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Post by Allison Reynolds on Jan 19, 2009 5:33:38 GMT -5
I just found out that he's going to leave to live in the main-land United States in one month, and it's permanent/for good. This never happened to me with any of my close friends before. I'm really gonna miss that mofo...
I'm really very Sad right now.
Edit: Whatever, I'm just going to vent in this thread if I need to.
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Post by i.Sarita.com on Jan 19, 2009 5:38:18 GMT -5
I was in the Army for 5 years and had to say goodbye fairly regulary to a lot of good friends. People I would consider to be family even for some. It sucks, thats for sure.
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Post by Strotha on Jan 19, 2009 5:53:55 GMT -5
I'm really sorry to hear that.I've had that experience before so I can kind of relate, and it's not a pleasant feeling.I'm really sorry.
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Post by Mozenrath on Jan 19, 2009 6:01:35 GMT -5
Man, that's rough. I hope you two stay in touch.
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Post by The_ripoff_artist on Jan 19, 2009 6:49:59 GMT -5
I've had plenty of friends move away in my life, and while I manned it up in front of them. I would get home, and bawl like a baby. It's the reason I don't let friends get close anymore.
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Post by Childish Gambino on Jan 19, 2009 6:52:32 GMT -5
Obviously make the next month the best month of your friendship then.
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Post by Allison Reynolds on Jan 19, 2009 6:55:31 GMT -5
I've had plenty of friends move away in my life, and while I manned it up in front of them. I would get home, and bawl like a baby. It's the reason I don't let friends get close anymore. That's exactly how it is for me, or will be for me. I normally want to look cool in front of friends, and not all emotional. But when I get home...  |
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Post by Allison Reynolds on Jan 19, 2009 10:11:31 GMT -5
Here I am posting again... I just couldn't sleep after my friend told me he was moving. It must be that in combination, with my insomnia/energy drinks I had the past couple of weeks. I have a headache.
My whole life I never had a real buddy before, until him. More like a ring of friends/aquaintances, who weren't too close. Who knew I would get along with this dude who is the complete opposite as me? A friggin party animal, and sex-addict, who does all kinds of crap, like drink and smoke, and act like a dumbass. Yet we somehow saw past these differences and became the best of friends? I sure as hell didn't expect it. Now he's leaving?
I am flippin depressed right now
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Post by Thread Pirate Roberts on Jan 19, 2009 10:18:54 GMT -5
Here I am posting again... I just couldn't sleep after my friend told me he was moving. It must be that in combination, with my insomnia/energy drinks I had the past couple of weeks. I have a headache. My whole life I never had a real buddy before, until him. More like a ring of friends/aquaintances, who weren't too close. Who knew I would get along with this dude who is the complete opposite as me? A friggin party animal, and sex-addict, who does all kinds of crap, like drink and smoke, and act like a dumbass. Yet we somehow saw past these differences and became the best of friends? I sure as hell didn't expect it. Now he's leaving? I am flippin depressed right now The saying Opposites Attract was made for a reason. I feel for you man and just want to say that he may be moving away, but he isn't going away. If that makes any sense to you. |
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Post by BK From WV on Jan 19, 2009 10:52:32 GMT -5
Count me as one of those that can relate as well. My best friend moved from here in West Virginia to Colorado about this time last year. We hung out literally every weekend for a year and then she got a job out there. I was depressed for the longest time. We would still talk on the phone or online but it wasn't the same as actually hanging out. Over time,it got better but I still miss hanging out with her. She actually has moved back East. She's in Nashville now which is closer and I've got to see her more lately. Just try to stay strong. Believe me,I know it's hard. I'm man enough to admit that I cried multiple times after she left but you just have to accept it. Hopefully,you'll still be able to communicate on a regular basis like we do. That really helps a lot. You may not be able to see him but at least by communicating,you know that everything is okay. It's not the same as hanging out together but it definitely helps.
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Post by Just One of the Guys on Jan 19, 2009 11:00:21 GMT -5
You are very brave.
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Post by Shy Guy on Jan 19, 2009 14:05:31 GMT -5
Here I am posting again... I just couldn't sleep after my friend told me he was moving. It must be that in combination, with my insomnia/energy drinks I had the past couple of weeks. I have a headache. My whole life I never had a real buddy before, until him. More like a ring of friends/aquaintances, who weren't too close. Who knew I would get along with this dude who is the complete opposite as me? A friggin party animal, and sex-addict, who does all kinds of crap, like drink and smoke, and act like a dumbass. Yet we somehow saw past these differences and became the best of friends? I sure as hell didn't expect it. Now he's leaving? I am flippin depressed right now i know what you're going through. my best friend since i was 3 has moved four times on me. she goes to church every sunday, likes country music, make up, has two older sisters... whereas i can't even step foot into a church, pure classic rock\metal, hate make up and i have two older brothers. you can't let distance ruin what you have. monthly phones calls and emails are super important. don't let something like this lose what you have. |
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Post by Paul Servo on Jan 19, 2009 16:30:17 GMT -5
My best friend moved to Italy because her husband is in the Navy. It was very sad for me, so I know where you are at right now.
You just need to make sure you stay in touch with them
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Post by default on Jan 19, 2009 17:59:51 GMT -5
Yeah... my best friend throughout elementary moved away the last year of elementary. We stayed in touch and I visited him for sleepovers up until 9th grade at least once or twice year and after that I ran into him once when he came to our school for a big school band concert. I added him to myspace a year or so ago, but haven't talked to him in forever as we don't apparently have much in common anymore.
Luckily though, when 6th grade started, I met my new best friend. I moved away and now he's in NY a lot, but we keep in contact over myspace and AIM. I've made zero friends since moving here in '05... I've just become overy socially awkward as well as having a good bit of online friends, most of which I've known for 5-10 years and can shoot the shit with over anything.
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Post by SAJ Forth on Jan 20, 2009 9:03:47 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that. I hope you can still stay in touch with them.
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