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Post by woowoowoox on Jan 11, 2011 15:50:19 GMT -5
I think it's been all males in this thread so from a woman's perspective, I say: tell her to GET OVER IT. She sounds ridiculous to me
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Post by Andrew is Good on Jan 11, 2011 15:54:18 GMT -5
She seems to be bringing the crazy. I'd probably be sarcastic about it, unless I was insanely in love with her.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 11, 2011 16:05:31 GMT -5
This is the 21st Century. People need to be cool with hardcore pornography or join the Amish. Those are your only two options. Brilliance. Sheer brilliance.
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Post by Andrew is Good on Jan 11, 2011 16:17:50 GMT -5
Going back to this, essentially, lustful feelings in all humans are deep within us. It's impossible to keep someone from "lusting" towards someone else, you're working against nature. That doesn't mean people can't be monogamous, but it's almost like persecuting someone of a thought crime. You can't control what someone thinks, and you have to bring up the person's insecurity issues.
It seems to be an irrational belief, and talking to irrational people can be hard. Hell, there are people on the internet who think the Rock isn't technically the first black WWE Champion. If you're on a message board, it's best to ignore those people rather then engage them, because you'll tear your hair out. But, if it's someone you care about, try to be patient.
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Post by Cable "Showgrill" Jones on Jan 11, 2011 16:28:17 GMT -5
That is... kinda really creepy. She sounds like she's young or maybe you're her first? Either way... I'd keep an eye on her.
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Post by "The Rated XXX Superstar" Jed on Jan 11, 2011 17:03:13 GMT -5
That's absurd. Men like looking at naked women (men of course if they're gay, both if they're bi). To expect otherwise is absurd. I'd be worried if my boyfriend WASN'T looking at naked people.
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Post by Massive G on Jan 11, 2011 17:10:46 GMT -5
run. fast. I saw Audition, I know how this ends. I should stop drinking any fluid while I peruse this forum, because I just spit vitamin water all over my desk. Again. But in regards to the OP, I'd have to agree - she sounds nuts.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 11, 2011 17:41:54 GMT -5
Well we got into a huge fight over this. She said I was disrespecting her and I wasn't thinking of her feelings. I basically gave her an ultimatum of you can get over it or I'm gone and she said she couldn't get over it. So I'm gone.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Jan 11, 2011 18:00:04 GMT -5
Well we got into a huge fight over this. She said I was disrespecting her and I wasn't thinking of her feelings. I basically gave her an ultimatum of you can get over it or I'm gone and she said she couldn't get over it. So I'm gone. You're better off, bro.
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Post by Munkie91087 on Jan 11, 2011 18:43:25 GMT -5
Well we got into a huge fight over this. She said I was disrespecting her and I wasn't thinking of her feelings. I basically gave her an ultimatum of you can get over it or I'm gone and she said she couldn't get over it. So I'm gone. You made a wise choice. I've dated plenty of crazies in my day, and let me tell you, no amount of kinky sex will stop crazy. Petty jealous only gets worse, and it becomes impossible to make a relationship work. You need a healthy give and take. Being told what you can and can't do is not healthy. Ending the relationship is definitely smart.
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Post by Alex Shelley on Jan 11, 2011 19:18:05 GMT -5
I'd be worried if my boyfriend WASN'T looking at naked people. Same. And OP, glad you got out of that. That type of attitude is NOT going to lead to a healthy relationship at all.
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Post by The Line on Jan 11, 2011 20:03:11 GMT -5
at the very least, at least she was heeding her own advice rather than giving you flack while she drooled over Gerard Butler and Mickey Rooney.
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Post by RedSmile on Jan 11, 2011 20:06:15 GMT -5
Well we got into a huge fight over this. She said I was disrespecting her and I wasn't thinking of her feelings. I basically gave her an ultimatum of you can get over it or I'm gone and she said she couldn't get over it. So I'm gone. You made the correct decision. IMO.
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Post by Maidpool w/ Cleaning Action on Jan 11, 2011 20:14:16 GMT -5
GET OUT NOW! Bitch be crazy. Seriously though this lady doesn't sound like someone that you should look for a long term relationship with. She is either crazy, extremely immature, or a drama queen. If I had to guess from the little information you given I'd say she suffers from a healthy dose of all three. Cut ties and don't look back. I got to this post before I just stopped reading. Listen to this man.
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Post by Jay Peas 42 on Jan 11, 2011 21:01:46 GMT -5
It's unlikely any argument you make would be persuasive to her, and vice versa. You would both be happier with other people.
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Post by megmom2two on Jan 11, 2011 23:55:05 GMT -5
Scenes in a movie, I could care less about... Its a movie... other things hubby knows, you look your out. thats that.
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Post by The Ichi on Jan 12, 2011 1:27:37 GMT -5
I had a girlfriend exactly like that, and if yours is anything like mine, these rules don't apply to her and she can look at men all she wants, but YOU can't look at women. Not trying to scare you, but that's how it was for me. Women can be hypocrites.
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Post by Efren on Jan 12, 2011 2:19:59 GMT -5
Wise choice getting out, sounds like a total psycho that would latter on have a million jealousy issues.
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Post by Danimal on Jan 12, 2011 4:05:38 GMT -5
Depends on where she falls in the hot crazy scale. I just started watching that show when it hit syndication, Barney kills me. As far as the OP goes, I think you're in trouble with that one dude. You'll have to deal with more of this crap down the road.
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Post by Mozenrath on Jan 12, 2011 5:08:56 GMT -5
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