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Post by rapidfire187 on Oct 6, 2013 8:43:46 GMT -5
I don't want to bore you guts with the details so I'll keep it as short as possible. I met a really awesome, attractive girl on a dating site last week. We talked for two days before she came to see me. We hit it off instantly and before the end of the night things got all hot and steamy. We didn't have sex because she was trying to hold back, but I got the best head of my life...twice. I may have even caught feelings.
So what's the problem? Something I said came out wrong during a conversation we just had, and she now regrets doing it because she thinks that I think she's a slut. I tried my best to explain that she just took it the wrong way but I don't think she believes me. I heard sniffling before she told me she was going back to bed. Wtf do I do? I really want this to work and I really want to make her happy.
Mods, sorry if this is breaking rules or something. I know y'all will delete the thread if it is lol.
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Oct 6, 2013 8:55:21 GMT -5
Go out and give head to a guy, twice. Then everyone's even. Make sure you tape it.
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Post by rapidfire187 on Oct 6, 2013 9:26:17 GMT -5
Go out and give head to a guy, twice. Then everyone's even. Make sure you tape it. My roommate is gay, this could be done. Seriously though, I think I saved it. I told her she exudes classiness and that she shouldn't feel ashamed of being mesmorized by my weiner. She's apologized about 10 times now and doesn't want me to ever bring it up again. Win? f*** if I know. |
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Post by Wolf Hurricane on Oct 6, 2013 16:17:58 GMT -5
In the short run, maybe. On the other hand, you're barely a week into a relationship and you already have a "noodle incident," so I dunno. Have you gone down on her? Maybe that'll help.
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Post by CATCH_US IS the Conversation on Oct 6, 2013 16:20:39 GMT -5
Go out and give head to a guy, twice. Then everyone's even. Make sure you tape it. Seriously though, I think I saved it. I told her she exudes classiness and that she shouldn't feel ashamed of being mesmorized by my weiner. She's apologized about 10 times now and doesn't want me to ever bring it up again. Win? f*** if I know. Then he should be the one giving the head, not you  . |
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Post by Hit Girl on Oct 6, 2013 17:48:30 GMT -5
After just two days huh?
Maybe she IS a slut.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2013 17:54:31 GMT -5
The only feelings that you caught were in your pants, and I'm going to guess that you got greedy in the follow up conversation and didn't play it cool. It's almost always bad news to kick it when first meeting someone from a dating site.
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Post by Piccolo on Oct 6, 2013 18:08:39 GMT -5
Have you gone down on her? Maybe that'll help. This should be the first thing you try. And every time she wants to do it for you, you should make a point of doing it for her, too.  There's no easier way to make a woman feel valued (which isn't to say you don't do other things too, but this is a very obvious one). |
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Post by rapidfire187 on Oct 6, 2013 23:44:18 GMT -5
Have you gone down on her? Maybe that'll help. This should be the first thing you try. And every time she wants to do it for you, you should make a point of doing it for her, too. There's no easier way to make a woman feel valued (which isn't to say you don't do other things too, but this is a very obvious one). Ok, I have a confession to make. We didn't just not have sex because she wanted to hold back...it was that time of the month. Trust me, I plan on eating it like a starving Ethiopian when I see her again. She totally earned it. And to the person that said "maybe she is a slut"...I don't like that line of thinking. She's a grown woman that works hard and has her shit together. She can f*** whoever and however many guys as she wants. She's not my girlfriend (yet) so I have no f***s to give about that. She really did seem classy though, so I don't think she's done this before. I might not be the most attractive guy but dammit, I have game and I can't blame her for giving in. It's funny though, I've always said when girls say "just because we're gonna hang out doesn't mean you're getting sex" it really means "I really want to f*** you but I want you to think I'm a good girl". I guess she technically stuck to her word though. |
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Post by rapidfire187 on Oct 6, 2013 23:49:23 GMT -5
My roommate is gay, this could be done. Seriously though, I think I saved it. I told her she exudes classiness and that she shouldn't feel ashamed of being mesmorized by my weiner. She's apologized about 10 times now and doesn't want me to ever bring it up again. Win? f*** if I know. Then he should be the one giving the head, not you . Yea, he'd probably love the offer but I doubt there's any way he'd do better than her. That shit was more mindblowing than a cracked article. |
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Post by BigBadZ on Oct 6, 2013 23:58:56 GMT -5
**Language**
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Post by rapidfire187 on Oct 7, 2013 0:11:52 GMT -5
Ugh...my ex's name is Shawna and our breakup was really nasty. She screwed someone else and blamed it on me getting uglier over our years together. I acted like a baby and destroyed all of the stuff that she had left at my house. |
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Post by BigBadZ on Oct 7, 2013 7:38:12 GMT -5
Ugh...my ex's name is Shawna and our breakup was really nasty. She screwed someone else and blamed it on me getting uglier over our years together. I acted like a baby and destroyed all of the stuff that she had left at my house. Yikes, I mean, what are the odds? I'm sorry. I swear I had no idea... (slowly puts away binoculars) |
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Post by rapidfire187 on Oct 7, 2013 9:47:53 GMT -5
YOU KNEW! YOU BASTARD!
Really though, you guys helped me get through that. I made a thread about it and got over it pretty darn quickly.
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There's no easier way to make a woman feel valued (which isn't to say you don't do other things too, but this is a very obvious one). 
