Does my family think I am gay?

[oddman84]

I'm not but sometimes my bro in law jokes and says I am cos I live at home with my mum. On holiday I told my sister I went clubbing and she asked "did you look at the girls or the boys" as a mistake because she never jokes like that. Next day we were joking and then she randomly said "what do you call a boy who doesn't have a girlfriend and looks at porn, I said its fine to look at porn. Then my young niece who was next to her(mother) said "what you call a boy who stares,stares at everyone even boys.......gay"

They know I girls but on this holiday I don't bother since I'm with family and it's harder to get anywhere by myself. I notice they watch me and I stare because of my anxiety as in I try to give eye contact and fail with people,plus usually stare into space. I don't look at dudes maybe when I'm drunk and if I do and I'm thinking "what a douche"

They have made assumptions about other things two, like being racist. none our true. I'm a big guy who is a gentle giant and has bad luck with women to be honest.

[kingfeurio]

It sounds like they were just teasing you.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

They are just playing with you, especially if you haven't had a girlfriend for awhile.

[oddman84]

I guess so but they sure got a laugh out of it and sometimes they just seem to watch my every move it's f***ing stupid.

[darthalexander]

Your family sounds like a bunch of judgmental annoying pricks. If you want to know why you have so many problems, look no further than that bunch.

I think in order for you to be free, you need to be as far away from them as possible.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

Aug 26, 2010 12:56:22 GMT -5 oddman84 said:

I guess so but they sure got a laugh out of it and sometimes they just seem to watch my every move it's f***ing stupid.

You could always be confrontational and ask "So what if I am? So what if I like sucking mansauce out of my friends?"

See how'd they react.

I don't know. I do think it's just teasing, though. If it bothers you, I would think you'd start at your mom and ask her to not make those comments anymore.

[saintchancellor]

Your family seems like they are gay. All of them. Raging boners for each other.

[kingfeurio]

To be honest, they don't sound very nice. Maybe you should talk to them.

[Throwback]

sounds like they are teasing you and you're taking it a little hard. However what your niece said almost sounds like they may talk about you behind your back. which isn't cool.

[Curt Hawkins Fan]

Tell them they're gay, that'll do it.

[The Peoples Elbow]

OMG, you're so gay.

[Perpetual Nirvana]

You'll know when they take you to a gay steel mill.

[Legion]

has your dad offered to take you hunting yet?

[Johnny Nitro]

Aug 26, 2010 17:32:48 GMT -5 Legion said:

has your dad offered to take you hunting yet?

"Be a sport and kill Blitzen, okay?"

[twiggy101]

Can you at least prove that you're not gay?

[oddman84]

Lol I don't have a gf but they how I've had a few in the past.

[Deleted]

I can't tell you if they think you're gay or not, but as someone who stares into space for no reason, I feel your pain. I have had quite a few misunderstandings because of it.

[Non Banjoble Tokens]

Oh you know how families are. You've never had a girlfriend, you're gay. You don't like sports, you're gay. They catch you fellating a guy out by the dumpster behind the Denny's, you're gay. Same old crap.

[darthalexander]

It would be awesome if the next time this came up, you grabbed your brother in law and said "yes I am sweety" and gave him a big kiss on the lips. That would probably guarentee he'd avoid you for a long time (and make your life easier).

My mother kind of asked me if I was gay once, or tried to. She came out of the blue with this comment about being able to tell her anything (ha ha, right). I said ok, then she goes on this big thing about gays and being able to accept it. I said it was good to know.

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