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Post by B'Cup x on May 8, 2011 5:44:18 GMT -5
tough s***...I've known her for 3 months, he has known her for 3 weeks this here, is pretty much my favourite line ever. Also, I cant be the only one desperatly intrigued to see a picture of this girl and maybe read her opinions of the situation x
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Post by noleafclover1980 on May 8, 2011 6:22:14 GMT -5
Yeah same girl from before.... It seems like things might not be going so well and if the break up occurs it's not going to be smooth, how can I manage this at work without leaving? give us some realtalk! This creepy anorexic asian guy with braided hair turned up 3 weeks ago, following her everyday and acting as if he is a big part of her life. He acts like he is into her but seems very feminine and gay. She mentioned him out of nowhere and how he is going to join us on the train. I got annoyed saying "why I don't even know him" she was like "he is ok lets just see how it goes" she was insisting I didn't get it. Soon as I met she would make him feel like she had no interest in me(talking to him more,unfriendly etc) meanwhile this guy kept talking to her and whispering in her ear. I would get annoyed but he seemed to catch on that we seeing eachother. 2 weeks later he joins us on the train and is acting different, he was jealous when I was flirting with her and was trying to get rid of me so he could be alone with her, you could see it in his face. She would do weird things too, talk to him more and turn her back to me. He seemed gay though... One guy was having a private conversation with me and mentioned her name and this guy was behind and looks directly at me as he said her name. Look at me with this piercing stare, so I looked back like wtf and then he went back into the corner and then went to shake my hand. I shook his hand but later I tried talking to him(not being that friendly) and he brushed me off. So I kinda stormed past him a few times and he could see I was not having his crap. Now I think he might of mentioned this to her which will cause more problems, especially as earlier that day I mentioned him to her"saying I think that guy likes you he was very determined" and she was defensive like "he is alright, I'm single anyway can't be bothered with relatipnship. What can I do? this guy will make me out to be some bully because I'm alot bigger than him. Protip: When your "girl" tells YOU, she's single, and can't be bothered with a relationship... SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRL. I swear, I hope this Asian kid is secretly a black belt and just beats your ass. I don't usually say stuff like this, but I have never seen someone on any forum that I wanted to see get dick punched so hard before in my life. Either you are a troll, an idiot, or developmentally disabled. If it's the 3rd, you really need a social worker or something to wrangle you before you end up raping this girl or breaking her neck like a pro-wrestling fan version of Lenny from "Of Mice and Men"
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Post by theryno665 on May 8, 2011 8:13:20 GMT -5
I think it's time for some true Real Talk.
I was at a forum that had a 100+ page thread dedicated to my virginity. Besides about 5 people who genuinely wanted to help me, I was made fun of relentlessly and seen as the laughing stock of the forum. It came to a head when one of the members (who was married) told me she'd consider having sex with me after about a year as long as I went to medical school and did something with my life. But that got ruined the next day when she told me she was drunk. So I left, never (well, rarely) to return.
And still, this is the saddest thing I've ever seen.
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Post by Zombie Mod is not a ghoul. on May 8, 2011 8:27:03 GMT -5
i have absolutley no idea what the hell this thread is about
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Post by Grendel on May 8, 2011 8:41:34 GMT -5
I've been spending the past 2 hours watching The Asylum's Thor knockoff with a headache...and I feel smarter than if I would have spent the last 2 hours in this thread. I agree, and The Almighty Thor had me doing this 10 minutes in ... I hadn't read up on the first situation, but this thread has me smirking, and I feel bad for it. I shouldn't take pleasure in this, but I do.
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Post by "Hollywood" Cactus Matt on May 8, 2011 10:22:52 GMT -5
I think it's time for some true Real Talk. I was at a forum that had a 100+ page thread dedicated to my virginity. Besides about 5 people who genuinely wanted to help me, I was made fun of relentlessly and seen as the laughing stock of the forum. It came to a head when one of the members (who was married) told me she'd consider having sex with me after about a year as long as I went to medical school and did something with my life. But that got ruined the next day when she told me she was drunk. So I left, never (well, rarely) to return. And still, this is the saddest thing I've ever seen. I was at a forum about ten years ago, a complete n00b who didn't even know how to start new topics; I had to basically hijack related threads with my own relationship-problem topics. The difference is, the girl about whom I was asking WAS ACTUALLY MY GIRLFRIEND. We had had sex and lived together and everything. She kept jerking me around, telling me one thing and doing another, and I shared every last bit of information with the board; eventually, I became so pathetic that they stopped trying to help and started just laughing at me. I eventually quit, and the site went "pay to play" soon after. So, what's my point? Ten years ago, I was 21 going on 17, basically. I was a pathetic, wimpy little douchebag who let people walk all over me. I was being fed bullshit, and I was eating every last bite and coming back for more. The main difference between Young Cactus and our good friend RealTalk is that - let me bold, italicize, and CAPS for emphasis - SHE WAS MY ACTUAL GIRLFRIEND, not just some chick I was crushing on. But I've been there. I've been the pathetic specimen that didn't know what to do or who to turn to or blah blah blah, and I thought everything would be ok in the end. And it was, but not because we got back together and everyone lived happily ever after. Things got better because I CUT THAT BITCH OUT OF MY LIFE. Methinks that's what our friend here needs to do. Let the chick go, man. She was never yours to begin with. And at the risk of sounding like a major-league asshole, you've gone past the "completely pathetic" stage and crossed into some territory that I can't even describe. Give it up, bro. Let the Maybe Gaysian dude get toyed with for a while before she finds some other mentally unstable, immature doormat to walk all over. REAL TALK.
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Post by Grendel on May 8, 2011 11:10:36 GMT -5
I think it's time for some true Real Talk. I was at a forum that had a 100+ page thread dedicated to my virginity. Besides about 5 people who genuinely wanted to help me, I was made fun of relentlessly and seen as the laughing stock of the forum. It came to a head when one of the members (who was married) told me she'd consider having sex with me after about a year as long as I went to medical school and did something with my life. But that got ruined the next day when she told me she was drunk. So I left, never (well, rarely) to return. And still, this is the saddest thing I've ever seen. I was at a forum about ten years ago, a complete n00b who didn't even know how to start new topics; I had to basically hijack related threads with my own relationship-problem topics. The difference is, the girl about whom I was asking WAS ACTUALLY MY GIRLFRIEND. We had had sex and lived together and everything. She kept jerking me around, telling me one thing and doing another, and I shared every last bit of information with the board; eventually, I became so pathetic that they stopped trying to help and started just laughing at me. I eventually quit, and the site went "pay to play" soon after. So, what's my point? Ten years ago, I was 21 going on 17, basically. I was a pathetic, wimpy little douchebag who let people walk all over me. I was being fed bulls***, and I was eating every last bite and coming back for more. The main difference between Young Cactus and our good friend RealTalk is that - let me bold, italicize, and CAPS for emphasis - SHE WAS MY ACTUAL GIRLFRIEND, not just some chick I was crushing on. But I've been there. I've been the pathetic specimen that didn't know what to do or who to turn to or blah blah blah, and I thought everything would be ok in the end. And it was, but not because we got back together and everyone lived happily ever after. Things got better because I CUT THAT BITCH OUT OF MY LIFE. Methinks that's what our friend here needs to do. Let the chick go, man. She was never yours to begin with. And at the risk of sounding like a major-league asshole, you've gone past the "completely pathetic" stage and crossed into some territory that I can't even describe. Give it up, bro. Let the Maybe Gaysian dude get toyed with for a while before she finds some other mentally unstable, immature doormat to walk all over. REAL TALK. Bravo.
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Post by The Cole Mine on May 8, 2011 11:21:08 GMT -5
I was with this girl once, I kept trying to get her attention, but she never gave me the time of day. I started interrupting her at work by telling everyone there that I had an important announcement to make. However, I never said anything important and I left. I then started sending her emails from my iPad, but she never responded.
Till one day I met this big, beautiful black woman. She kept laughing at me though, but I think that means she likes me. I told her to take out every woman who has done me wrong.
I think I am in love.
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Post by twiggy101 on May 8, 2011 12:09:41 GMT -5
All I can say is that if I were you I would stop chasing her because she's a co-worker and things could get awkward at work. Let them hook up then break up and let things get awkward between them.
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Post by The Booty Disciple on May 8, 2011 12:22:23 GMT -5
I was with this girl once, I kept trying to get her attention, but she never gave me the time of day. I started interrupting her at work by telling everyone there that I had an important announcement to make. However, I never said anything important and I left. I then started sending her emails from my iPad, but she never responded. Till one day I met this big, beautiful black woman. She kept laughing at me though, but I think that means she likes me. I told her to take out every woman who has done me wrong. I think I am in love. Awesome Kong moonlights at your place of work? Must be Kharma
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Post by CM Dazz on May 8, 2011 12:27:05 GMT -5
Why do I feel like I'm going to read a story about a guy who chopped up some girl and her Gaybe Asian friend into a bunch of pieces and buried them in his backyard?
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Post by Realtalk on May 8, 2011 13:22:28 GMT -5
Problem is she is the pathetic one, I was just holding out hope because of her goods points, because they are really good. I see now what you guys are saying, but it still doesn't answer how do I deal with her now at work. Today really took the biscuit.
I phoned her today at lunch time and she was half asleep.
I said "you sound happy" she was like "I was sleeping MATE..." I said "I didn't know,I thought u might of been" and she goes angrily "well then you could think to youself that before calling" I laughed(better than saying sorry) because I was surprised she was so rude. She told me how she was gonna call me in a few days to find out some s*** about a course she was doing. Moaned how she worked all week but it was 3 days lol.
Then she goes, "at work me and my friend hooked u up with some girl haha" I said "why would u...u wouldn't do that. You know there is an attraction" then she says "haha your gonna have some girl coming up too you"
She started being disinterested, telling me she would talk to me in a few days(like she didn't want to) I asked her if she got my saucy txt, she was like "yeeeeeea i did"
Then I said cya babe and she goes "take care"
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on May 8, 2011 13:30:08 GMT -5
Problem is she is the pathetic one, I was just holding out hope because of her goods points, because they are really good. I see now what you guys are saying, but it still doesn't answer how do I deal with her now at work. Today really took the biscuit. I phoned her today at lunch time and she was half asleep. I said "you sound happy" she was like "I was sleeping MATE..." I said "I didn't know,I thought u might of been" and she goes angrily "well then you could think to youself that before calling" I laughed(better than saying sorry) because I was surprised she was so rude. She told me how she was gonna call me in a few days to find out some s*** about a course she was doing. Moaned how she worked all week but it was 3 days lol. Then she goes, "at work me and my friend hooked u up with some girl haha" I said "why would u...u wouldn't do that. You know there is an attraction" then she says "haha your gonna have some girl coming up too you" She started being disinterested, telling me she would talk to me in a few days(like she didn't want to) I asked her if she got my saucy txt, she was like "yeeeeeea i did" Then I said cya babe and she goes "take care" I got nothing. You have no social skills, zero. Not even a clue.
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Post by Realtalk on May 8, 2011 13:31:57 GMT -5
Hit n Run posting that's real good. It atleast explain yourself.
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Post by The Ichi on May 8, 2011 13:35:07 GMT -5
Hit n Run posting that's real good. It atleast explain yourself. ...You haven't taken a single piece of advice anyone has given you. What's the point?
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Post by emoney3265 on May 8, 2011 13:43:35 GMT -5
Problem is she is the pathetic one, I was just holding out hope because of her goods points, because they are really good. I see now what you guys are saying, but it still doesn't answer how do I deal with her now at work. Today really took the biscuit. I phoned her today at lunch time and she was half asleep. I said "you sound happy" she was like "I was sleeping MATE..." I said "I didn't know,I thought u might of been" and she goes angrily "well then you could think to youself that before calling" I laughed(better than saying sorry) because I was surprised she was so rude. She told me how she was gonna call me in a few days to find out some s*** about a course she was doing. Moaned how she worked all week but it was 3 days lol. Then she goes, "at work me and my friend hooked u up with some girl haha" I said "why would u...u wouldn't do that. You know there is an attraction" then she says "haha your gonna have some girl coming up too you" She started being disinterested, telling me she would talk to me in a few days(like she didn't want to) I asked her if she got my saucy txt, she was like "yeeeeeea i did" Then I said cya babe and she goes "take care" Man you need to ignore everyone else here. I now see she's just playing hard to get. That's sexy and such a big turn on. She know how to turn you on. She's just waitin' til you explode man. She wants you bad. What a dirty dirty sexy girl. I can't blame you. She even said take care! No one who hates you says that! That's nuts man, she needs you, she wants you. Give her what she wants and needs... lil bit of RealTalk, yeah girl.
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Post by EvenBaldobombHasAJob on May 8, 2011 13:43:55 GMT -5
I'm still not convinced this guy isn't just a troll.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on May 8, 2011 13:45:25 GMT -5
Ok, fine.
So, you're a clearly completely infatuated with someone you say is pathetic. Her good points, of which you haven't really explained much of, are and this is only a guess, A)she's hot and B)she talks dirty to you, sometimes.
Ok, so you call and wake her up. Inform her you thought she was sleeping, but called anyway. And she is the rude one?
Not sure what this is really all about, but she told you to piss you off. Clearly it worked.
So, she doesn't want to talk, which you picked up on. Congratulations. You sent her a dirty text, which she apparently did not respond to. So, she's not interested in that either.
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I know you think we as a board don't get it, but seriously consider everything everyone has told you. Assuming you're not trolling us you are walking down a dangerous path for yourself. These things are getting dangerously close, if they haven't already made it, to harassment. It's very possible you could wind up charged, with a restraining order placed on you, loss of your job and a gaggle of guys she's actually friends with beating the dog shit out of you.
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Post by Efren on May 8, 2011 13:46:52 GMT -5
Why was I not aware of this tread? =(
Starts reading the whole thing from the beginning.
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Post by Realtalk on May 8, 2011 13:54:47 GMT -5
Look all I know is we get on. We get on in person, are personalitys gel and we understand eachother. I doubt I will be charged with anything.
I wasn't to know she was sleeping but I meant to say to her she probably would be tired. Seemed like she really got annoyed with that one.
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