biafra
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Post by biafra on Apr 7, 2008 19:30:06 GMT -5
Some of you might know my dad has been sick recently. He died early this morning, peacefully and painlessly.
I bit the bullet and went to see him..and even though that experience was as difficult as I feared; I'm glad I did it.
It was very very hard to see him seemingly aged thirty years in a week and in considerable discomfort....but thankfully now I can rest easy knowing all the pain has passed.
A lot of people have issues with parents for whatever reason...but I can honestly say I always knew my dad was as better or as good of a human being that ever walked the planet.
The most gentle, compassionate, and loving man I've ever met..I was always proud of him and I'm proud of the pieces of his nature that found its way into me and my son.
Thanks to everyone who kept him and us in their thoughts and prayers..with a special thanks to a few of you who went out of their way to open lines of communication in which I could let out my emotions during the difficult time.
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Post by The Line on Apr 7, 2008 19:32:18 GMT -5
Sorry to here that,man. I lost my dad a few years ago. We're all here for ya, dude.
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Post by Wolfpack Bitch on Apr 7, 2008 19:32:42 GMT -5
(((((hugs)))))) I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you went to see him, hard as it was. Down the road you'll need that closure in your mind and in your heart. I never had that with my mom and as tough as things seem for you right now, down the road you'll be better off for having gotten to say your silent goodbyes.
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Post by trixiedust on Apr 7, 2008 19:33:20 GMT -5
Some of you might know my dad has been sick recently. He died early this morning, peacefully and painlessly. I bit the bullet and went to see him..and even though that experience was as difficult as I feared; I'm glad I did it. It was very very hard to see him seemingly aged thirty years in a week and in considerable discomfort....but thankfully now I can rest easy knowing all the pain has passed. A lot of people have issues with parents for whatever reason...but I can honestly say I always knew my dad was as better or as good of a human being that ever walked the planet. The most gentle, compassionate, and loving man I've ever met..I was always proud of him and I'm proud of the pieces of his nature that found its way into me and my son. Thanks to everyone who kept him and us in their thoughts and prayers..with a special thanks to a few of you who went out of their way to open lines of communication in which I could let out my emotions during the difficult time. I'm so very sorry for your lost. But I am very glad you went and saw him before he passed away. |
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Post by MiLo Duck on Apr 7, 2008 19:33:38 GMT -5
Keep those memories close.
Stay Strong man.
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Post by gsguy on Apr 7, 2008 19:34:38 GMT -5
I'm really sorry to hear that Baifra. Condolences to you and your family.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2008 19:34:51 GMT -5
My sympathies.
Later on down the road, you'll appreciate the closure.
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Post by G✇JI☈A on Apr 7, 2008 19:35:10 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that.
Best Wishes.
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Post by The OP on Apr 7, 2008 19:37:48 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear the news. It sounds like your dad was a really great guy.
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Post by Big Daddy Bad Booking on Apr 7, 2008 19:38:09 GMT -5
Sad to hear about your father's passing. You have my sympathies.
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Post by acressl on Apr 7, 2008 19:42:52 GMT -5
My condolences. I you feel exactly as you speak you will should be fine. I've only had to face death once and it was not one as close as my own father. I ran at first. I didn't understand the necessity of sorting the end out. Believe me, it matters. What you did was right. When your grief has past you'll be better for it. I hope I'm not running my mouth too much. I just desire to help.
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Post by The Summer of Muskrat XVII on Apr 7, 2008 19:50:41 GMT -5
Sorry to hear about your loss man. It's never easy losing someone you're so close to.
My condolances to you and your family
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Post by Franchise on Apr 7, 2008 19:51:11 GMT -5
My condolences to you and yours for your loss. I have not lost my father, but I can only imagine the heartbreak that you must be feeling right now. Stay strong, and once again, my sympathies.
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Post by Blindkarevik on Apr 7, 2008 19:54:45 GMT -5
Man, I'm sorry to hear that.... I never know what to say in this situations, so I'll just say you're in my thoughts and we're all here for ya.
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Post by Samoa Kenny on Apr 7, 2008 19:57:12 GMT -5
I'm really sorry to hear that
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Post by Maidpool w/ Cleaning Action on Apr 7, 2008 19:58:08 GMT -5
Biafra, I'm sorry to hear this. Anything you need to talk about, just PM me man.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Apr 7, 2008 20:06:12 GMT -5
Biafra, I am just so sorry to hear about this. I know how highly you think of him. I can't imagine what you're going through. I'm keeping you in my heart and mind tonight mi amigo.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Apr 7, 2008 20:06:58 GMT -5
And just a quick note...anyone that isn't respectful in here is gone. No warnings, no s***, just gone. The fact that I have to say this saddens me.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Apr 7, 2008 20:08:36 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that man. Our thoughts are with ya.
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Post by Triple Kelly on Apr 7, 2008 20:09:23 GMT -5
I'm very sorry for your loss, man. Please accept my condolences and feel free to talk it out with us here. We'll listen. Just take it easy for the next few days.
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