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Post by Realtalk on Apr 3, 2011 14:43:00 GMT -5
I do take on board what you people are saying. It's just that she really seems interested and does ring alot. Alot more than I do anyway.
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Post by againareku on Apr 4, 2011 1:16:00 GMT -5
I go through a similar routine. I call her, text her, get nothing from her. At some point she calls or texts me, I miss the call or text, my phone is dead, or I'm busy, and she gets pissed at me.
It's just the law of the land. Girls can and will get pissed over anything, but if you get angry or disagree about anything you're just a jerk.
Do you like her? love her? If so, deal with it, ride through the storm, and if it's meant to be you and your girl will be inseparable. I'm doing the same, and it's working. I have been broken up with over four times this month, chewed out over everything, but just Friday she admitted [without me asking her] how wonderful it is to be my girlfriend and how she loves messing with me, but should know how she really feels.
Women are fickle about everything, yet determined and stubborn. Fragile by nature, but tough as nails on the inside. Complicated by design only to be simple at heart. If the girl is worth it, deal with it, and in the end she will be your best friend and neither one of you will be able to live without each other.
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Post by Alex Shelley on Apr 4, 2011 1:43:48 GMT -5
It's just the law of the land. Girls can and will get pissed over anything, but if you get angry or disagree about anything you're just a jerk. ... Women are fickle about everything, yet determined and stubborn. Fragile by nature, but tough as nails on the inside. Complicated by design only to be simple at heart. This is a little sexist, don't you think? Women are all individuals. Just because you've had bad experiences with women doesn't mean it's okay to make gigantic generalizations about women being easy to piss off.
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Post by Danimal on Apr 4, 2011 5:18:05 GMT -5
Just suck it up and move-on OP. There are plenty of women out there, including ones you'll actually get to see and not just play phonetag with. You don't need the headaches.
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Post by Hit Girl on Apr 4, 2011 5:32:32 GMT -5
I do take on board what you people are saying. It's just that she really seems interested and does ring alot. Alot more than I do anyway. Then go forth and conquer.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 4, 2011 12:14:13 GMT -5
Well I txt her last night and she got back to me today asking me if I fancied playing call of duty later online. Strange.
I txt back yeah why not and then she txt me again asking me what time and told me she was in the hospital but didn't say why. She also knows we were supposed to meet tommorow.
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 4, 2011 12:16:26 GMT -5
She seems out of her head.
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Post by Efren on Apr 4, 2011 12:18:05 GMT -5
flat out ask her, "are we done? I want to know so I can move on". Chances are she will break up with you but at least you kill know, in the slim chance shes still interested in you and is just acting out it will be a wakeup call you wont be there waiting forever.
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Post by againareku on Apr 4, 2011 12:24:06 GMT -5
It's just the law of the land. Girls can and will get pissed over anything, but if you get angry or disagree about anything you're just a jerk. ... Women are fickle about everything, yet determined and stubborn. Fragile by nature, but tough as nails on the inside. Complicated by design only to be simple at heart. This is a little sexist, don't you think? Women are all individuals. Just because you've had bad experiences with women doesn't mean it's okay to make gigantic generalizations about women being easy to piss off. You obviously have never been with a redhead!
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 4, 2011 12:30:07 GMT -5
Red heads freak me out.
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Post by Mattification on Apr 4, 2011 13:39:58 GMT -5
It sounds like she is using you when she needs to. It also seems abundantly clear that she does not want a relationship with you. It also seems like you cannot accept this.
I'm only getting my info from this thread of course but that's my gut instinct.
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Post by emoney3265 on Apr 4, 2011 18:38:22 GMT -5
I go through a similar routine. I call her, text her, get nothing from her. At some point she calls or texts me, I miss the call or text, my phone is dead, or I'm busy, and she gets pissed at me. It's just the law of the land. Girls can and will get pissed over anything, but if you get angry or disagree about anything you're just a jerk. Do you like her? love her? If so, deal with it, ride through the storm, and if it's meant to be you and your girl will be inseparable. I'm doing the same, and it's working. I have been broken up with over four times this month, chewed out over everything, but just Friday she admitted [without me asking her] how wonderful it is to be my girlfriend and how she loves messing with me, but should know how she really feels. Women are fickle about everything, yet determined and stubborn. Fragile by nature, but tough as nails on the inside. Complicated by design only to be simple at heart. If the girl is worth it, deal with it, and in the end she will be your best friend and neither one of you will be able to live without each other. No offense but this is dumb advice. If you're upset with her behavior but she continually comes back, stick it out? Yeah, just keep making yourself unhappy/confused. O and what the guy above me said.
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Post by FUNK_US/BRODUS on Apr 4, 2011 18:53:17 GMT -5
She's getting rid of you. Sack up and move on. Sometimes Macho Man is right, you just have to Be A Man.
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Post by Hit Girl on Apr 4, 2011 19:11:22 GMT -5
I like the sound of this girl
Deranged, but fun.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 4, 2011 22:29:21 GMT -5
She is fun. Really good looking Italian 22 year old and she is like a tomboy in some ways but dresses slutty alot. It was really cool and we played COD for 2 hours tonight she was good and got more kills than I did lol and I'm a decent gamer but don't play COD that much and in between she was txting me kisses and things it was sweet then her phone kept cutting out like it does all the time when we spoke after the game finished and I said something that she slightly didn't agree(to do with our relationship at work) with so when it cut out this time she lets the phone ring and turns it off twice.
I know she doesn't mean it but I can't tell if she really wants to see me. She recently come out of a relationshiop but I tell her that it would be nice to see eachother because we just keep talking and it's not helping the attraction. I like her alot and don't want to push her away so what do you lot think?
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Post by againareku on Apr 4, 2011 22:49:19 GMT -5
I go through a similar routine. I call her, text her, get nothing from her. At some point she calls or texts me, I miss the call or text, my phone is dead, or I'm busy, and she gets pissed at me. It's just the law of the land. Girls can and will get pissed over anything, but if you get angry or disagree about anything you're just a jerk. Do you like her? love her? If so, deal with it, ride through the storm, and if it's meant to be you and your girl will be inseparable. I'm doing the same, and it's working. I have been broken up with over four times this month, chewed out over everything, but just Friday she admitted [without me asking her] how wonderful it is to be my girlfriend and how she loves messing with me, but should know how she really feels. Women are fickle about everything, yet determined and stubborn. Fragile by nature, but tough as nails on the inside. Complicated by design only to be simple at heart. If the girl is worth it, deal with it, and in the end she will be your best friend and neither one of you will be able to live without each other. No offense but this is dumb advice. If you're upset with her behavior but she continually comes back, stick it out? Yeah, just keep making yourself unhappy/confused. O and what the guy above me said. Obviously, you have never been with a redhead. I have a year with a redhead. Trust me, it's a roller coaster: FUN, filled with highs and lows and twists and turns, yet when you get off the ride, you just want to get back on it.
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Post by againareku on Apr 4, 2011 22:51:33 GMT -5
She is fun. Really good looking Italian 22 year old and she is like a tomboy in some ways but dresses slutty alot. It was really cool and we played COD for 2 hours tonight she was good and got more kills than I did lol and I'm a decent gamer but don't play COD that much and in between she was txting me kisses and things it was sweet then her phone kept cutting out like it does all the time when we spoke after the game finished and I said something that she slightly didn't agree(to do with our relationship at work) with so when it cut out this time she lets the phone ring and turns it off twice. I know she doesn't mean it but I can't tell if she really wants to see me. She recently come out of a relationshiop but I tell her that it would be nice to see eachother because we just keep talking and it's not helping the attraction. I like her alot and don't want to push her away so what do you lot think? Even more so, stay the course. Sounds like she's in a bit of denial and just need some time. In the end, for your headaches, you're getting a pretty slutty dressing girls that flirts with you and plays video games with you..that's a lot more than most guys have. stay the course, and you'll have a lot more.
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Post by Danimal on Apr 5, 2011 3:03:59 GMT -5
She is fun. Really good looking Italian 22 year old and she is like a tomboy in some ways but dresses slutty alot. It was really cool and we played COD for 2 hours tonight she was good and got more kills than I did lol and I'm a decent gamer but don't play COD that much and in between she was txting me kisses and things it was sweet then her phone kept cutting out like it does all the time when we spoke after the game finished and I said something that she slightly didn't agree(to do with our relationship at work) with so when it cut out this time she lets the phone ring and turns it off twice. I know she doesn't mean it but I can't tell if she really wants to see me. She recently come out of a relationshiop but I tell her that it would be nice to see eachother because we just keep talking and it's not helping the attraction. I like her alot and don't want to push her away so what do you lot think? Quit chasing her. Looks like she doesn't really want to see you or she has issues, quite possibly both. Either way it's a bad deal for you. What difference does it make if she's attractive if you don't actually do anything with her but text and phone? Leave the door open and stay friendly but you should be looking at moving-on.
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Post by Hit Girl on Apr 5, 2011 9:00:07 GMT -5
She is fun. Really good looking Italian 22 year old and she is like a tomboy in some ways but dresses slutty alot. It was really cool and we played COD for 2 hours tonight she was good and got more kills than I did lol and I'm a decent gamer but don't play COD that much and in between she was txting me kisses and things it was sweet then her phone kept cutting out like it does all the time when we spoke after the game finished and I said something that she slightly didn't agree(to do with our relationship at work) with so when it cut out this time she lets the phone ring and turns it off twice. I know she doesn't mean it but I can't tell if she really wants to see me. She recently come out of a relationshiop but I tell her that it would be nice to see eachother because we just keep talking and it's not helping the attraction. I like her alot and don't want to push her away so what do you lot think? She needs a new phone. Keep her at arm's length though. If you keep chasing her like a puppy, she'll know that she's got you by the balls.
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 5, 2011 9:53:17 GMT -5
She is fun. Really good looking Italian 22 year old and she is like a tomboy in some ways but dresses slutty alot. It was really cool and we played COD for 2 hours tonight she was good and got more kills than I did lol and I'm a decent gamer but don't play COD that much and in between she was txting me kisses and things it was sweet then her phone kept cutting out like it does all the time when we spoke after the game finished and I said something that she slightly didn't agree(to do with our relationship at work) with so when it cut out this time she lets the phone ring and turns it off twice. I know she doesn't mean it but I can't tell if she really wants to see me. She recently come out of a relationshiop but I tell her that it would be nice to see eachother because we just keep talking and it's not helping the attraction. I like her alot and don't want to push her away so what do you lot think? Sounds like she'd rather have that old relationship and you're some sort of bounce back. Not saying that's for sure, but what it seems like to me.
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