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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Mar 19, 2014 14:52:28 GMT -5
Well, if she doesn't want to hang out how do I tell her? You're being way too vague. Why would she not want ti hang with you if you're friends? How are you going to pursue this? Were you going to legitimately ask her out or keep skirting the issue via your veil of "friendship"? I wanted to go out to lunch and that's when I wanted to share my feelings.
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Post by Toxik916 on Mar 19, 2014 15:02:54 GMT -5
You're being way too vague. Why would she not want ti hang with you if you're friends? How are you going to pursue this? Were you going to legitimately ask her out or keep skirting the issue via your veil of "friendship"? I wanted to go out to lunch and that's when I wanted to share my feelings. Ok gotcha. Well for one you shouldn't air your feelings the next time you see her at a social setting. If it doesn't work out you'll ruin everyone's night. You just need to bide your time until you get a chance to hang out with just the two of you, then you can unleash your feelings. Best advice I can give would be that you should be really casual about it and not make some huge romantic gesture. Just tell her you feel like you two could be something more than friends and see how she responds.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Mar 19, 2014 15:07:20 GMT -5
I wanted to go out to lunch and that's when I wanted to share my feelings. Ok gotcha. Well for one you shouldn't air your feelings the next time you see her at a social setting. If it doesn't work out you'll ruin everyone's night. You just need to bide your time until you get a chance to hang out with just the two of you, then you can unleash your feelings. Best advice I can give would be that you should be really casual about it and not make some huge romantic gesture. Just tell her you feel like you two could be something more than friends and see how she responds. This what I was trying to do.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Mar 19, 2014 15:13:29 GMT -5
Well when you see her at this social thing, ask if you guys could hang out sometime.If there's a movie she wants to see, Ask her to it as friends. be nice. Pay for her ticket and stuff unless she's weirded out by it...and then after the movie, let her know how you feel.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Mar 19, 2014 15:14:01 GMT -5
I wanted to go out to lunch and that's when I wanted to share my feelings. Ok gotcha. Well for one you shouldn't air your feelings the next time you see her at a social setting. If it doesn't work out you'll ruin everyone's night. You just need to bide your time until you get a chance to hang out with just the two of you, then you can unleash your feelings. Best advice I can give would be that you should be really casual about it and not make some huge romantic gesture. Just tell her you feel like you two could be something more than friends and see how she responds. Or what he said.
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Post by dorf on Mar 19, 2014 18:23:47 GMT -5
Well, you tell her how you feel. One of three things can happen. 1. She says yes, and balloons and confetti rain down from the ceiling 2. She says no, and you take the mature route and stay friends C. She says no and you act like a child about it Of course, the first choice is the desired choice, but if she says no, please do the right thing and be mature about it. You're an adult. I got kittens and smiley faces (on the balloons). It's eventually worth it.
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Post by Venti on Mar 19, 2014 18:27:20 GMT -5
Write her a poem
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Post by Milkman Norm on Mar 19, 2014 19:01:20 GMT -5
Personally I wouldn't write a poem. I think there's a good chance that it would come across as creepy. Just be open about how you feel without being overbearing. While you're at it you need to ask yourself what you want from her. You seem to be attracted to her. That doesn't necessary mean you want to date. That doesn't necessary mean you want to have sex with her. That doesn't necessary mean you want to have a fwb relationship. It doesn't rule any of those things out either.I'd think about what you want, what you *really* want. Not what you think you should want. I speak from experience here and a lot of what your wrote in this thread sounds like me 10 years ago. Be honest with yourself, present your desires to your friend and then accept her answer and move on or into what ever your relationship will be.
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Post by rapidfire187 on Mar 19, 2014 19:54:23 GMT -5
I once had a chick get me into a wrestling show for free. She was the champion of the local promotion's valet and was smoking hot, well beyond my league. Nothing happened that night, but she spent the night at my house a few weeks later and we had lots of sex. It didn't go anywhere but hey, I didn't expect it to and I got that far!
What I'm saying is, don't give up on her but don't have expectations.
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