night and a chance to meet people, like you want to.

I concur.

Everything to gain, nothing to loose.

[Arthur Digby Stamp]

Cross your fingers, gentleman. I just sent it. I added the line "I'll even buy you a drink, if that'll help convince you. But only one with a tiny umbrella."

I'm such a charmer...

[Mozenrath]

dennisstamp316 said:

Cross your fingers, gentleman. I just sent it. I added the line "I'll even buy you a drink, if that'll help convince you. But only one with a tiny umbrella."

I'm such a charmer...

Humor is always good.

[The Booty Disciple]

dennisstamp316 said:

Cross your fingers, gentleman. I just sent it. I added the line "I'll even buy you a drink, if that'll help convince you. But only one with a tiny umbrella."

I'm such a charmer...

There's a double entendre here about "charming the snake" to be made, but I've got a cold, so you guys all play amongst yourselves.

[jmac950]

Dude, just go. Bring some friends, so you don't feel out of place. By her a shot, and let the good times roll.

[longdogga]

jmac950 said:

Dude, just go. Bring some friends, so you don't feel out of place. By her a shot, and let the good times roll.

just don't suggest any thing creepy till you have her locked in the closet