Post by MasonK565 on Mar 5, 2010 15:19:52 GMT -5
Ok, I have a s*** load of friends and I have asked them all for advice but I think I should also ask you guys after seeing what you all came up for MaDaBa. Your advice will probably be better than most of the advice I have heard. I will try to be as detailed as possible. Now this will be a long post, so bear with me.
Ok, so I'm sixteen and I am best friends with a guy named Corey. He too is the same age and we have been best friends since 7th grade. We have gone to the same school from 7th grade to Freshman year. But for his sophomore year, he decided to go to a different school. So now he goes to Hutchinson High School while I go to Buhler High School. Hutch and Buhler are two towns that are about 7 to 15 miles apart. He lives in the northern part of Hutch, which fits into the Buhler District. He has a twin sister named Toni that goes to Buhler though, as she is also best friends with me.
Anyways, I only get to see him about 3 to 5 times a month, which is better than nothing. At Hutch, he has made some female friends, and when I go to his house, at least one of them are always there. (He says he has male friends too, but I never see them at his house) And he has a friend named Lauren. Now she is a year older than us, so she is 17 and is a junior. Now I remember before from middle school because she also is in his youth group. I only remember her cuz I i noticed she was really pretty while we were all eating at Spangles on sunday mornings. So after a few more encounters with her I realized not only she is reall,y really pretty, but how she is f***ing awesome as well.
Now she is a bit shorter than me and has the same size of feet me (which is awesome cuz i'm only 5" 4', and I have small feet, size 6). So I have been getting to know her a talk her more every time I meet her, and I only see her about 3 to 5 times a month. She is a dancer, loves Morgan Freeman (which is great cuz I love him too) and has a good personality.
A week ago we have spoken on Facebook, as we were talking about whether Pulp Fiction, Gump or Shawshank was a better movie, and she said she never saw Pulp Fiction but loved the other two movies. I love all three of the films so that was another bonus. She then asked how we should watch Pulp Fiction together. Now Pulp Fiction isn't the type of movie you want to see with a new friend that you like, so I said no. But then I suggested we should watch the other two films. I don't know if she was asking me if us two should watch it, or us and all the other friends should.
We were supposed to Shutter Island together w/ the other friends, but one of her stupid friends Allison didn't want me and Corey to go with them. So I was pissed off about that. But on Wednesday at Youth group we sat by each other, and watched The Best of I Love the 90's as group (Great Youth group huh? I like it, but not for the tv). I decided to be the nice, polite guy that I am and offered to take care her drink to the trash, and was just a nice guy. We were both KU fans, and that was the night KU vs KSU was on.
Now other minor stuff has happened as well, like one night corey, a friend named Maggi from Hutch, lauren and I watched Hot Rod and we all had fun. I had to to go a forensics tourney the next and she had to go to Kansas City for a dance competition. She wished each other good luck and said good-bye and left on a positive note. But i think that note was a friendly note.
I have been kinda afraid to make a move, cuz well Im a little guy (which should be irrelevant since im taller than her) who doesn't play sports. I'm a nerd, but not those lame nerds, the cool nerds. Now she laughs at my funny and nasty stories about fellow friends, and laughs at my nasty prank calls I give to the local public library. I guess a lot of weirdos have liked her before, and I'm afraid she would associate me w/ them if I revealed my feelings for her. And trust, I am not a weirdo.
What should I do?
I have been listening to Toni's advice, as she is a friend of her too, and she told me to take it slow. But I have lost sleep over the thought of this girl and I have no idea wat to do.
I now this a long post, but I need help.
What should I make a move? Should i just go slow? If I do make a move how should I do it?
Please, help me!
Ok, so I'm sixteen and I am best friends with a guy named Corey. He too is the same age and we have been best friends since 7th grade. We have gone to the same school from 7th grade to Freshman year. But for his sophomore year, he decided to go to a different school. So now he goes to Hutchinson High School while I go to Buhler High School. Hutch and Buhler are two towns that are about 7 to 15 miles apart. He lives in the northern part of Hutch, which fits into the Buhler District. He has a twin sister named Toni that goes to Buhler though, as she is also best friends with me.
Anyways, I only get to see him about 3 to 5 times a month, which is better than nothing. At Hutch, he has made some female friends, and when I go to his house, at least one of them are always there. (He says he has male friends too, but I never see them at his house) And he has a friend named Lauren. Now she is a year older than us, so she is 17 and is a junior. Now I remember before from middle school because she also is in his youth group. I only remember her cuz I i noticed she was really pretty while we were all eating at Spangles on sunday mornings. So after a few more encounters with her I realized not only she is reall,y really pretty, but how she is f***ing awesome as well.
Now she is a bit shorter than me and has the same size of feet me (which is awesome cuz i'm only 5" 4', and I have small feet, size 6). So I have been getting to know her a talk her more every time I meet her, and I only see her about 3 to 5 times a month. She is a dancer, loves Morgan Freeman (which is great cuz I love him too) and has a good personality.
A week ago we have spoken on Facebook, as we were talking about whether Pulp Fiction, Gump or Shawshank was a better movie, and she said she never saw Pulp Fiction but loved the other two movies. I love all three of the films so that was another bonus. She then asked how we should watch Pulp Fiction together. Now Pulp Fiction isn't the type of movie you want to see with a new friend that you like, so I said no. But then I suggested we should watch the other two films. I don't know if she was asking me if us two should watch it, or us and all the other friends should.
We were supposed to Shutter Island together w/ the other friends, but one of her stupid friends Allison didn't want me and Corey to go with them. So I was pissed off about that. But on Wednesday at Youth group we sat by each other, and watched The Best of I Love the 90's as group (Great Youth group huh? I like it, but not for the tv). I decided to be the nice, polite guy that I am and offered to take care her drink to the trash, and was just a nice guy. We were both KU fans, and that was the night KU vs KSU was on.
Now other minor stuff has happened as well, like one night corey, a friend named Maggi from Hutch, lauren and I watched Hot Rod and we all had fun. I had to to go a forensics tourney the next and she had to go to Kansas City for a dance competition. She wished each other good luck and said good-bye and left on a positive note. But i think that note was a friendly note.
I have been kinda afraid to make a move, cuz well Im a little guy (which should be irrelevant since im taller than her) who doesn't play sports. I'm a nerd, but not those lame nerds, the cool nerds. Now she laughs at my funny and nasty stories about fellow friends, and laughs at my nasty prank calls I give to the local public library. I guess a lot of weirdos have liked her before, and I'm afraid she would associate me w/ them if I revealed my feelings for her. And trust, I am not a weirdo.
What should I do?
I have been listening to Toni's advice, as she is a friend of her too, and she told me to take it slow. But I have lost sleep over the thought of this girl and I have no idea wat to do.
I now this a long post, but I need help.
What should I make a move? Should i just go slow? If I do make a move how should I do it?
Please, help me!
