What's your one deal breaker in a relationship?

[Paul]

You know- you find someone you're interested in, but then there's one thing about them or their personality or whatever that you just can't compromise on and you know you don't want to persue a relationship with them once you've discovered that one thing.

For me; it's kids- either a girl who already has them or wants them. I can't stand kids and I sure as hell don't want any of my own. That's the one and only deal breaker I can think of for me. The childfree lifestyle is the one for me.

What about you?

[The Ichi]

Smokes pot.

[Welfare Willis]

The girl can't date other men.

[The Summer of Muskrat XVII]

Stupidity. I consider myself a rather intelligent person (even if I don't act it) and I like to have good conversations about a wide variety of topics, and if she can't keep up her end then it's to the curb with her.

And, I'm not talking chicks who have blonde moments. I'm talking chicks who couldn't tell you who President Obama is, or who don't know a thing about what's going on in the world etc.

[casualobserver]

Sept 9, 2009 7:34:15 GMT -5 The Summer of Muskrat XVII said:

Stupidity. I consider myself a rather intelligent person (even if I don't act it) and I like to have good conversations about a wide variety of topics, and if she can't keep up her end then it's to the curb with her.

And, I'm not talking chicks who have blonde moments. I'm talking chicks who couldn't tell you who President Obama is, or who don't know a thing about what's going on in the world etc.

Pretty much this.

[Pervy Stone Cold]

Have you ever just been sitting somewhere like in a large area like the school gym and this one person comes in and within a minute or so there is an unpleasant smell in the air. I'm talking about someone whose smell reaches you even when they are not even remotely close by to you.

[Push R Truth]

I broke up with a chick at college because she would only eat cereal.





I'm a hobby chef (and at the time I was very seriously thinking about finishing business school then going directly to culinary school). It drove me freaking nuts.


Luckily, my wife is just like me. Anything that's edible is fair game to try at least once.

[i.Sarita.com]

The girl could be the most wonderful person, and be the hottest girl I've ever seen...but if she smokes, I don't want anything to do with her.

[Sir Woodrow]

Poor Hygene and low intelligence.

[MGH]

I could never date anyone who smokes, ever. It's disgusting and I can't stand being around it.

[Jazzman]

Throw me in for Smoking. The fact that when I was younger I had Asthma doesn't help that person's chances either.

[willywonka666]

If I was with a girl and she got pregnant and she went to Spencer's and brought one of those trashy baby outfits where it talks about how big the kid's schlong is, or something equally appaling, I'd leave her right then and there.

[Deleted]

For me, I'm bothered if I find out she used to be with someone stupid. Everyone makes mistakes, I know, but if a girl's list of former mates reads as a who's who of people I hate, I find that difficult to get past.

[Avalanche Alvarez]

Assault with a deadly weapon.

And leaving a little bit of orange juice in the bottle and putting it back.

[Cranjis McBasketball]

Kids.

No way. I'm 26 and can barely look after myself. Besides, I would never bring a child into this world, what a terrible thing to do.

["Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat]

Being obsessed with having kids. I wouldn't mind one eventually but this one girl that keeps texting me is ACTUALLY obsessed with having one.

[The QC Loser]

1. Drugs
2. Alcohol, although this one I pretty much have to ignore since I have never met a woman that doesn't drink.
3. When asked what you did this weekend the answer is always in some way involving a bar/drinking
4. Alot of abusive relationships in the past. Usually means I'll get screwed over for the next abusive guy.
5. Is still friends with a large number of ex and insists that she hang out with them alone constantly. I mean come one I wouldn't be staying over at my ex girlfriends house if I had a girlfriend that is just plain disrespectful to the girl I am dating.
6. Is "in the middle of a divorce".
7. When talking to her friends about "good" guys the list of what makes a good guy always starts with monitary objects ie: oh he has a car, a house, a motorcycle etc. What no he treats me good, has a great sense of humor, great with kids, anything to do with personality.
Ok I am sure I could go on all day but I'll stop for now.

[teamjd]

I'm happy I'm eligible to swoop up all the lovely ladies that happen to smoke ;D

And so far, liking Meet the Spartans. And I'm not joking. That movie is NOT funny, and if you find it funny then I feel our sense of humours will be too far apart for me to get what I'm looking for out of a relationship.

[Bo Rida]

A girl with a very detailed plan of what she wants to do by a certain time, it just feels like your there to tick a box.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

Sept 9, 2009 10:17:17 GMT -5 "Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat said:

Being obsessed with having kids. I wouldn't mind one eventually but this one girl that keeps texting me is ACTUALLY obsessed with having one.

Practice makes perfect.