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Post by Mozenrath on Apr 5, 2011 14:30:43 GMT -5
I don't think you're quite getting the fact that this actually has a name. My wife even told me about it. It's called "the fade". I know you don't want to believe it, and I understand...I've had this happen to me before as well. But theryno is spot on in what he's saying. You had a shot, something happened to where she wasn't feeling it, and is too scared to break it off because it'll hurt you. She thought it might lead to romance but it didn't...so she's hoping you'll get it by her actions. Don't send any texts, don't call, don't drop by her house...you just got to face that it didn't work out and just accept that's that. I'm sorry if I come off mean, but you keep posting saying you know what we're saying, and then doing the exact opposite of it. Kash has the right idea. She is acting like a coward, or at best is misguided in her attempt at being kind, and it's not a great sign of her maturity in relationships, anyway. So you may well have dodged a bullet.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 5, 2011 14:49:33 GMT -5
Maybe your right.
I guess having a sexy italian younger than me that can kick ass on COD really could be blinding me.
There is a feeling I have that if I backed off she would be on more but I just feel like I can't back off at the moment.
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Post by Hit Girl on Apr 5, 2011 15:04:49 GMT -5
Tell her to join this site, then we can find out more about your crazy sexy video game playing cell phone using Italian girlfriend
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 5, 2011 15:17:19 GMT -5
Italian? Does she have a mustache?
Does she look like Sylvester Stallone?
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Apr 5, 2011 16:38:31 GMT -5
She doesn't care one way or another really. You're 'backup plan' guy.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Apr 5, 2011 17:11:22 GMT -5
The advice is useless. This guy doesn't want advice, he wants us to tell him to go for it. So here's the advice you wanna hear:
-Go For it -Move ahead -it's not too late -whip it good
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Apr 5, 2011 17:18:43 GMT -5
Probably right, but what the hell, one more nugget of wisdom for the road-
Look at her actions, not her words, and bottom line it. Don't see what you wanna see, take a look at what's really there.
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 5, 2011 17:23:39 GMT -5
The real question...does she scream "Adriaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan!?" during sex?
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Post by FUNK_US/BRODUS on Apr 5, 2011 18:45:55 GMT -5
The advice is useless. This guy doesn't want advice, he wants us to tell him to go for it. So here's the advice you wanna hear: -Go For it -Move ahead -it's not too late -whip it good Have to agree. He only came here looking to hear what he wanted. Anyone else can see this girl isnt interested at all.
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 5, 2011 22:02:06 GMT -5
Typical italian woman.
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Post by emoney3265 on Apr 5, 2011 23:11:24 GMT -5
Typical italian woman. Haha ok man you gotta stop... You've had me rolling all night long. Total threadcrap win right there.
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Post by 4TheGlory on Apr 6, 2011 11:19:07 GMT -5
Send nudes asap
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 6, 2011 15:56:44 GMT -5
She is strange.
She said she would come and see me for a little chat tonight and I txt her back asking her what time and it has been an hour and she hasn't replied. She likes to play tricks and tests me sometimes but I don't know why I'm nice to her.
I will call her in a minute but then what should I do if I don't hear from her just call her once and leave it at that? also we spoke on the phone and I was very drunk and I remember her saying "Don't think I don't want to see you because I do"
I don't think we made plans for today but we might have. I just gave her a normal txt tonight and she txt back saying she was going to see me but then I replied and asked her what time. She might of expected me to tell her but she is driving to me that's why I asked.
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 6, 2011 15:59:55 GMT -5
Ask her/him where's your pizza.
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Post by The QC Loser on Apr 6, 2011 16:19:16 GMT -5
Hmmmm attractive 22 year old Italian girl huh? I think I am going to need some pics to make a good judgement about your situation.
Also does she think and innuendo is an Italian suppository?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2011 17:00:55 GMT -5
She's toying with you.
I would just let it be, and blaze a new trail into uncharted women.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 6, 2011 22:56:24 GMT -5
Yeah she spent 3 hours f***ing about on the PS3 playing GTA IV and decided she wasn't going to see me but instead of telling me just quietly vanished from online mod i.e standing still.
Before that she was asking me some stupid question about why I never fancied her friend when I first saw her, I said her friend was pretty but I didn't fancy her and I prefer you and she was like "oh yeah but she is a very good looking girl though" and I was like "you wouldn't want me to fancy her though would you" and then her tone was angry even when I complimented her saying she was different to the other girls and this other girl I had used to bore me by talking about houses and money on first date and she was like "you could agree with her"
I was like "yeah I did but we just didn't get on" and then her phone cuts off and she doesn't pick up both times and ring her and ignores me online then appears suddenly and just f***s about on the game. I'm pretty pissed off right now.
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 6, 2011 22:57:47 GMT -5
Yeah she spent 3 hours f***ing about on the PS3 playing GTA IV and decided she wasn't going to see me but instead of telling me just quietly vanished from online mod i.e standing still. Before that she was asking me some stupid question about why I never fancied her friend when I first saw her, I said her friend was pretty but I didn't fancy her and I prefer you and she was like "oh yeah but she is a very good looking girl though" and I was like "you wouldn't want me to fancy her though would you" and then her tone was angry even when I complimented her saying she was different to the other girls and this other girl I had used to bore me by talking about houses and money on first date and she was like "you could agree with her" I was like "yeah I did but we just didn't get on" and then her phone cuts off and she doesn't pick up both times and ring her and ignores me online then appears suddenly and just f***s about on the game. I'm pretty pissed off right now. You mean after this entire thread, you didn't expect that?
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 6, 2011 23:07:17 GMT -5
Everyone and their mother tried to warn you, nothing you should be pissed about. You willingly kept trying on your own accord.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 7, 2011 5:23:32 GMT -5
Yeah at the end of the day we get on well but then she just does something weird and I'm left wondering what to do next. I might be better off not caring anymore.
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