Post by Bones58 on Jan 22, 2009 7:40:21 GMT -5
Fellow Crappers, I would appreciate some advice. I’ve recently being going out with a girl for the past two months. She’s everything I could want – smart, funny, kind and beautiful. I thought our relationship was going great until suddenly yesterday she started acting moody and weird, and then told me that she feels we shouldn’t go out. Obviously shocked, I asked her why. She says she just came out a year long relationship then started seeing a boy for a week then when they realised they weren’t working out, we started to go out and she feels as if the whole idea of a relationship and the kind of things you do in one, she simply doesn’t want to have. She wants to not be tied down and be single for a while. Or as she told my friend “I don’t know I think I’m just not ready to be going out with someone the now” She says this has been on her mind for a week. Which overall is fair enough
However, after speaking to her last night she says she still has feelings for me and still likes me but she just doesn’t know. I then asked if that was us finished for ever, which she replied “I don’t think it will be =) just the now it’s kinda weird, I can’t explain it”. She also said it was more to do with the idea of a relationship just now rather than there being any other men in the picture and they she feared she would turn jealous and paranoid like she did with her last man after he didn’t treat her right. Just to make sure she wasn’t just saying this, I posed the question to her directly “Are you just saying this to protect my feelings?” She says she wouldn’t do that, and It should be mentioned when the last guy asked about getting back together right after they split up she told him straight up, no, there was no chance. So I really don’t think she would lie about it.
So my question is, is there still a chance for this relationship? Will I wait for her? Or just move on?
However, after speaking to her last night she says she still has feelings for me and still likes me but she just doesn’t know. I then asked if that was us finished for ever, which she replied “I don’t think it will be =) just the now it’s kinda weird, I can’t explain it”. She also said it was more to do with the idea of a relationship just now rather than there being any other men in the picture and they she feared she would turn jealous and paranoid like she did with her last man after he didn’t treat her right. Just to make sure she wasn’t just saying this, I posed the question to her directly “Are you just saying this to protect my feelings?” She says she wouldn’t do that, and It should be mentioned when the last guy asked about getting back together right after they split up she told him straight up, no, there was no chance. So I really don’t think she would lie about it.
So my question is, is there still a chance for this relationship? Will I wait for her? Or just move on?
