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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 1, 2010 23:26:41 GMT -5
in an immoral world?
If you have the opportunity to date someone who is already in a relationship, thus ending said relationship would you do it?
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Post by Albino Heat on Mar 1, 2010 23:28:38 GMT -5
No.
If she does a guy wrong like that once, she can easily do it to you down the line.
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Post by Lair of the Shadow MaDaBa on Mar 1, 2010 23:30:09 GMT -5
If the other guy is a bastard, yes.
Otherwise, no.
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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 1, 2010 23:37:45 GMT -5
No. If she does a guy wrong like that once, she can easily do it to you down the line. ME?!? Who said anything about me? This input is for my friend, Paint Gurgeon. |
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Post by Drillbit Taylor on Mar 1, 2010 23:44:12 GMT -5
Nope. Even if the world is corrupt, there is no reason to deiviate from your own moral codes. That is one of the strongest most important things someone can have. If she sees its best to cheat on someone let her. But no one should make you change your own moral code.
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Post by Milkman Norm on Mar 1, 2010 23:45:21 GMT -5
It depends.
I would have a few questions:
1. A- Are their children involved?
B-If there are does the hypothetical odd man out have a postivie relationship with them as father or father figure? If the answer to parts and A&B are yes than I would have hard time doing it.
2. Are they married? If they're married without children I would be somewhat willing to do it if it seemed like the marrige was failing and that there was little to no chance of success
3. Are they in a relationship that is headed towards marrage and/or long term commitment. I'd really have no problem if it seemed like I could make a move.
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Post by LONG ISLAND's OWN vinnypic on Mar 1, 2010 23:46:06 GMT -5
To quote Ricky Martin: 'Do you really want it?'
I mean seriously, life is a jerk. Someone will screw you over down the line even if you're unwilling to screw this guy over. Bank on it.
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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 1, 2010 23:46:49 GMT -5
It depends. I would have a few questions: 1. A- Are their children involved? B-If there are does the hypothetical odd man out have a postivie relationship with them as father or father figure? If the answer to parts and A&B are yes than I would have hard time doing it. 2. Are they married? If they're married without children I would be somewhat willing to do it if it seemed like the marrige was failing and that there was little to no chance of success 3. Are they in a relationship that is headed towards marrage and/or long term commitment. I'd really have no problem if it seemed like I could make a move. Nope, no kids or Marriage |
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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 1, 2010 23:48:20 GMT -5
Nope. Even if the world is corrupt, there is no reason to deiviate from your own moral codes. That is one of the strongest most important things someone can have. If she sees its best to cheat on someone let her. But no one should make you change your own moral code. I know...  and it's hard because this girl is cute, smart and really nice... |
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Post by LONG ISLAND's OWN vinnypic on Mar 1, 2010 23:48:38 GMT -5
Is she hot enough that you'll get over feeling scummy relatively quickly?
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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 1, 2010 23:52:39 GMT -5
Is she hot enough that you'll get over feeling scummy relatively quickly? I could get over it in a nanosecond. |
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Post by Milkman Norm on Mar 1, 2010 23:54:36 GMT -5
I say go for it then.
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Post by spec on Mar 1, 2010 23:55:50 GMT -5
I was pondering this the other day and i thought that in theory the answer should be no. But then, how often do relationships end because one party meets someone else? All the time. Does it make it right? No. Should a person cave in precisely because it is a common occurance? Not if that moral code is an important defining attribute. Does it suck if the person you are seeing tells you that they've met someone else? Yes. If the opportunity is there for you to be the person potentially wrecking the relationship? I'm going to have to say you get yours. It's a shitty world and sometimes you have to look out for yourself. It's a harsh lesson but in life you get stepped on so why not be the stepper sometimes. If you do the right thing you can be proud of yourself. But did that get you laid?
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Post by Ducky Momo on Mar 1, 2010 23:57:16 GMT -5
Sounds like you're already making an excuse. You make your own code, just don't be a hypocrite about it. It sounds like you're saying you're code is against this. Yet you're ready to break something you live by... just to get off? |
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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 2, 2010 0:01:14 GMT -5
Sounds like you're already making an excuse. You make your own code, but don't be a hypocrite about. No, actually that's a reference to an NBC movie about the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising. Called "Uprising", staring Hank Azaria, David Schwimmer, and that girl from Deep Impact |
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Post by Ducky Momo on Mar 2, 2010 0:02:28 GMT -5
Sounds like you're already making an excuse. You make your own code, but don't be a hypocrite about. No, actually that's a reference to an NBC movie about the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising. Called "Uprising", staring Hank Azaria, David Schwimmer, and that girl from Deep Impact Well then...  |
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Post by Cela on Mar 2, 2010 0:03:40 GMT -5
I did, it was a great two years.
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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 2, 2010 0:08:06 GMT -5
No, actually that's a reference to an NBC movie about the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising. Called "Uprising", staring Hank Azaria, David Schwimmer, and that girl from Deep Impact Well then... But in general, I will put myself in other people's shoes and I certainly wouldn't want my relationship ended by some guy. So, I'm put in a very difficult position. |
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Post by BK From WV on Mar 2, 2010 0:15:39 GMT -5
No way would I do it. If she is really unhappy with the guy she is with,then let her break it off and then you can make your move. But in no way would I try to step in and be the cause of the breakup. It's just not right. There are plenty of other women in this world and as much as you may like this one,if she doesn't end it with him first,then the best bet would be to just move on to someone else.
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Post by saintturgeon on Mar 2, 2010 0:23:17 GMT -5
No way would I do it. If she is really unhappy with the guy she is with,then let her break it off and then you can make your move. But in no way would I try to step in and be the cause of the breakup. It's just not right. There are plenty of other women in this world and as much as you may like this one,if she doesn't end it with him first,then the best bet would be to just move on to someone else. I can't help but think of the ending to Anthology Of Interest 2 "There's always next year professor, there's always next year" |
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