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Post by Silent Brad on Apr 17, 2011 19:32:46 GMT -5
Does anybody here really have problems overthinking things? I do. And it's getting to the point where it is really getting in the way of things. Especially things with my girlfriend. I know, in the back of my mind, things are probably perfectly fine between me and her, but I can never stop myself from spending a good chunk of time wondering "Well, what if this" or "But maybe that", you know. I fear I may do something stupid as a result of this and end up really screwing up our relationship.
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Post by Monty Dawson on Apr 17, 2011 19:34:24 GMT -5
You have to practice the 3 seconds rule. Make every minor decision in 3 seconds or less, otherwise you think too much and ruin it.
While I wouldn't do this for major issues, for little things your instinct is usually right (or if not right, still fine)
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thegigolo
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Post by thegigolo on Apr 17, 2011 19:41:52 GMT -5
I'm usually doing this quite a bit. Sucks at times.
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Post by Silent Brad on Apr 17, 2011 19:44:43 GMT -5
You have to practice the 3 seconds rule. Make every minor decision in 3 seconds or less, otherwise you think too much and ruin it. While I wouldn't do this for major issues, for little things your instinct is usually right (or if not right, still fine) I'll have to give this a try. |
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AFN: Judge Shred
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Post by AFN: Judge Shred on Apr 17, 2011 19:49:00 GMT -5
So you are obsessive? I am as well. I have managed to overcome a lot of it through my various jobs, but with women... oy.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Apr 17, 2011 20:00:32 GMT -5
yeah too much.
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Big L
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Post by Big L on Apr 17, 2011 20:01:06 GMT -5
Yeah i tend to that
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Post by DrewVonAwesome on Apr 18, 2011 0:08:15 GMT -5
I don't but my does like crazy, it makes it hard to do things with her like play games or plan stuff.
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Post by darthalexander on Apr 18, 2011 10:24:15 GMT -5
I've done this a lot myself and it has caused me tons of problems. I try not to do it anymore.
My mother has it so hard that she can barely make any decisions.
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CM Dazz
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Post by CM Dazz on Apr 18, 2011 14:28:34 GMT -5
Not really but I'm often quite indecisive. I change my mind quite a bit. No I don't. Yes I do.
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Post by whitecrxsses on Apr 18, 2011 14:58:34 GMT -5
Does anybody here really have problems overthinking things? I do. And it's getting to the point where it is really getting in the way of things. Especially things with my girlfriend. I know, in the back of my mind, things are probably perfectly fine between me and her, but I can never stop myself from spending a good chunk of time wondering "Well, what if this" or "But maybe that", you know. I fear I may do something stupid as a result of this and end up really screwing up our relationship. I have the same thing right now. Sucks. \= Jealousy makes it 250x worse. D: |
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