Why would a girl act like this

[Essential1]

Her friend said she liked me when I met them in the club. She was a hot indian girl although her friend was better. I approached after leaving the club by myself(I work there) and she seemed disinterested and a bit snobby. I acted a bit distant and barely looked at her because she did the same and didn't know what to say because she was saying nothing then when I asked for her number she took mine.

Even blew smoke in her face while we smoked and not on purpose but I subconciously didn't give a shit. We had a few jokes here and there it seemed like she decided to say something instead of letting her friend talk. Later I say I'm going as I walk her to where she was getting a taxi and her friend walks off and she hugs me and I tilt my head down and she starts making out with me in a big way for a minute or two. I walked away with the feeling she won't call me despite this. What was up with her?

[SOR]

Probably wanted the attention or the feeling of being wanted.

I know a lot of women like this.

[The Man They Call Asher]

[Hit Girl]

Jan 25, 2014 2:55:34 GMT -5 Essential1 said:

Her friend said she liked me when I met them in the club. She was a hot indian girl although her friend was better. I approached after leaving the club by myself(I work there) and she seemed disinterested and a bit snobby. I acted a bit distant and barely looked at her because she did the same and didn't know what to say because she was saying nothing then when I asked for her number she took mine.

Even blew smoke in her face while we smoked and not on purpose but I subconciously didn't give a shit. We had a few jokes here and there it seemed like she decided to say something instead of letting her friend talk. Later I say I'm going as I walk her to where she was getting a taxi and her friend walks off and she hugs me and I tilt my head down and she starts making out with me in a big way for a minute or two. I walked away with the feeling she won't call me despite this. What was up with her?

Sounds like a decent night. What's the problem?

[Deleted]

Women are ridiculous.

They tend to either be governed entirely be their emotions that can swing wildly and create bullshit scenarios in which you don't fullfill requirements you were completely unaware of that change on the fly or are almost serial killer level sociopaths that just need to pull stuff onto them.

If you ever meet a girl that is sweet, logical and not a psychotic bitch, I suggest you marry her immediately.

[Sephiroth]

And people wonder why I am single.

[Deleted]

I've yet to meet a female that isn't batshit insane

["Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay]

Jan 25, 2014 2:55:34 GMT -5 Essential1 said:

She was a hot indian girl although her friend was better.

I acted a bit distant and barely looked at her because she did the same and didn't know what to say because she was saying nothing then when I asked for her number she took mine.

Even blew smoke in her face while we smoked and not on purpose but I subconciously didn't give a shit.

Why would a woman treat you like this? You sound like such a catch.

[Deleted]

Low self esteem.

[suave]

Maybe she was drunk.

But dude, you made out with a hot Indian chick despite (from what the passage indicates) acting like kind of a douche. Why are you complaining?

[Amazing Kitsune]

I think a good movie could start off with the scene you've described. It's mysterious.

That being said, this is why I've never tried to meet a person in a bar/club.

["Magic" Mark Hurr]

Kinda have to throw away logic when you are at the club.

[Toxik916]

It was just a random make out session at a club, don't think too much into it.

I've made out with so many chicks on nights out drinking that don't call me back. It doesn't even register as a strange occurrence any more. Just enjoy the fun you had that night and be done with it.

[suave]

Jan 25, 2014 16:34:19 GMT -5 Toxik916 said:

It was just a random make out session at a club, don't think too much into it.

I've made out with so many chicks on nights out drinking that don't call me back. It doesn't even register as a strange occurrence any more. Just enjoy the fun you had that night and be done with it.

Humble Bragging like a champ.

[The Ichi]

*OP admits to acting distant to a girl and even to blowing smoke in her face

"HAHA, THOSE WOMEN, RIGHT?"

[Toxik916]

Jan 25, 2014 16:45:43 GMT -5 suave said:

Jan 25, 2014 16:34:19 GMT -5 Toxik916 said:

It was just a random make out session at a club, don't think too much into it.

I've made out with so many chicks on nights out drinking that don't call me back. It doesn't even register as a strange occurrence any more. Just enjoy the fun you had that night and be done with it.

Humble Bragging like a champ.

Not bragging lol. If was was I would have said they were all hot which is not the case at all. I just go out to bars/clubs on a weekly basis so I fully understand that scene. You can really tell the difference between the regulars that are constantly scraping the bars like myself and the one and done types that only go out a few times a year.

Regular bar goers fully understand how these random hookups occur and don't think much of them, hell it's more surprising to actually have a random hookup call back than it is not ever hearing from them again. A lot of the one and done types go out with the mindset of what happens tonight won't affect my normal life, so they'll go out without their spouse and makeout with a random person and completely forget about it or try and sweep it under the rug.