El Pollo Guerrera
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His name has chicken in it, and he is good at makin' .gifs, so that's cool.
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Post by El Pollo Guerrera on Dec 19, 2009 2:07:51 GMT -5
He sent me an email saying: "this room seems pretty empty without you in it." Reply: "Then call your ex. You had a choice: 1) make a commitment to me, or 2) string me along while trying to hook up with her. You chose wrong. And yes, it was YOUR choice, not mine."
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Post by Clarence "Showstealer" Mason on Dec 19, 2009 3:07:48 GMT -5
86 the boy. He's playing the emotional handbook to the letter. Block his messages, delete him from your facebook if you have one, cut all contact with him. It will be painful to do and I certainly don't envy you but the short term pain you get now is a lot better than the long term pain your heart and mind will take if you let him continue.
Not meaning to be rude but from what I hear if you let it continue you will fall and you will go back to him if you let him keep it up and sooner or later you'll be hurt again and either asking yourself and post messages again or worse, blaming yourself and that may lead to self harm.
He will not change, therefore you must. Cut All Ties now, take the holidays to be with friends and family and allow yourself to heal and then move on
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Post by RatedRKoffee on Dec 19, 2009 4:37:58 GMT -5
Mr Backlund NAILED it. You can end this now and start healing from this pain or you can keep draging it out and let this tool keep messing with your mind.
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Mozenrath
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Post by Mozenrath on Dec 19, 2009 4:41:04 GMT -5
My buddy Lord Humongous gives great relationship advice. Tell her what you told me, Mr. Humongous sir. "JUST WALK AWAY. JUST WALK AWAY."I think he's got the right idea. Besides, who am I to call a Lord wrong?
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MCMGM
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Post by MCMGM on Dec 19, 2009 9:29:42 GMT -5
I've been that guy, and I can tell you he's only wants you to want him. It's not even the sex. As long as you are begging for him (which is what you are doing, you're just not on your knees), then his head is getting bigger. I've been that guy, and I can tell you that if I was truly torn between two women, the one who read my personal email would be the first one I dumped. He didn't dump you and from the way you described it, he didn't even get mad. Which tells me he is willing to keep you happy long enough to string you along. So you would have dumped me because I read mail you had left open and found out you were lying to me the entire time? So it would be perfectly alright for you to lie to me, but the minute I want to find out what's going on so I'm not wasting my time anymore, YOU'D dump ME? I would have been still in la la land had I not read his email and I wouldn't know anything of what was going on. In any other situation, I would feel bad, but this time, no. I didn't deserve him lying to me and I don't think he has a right to privacy anymore.
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Post by Slingshot Suplay on Dec 19, 2009 9:50:56 GMT -5
Move along. He's not showing you the respect that you deserve by playing both sides. He can't get over his old flame, despite being with you. He's gotta sort out his feelings alone and you have to move on with your life.
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Post by Stephanie McMahon Fan on Dec 19, 2009 9:55:51 GMT -5
Let's play a Kelly Clarkson Song!!
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MCMGM
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Red Sonic My Ass
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Post by MCMGM on Dec 19, 2009 13:38:26 GMT -5
So, I had a big fight with him. Ended with me telling him to f*** off. I am sooo happy this snow storm came now. So if I feel anyway tempted to see him, I can't because I can't leave my house.
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Post by Back to being Cenanuff on Dec 19, 2009 21:01:46 GMT -5
So, I had a big fight with him. Ended with me telling him to f*** off. I am sooo happy this snow storm came now. So if I feel anyway tempted to see him, I can't because I can't leave my house. Okay, next play in the book is to get a new phone and new email and tell you that he broke it off with her. Keep the new phone on vibrate and out of sight, and check it when he goes to the bathroom. New email gets checked when you're not around. Those will be his new contacts to his other girl. Worse comes to worse, kick him in the nuts and Orton pose over him.
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MCMGM
Vegeta
WC's Official Jeff Buckley Stalkeress.
Red Sonic My Ass
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Post by MCMGM on Dec 19, 2009 21:51:00 GMT -5
So, I had a big fight with him. Ended with me telling him to f*** off. I am sooo happy this snow storm came now. So if I feel anyway tempted to see him, I can't because I can't leave my house. Worse comes to worse, kick him in the nuts and Orton pose over him. That is by far the funniest thing I've heard today. Thank you, I needed some cheering up.
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Post by Metalheadbanger Man on Dec 19, 2009 22:23:10 GMT -5
Now play "I Will Survive" over and over again, singing along really loudly.
...not that I've ever done this after a bad experience with a girl. Not never.
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Post by ozequal on Dec 19, 2009 23:07:55 GMT -5
Reading the emails told you it was time to leave. Not what the emails said, just the fact that you were compelled to read them. You can't trust someone who constantly lies to you. Save yourself some time by cutting off contact now. Half measures will turn something that should take weeks or months into something that can take years.
This guy doesn't value you as a friend or lover. He thinks you're stupid, or maybe he just thinks he's much smarter than you are and you'd never figure him out.
Do NOT get hung up on making sure the guy knows how much you were hurt or getting him to acknowledge the depth of feeling you had for your relationship. It doesn't matter to him anyway.
In his own words he wants to make it work with his ex. So get out of it and stay out.
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