Post by Ramses on Oct 2, 2008 14:06:39 GMT -5
im having an issue right now with a friend of mine. I still respect him and such, I still consider him my oldest and best friends I have in the world, but it just seems as of late he's been acting very... I dunno what to describe it, but here's an example of the kind of thing\
Interesting to see the drawing on your profile, but I have to ask, did you have any friends before college? I am just curious.....
in refrence to a picture I have on facebook now. Now, I love the guy, great guy, but the problem is this:
how can he say these things, how can he act like he wants to be my friend if A) the last time he came over my house, he didnt even say anything to me B) have this air of arogancy and smugness to his way he sends me messages and leaves me voicemails and C) dosent do the thing that I WISH he could do: Come to me personally and tell it to my face so I can tell him whats wrong with what he's doing too.
The problem as well is his additute towards things. If he is in a resonable mood, witch is most of the time, I can get him at level playing space to get him to see both sides, however, He tends to overthink things and slips into his dark side and refuses to listen to reason at this point, and usually when he starts to send me stuff like this and such, it's gotten to this point, so getting him to see both points and agreeing to it is out of the question if it does.
so help me, I need an answer. I don't want to cause more problems in this relationship, but I dont want to loose my best friend I got.
Interesting to see the drawing on your profile, but I have to ask, did you have any friends before college? I am just curious.....
in refrence to a picture I have on facebook now. Now, I love the guy, great guy, but the problem is this:
how can he say these things, how can he act like he wants to be my friend if A) the last time he came over my house, he didnt even say anything to me B) have this air of arogancy and smugness to his way he sends me messages and leaves me voicemails and C) dosent do the thing that I WISH he could do: Come to me personally and tell it to my face so I can tell him whats wrong with what he's doing too.
The problem as well is his additute towards things. If he is in a resonable mood, witch is most of the time, I can get him at level playing space to get him to see both sides, however, He tends to overthink things and slips into his dark side and refuses to listen to reason at this point, and usually when he starts to send me stuff like this and such, it's gotten to this point, so getting him to see both points and agreeing to it is out of the question if it does.
so help me, I need an answer. I don't want to cause more problems in this relationship, but I dont want to loose my best friend I got.