Your 1 Regret!

[They Adam Bradley]

So everyone has something in their life that looking back they wish they could have done differently, So I ask my fellow 'Crappers.......... If you could go back in time and change only 1 Regret you have what would it be and why?


Mine would be 2 years ago and I would have never let my stupid feelings ruin a fantastic friendship with a great person. This girl has been thru so much in her life and esp in the last 6 months and I know shes in so much pain right now and for 2 years its killed me inside knowing that she hates me and I'll never get the chance to be her friend again and can't do anything to make her smile and be happy again.... I wish I had never let stupid feelings ruined a fantastic bond...I should of been a friend and not try to be her "boyfriend"



Your Turn!

[mcmahonfan85]

I've spent five years of my life trying to invent an anal bum cover. Failing to do so is my greatest regret.

[Convoy]

There is only one thing I want to change with all of my being:

Not kissing my best (female, of course) friend back in sophomore year of high school 4 years ago.

If I had kissed her back (rather than ignoring her for the rest of the week due to awkward feelings), she wouldn't have dated a jackass who would end up forcing her to get an abortion the following year. She wouldn't be noted as being a slut by almost everyone. She wouldn't have started hanging out with drunken idiots who used her. She would be in college (even if it was the local community college). She would still live here still (she moved down to Florida 8 months after graduation). Most of all, we would've been together...which was something we both wanted but never realized until that very day.

We talk from time-to-time (I actually spoke to her earlier), but she's changed. I still love her to death though. She works at Disney and has a new group of friends and a new boyfriend. We often talk/joke about how she wants me to live with her. Sometimes I even think of moving down there and living with my brother to be closer to her. But you can't change the past. We will never be together, and I did enough fighting to defend her in high school. I'm doing great up here, and I don't think I would be making a great decision academically & professionally by moving right now.



I feel great typing that out finally. Thanks for this thread man.

[Rube]

Just one? I have so many.

I'll go with the most recent one, which is sleeping with one of my best friends on New Years. She's pissed and depressed because I don't want a relationship and all our mutual friends are choosing sides and shit. Bleh.

[Monster Under Your Bed]

A certain break-up 5 years ago.

I have lots of regrets, but that's the big one.

[They Adam Bradley]

no problem for the thread i know how it feels when you care about someone and you see them go thru alot of stuff and change and theres nothing you can really do to change it........

[The Tank]

My only regret...is that I have...Boneitis!

*dies*

[Gobbledy Demon]

My regret? Staying with someone who cheated on me constantly.

[They Adam Bradley]

thats horrible

[Annette]

Quitting working at Home Depot back in 2002. I was going to be a stay-at-home mom, I didn't need the money! Stupid me, I never considered the fact that I might want to escape from the house once in a while. They even told me "Don't quit, just come in once a week if you want!" The worst thing? Not even 2 months after I left, my boss quit and a girl who had just started working in my department was made Dept. Manager. I can pretty much guarantee you that it would have been me.

[wrestlesmarks]

Not keeping in touch with people I went to school with. (Kinda hard since I was out of state/country for two years) No I have no close friends except for my wife.

[warrenpeace]

Gotta say i have no regrets.It makes life more fun that way

[Slammywinner]

I regret not going to the hospital to see my grandfather before he died. He had a stroke and lost most of his motor control and could speak well. He'd often get frustrated and decide not to speak. I was too immature to handle it. If no one wheeled him to Christmas, I didn't see him for the last 6 or 7 years of his life. For a man I had such adoration for, I wish I could have gone to see him at least once towards the end. At least as a silver lining, I didn't allow that mistake to happen again with any of my other senior relatives, but I completely regret it happened and I'm completely ashamed.

I wish I could say I didn't have any regrets from my youth, but my regrets help guide me to be a better person. So I'm grateful I can learn from them and act on them as a man, even though I was too immature to avoid them as a young man.

[erisi236]

[The Genesis of KoOS]

Not realizing my feelings for a girl I was close with and trying to explore them before it was too late.

[bibboid]

I should have just let her go.
I dated a girl for about a year and she broke up with me over something stupid.
I begged her to take me back.
She did, but she turned all weird and needy and manipulative.
I finally had to pack her up with all her shit and drive 1000 miles to her parents house to drop her off to get rid of her.

I knew she wasn't the girl I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, so I should have just let her go the first time and gotten on with my life.

[chibidiablo]

Not being strong enough when I needed to be.

[Loki]

I chose an afternoon of arcade gaming and shopping with my friends instead of an afternoon around the Ramblas with a girl who had been after me since we get there.

I've often wondered how my love life would have gone had I given that girl a chance. Probably a lot better...

[Mr Ismaeal Naji]

Jan 7, 2009 16:09:18 GMT -5 erisi236 said:

Thats because he was Ken-Oh he was smashing faces, whats to regret about that?

my only regret was going into debt when i was ages 18-23, now im paying for it, even though I make GOOD money

[They Adam Bradley]

ahhh debt... i feel ya there... when i slowly start to get out from it, i do something to make it bigger than it was