Toxik916
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Post by Toxik916 on Aug 7, 2014 14:43:38 GMT -5
So last night I get a text from some random chick I banged like 3 months ago telling me she had a positive pregnancy test. I have no idea what to do. She told me I was the only one she's been with in that time period and I think I'm f***ed six ways to Sunday. This wasn't even a relationship, it was one night of horrible sex while wearing a rubber. I didn't even finish  Fan I'm freaking the f*** out and can't control the anxiety. I told her to take another test and I haven't heard from her since. If she is pregnant I want ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with her or it. How do I even suggest an abortion at this point or is 3 months too late for that? Help me FAN! I'm at my breaking point, I'm not daddy material and I don't want to go to any of my friends about this until it's confirmed. |
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Aug 7, 2014 14:49:41 GMT -5
You have to take responsibility for your actions, man.
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Post by Toxik916 on Aug 7, 2014 14:58:59 GMT -5
You have to take responsibility for your actions, man. Does crying in a corner count as taking responsibility? After talking to a co-worker about it she basically told me it sounds like she's using a "pregnancy" to get me back in her life. The last thing I tested her was "Take another test" and I haven't heard from her since. My coworker said if I don't hear back from her in the next few days not to worry about it. |
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Post by Glitch on Aug 7, 2014 15:05:30 GMT -5
If you were gloved up and didn't even finish, I fail to see how it is your baby. If she is being sketchy about taking another test, then it sounds like she is using this as a way to lure you back in or something. Could very well be possible that she knows who the daddy is but really doesn't like the guy. So she may be seeing you as an alternative.
While I do think a man should step up to secure a child's well being, a lot of this sounds very crooked.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2014 15:07:38 GMT -5
If it's yours and she decides to keep it you got to grow up and get responsible. Sorry man it happens to the best of us. Just don't be a deadbeat dad. Just imagine if you were the kid and how pissed off you would be your dad is a deadbeat who wants nothing to do with you.
But dude it's appropriate to freak out for the next few days. Just don't do anything stupid
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Post by 'Foretold' Joker on Aug 7, 2014 15:13:05 GMT -5
This wasn't even a relationship, it was one night of horrible sex while wearing a rubber. I didn't even finish She can't be pregnant from you if both of these facts are true. Sounds suspect to me. Remain calm until you get more information. |
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Post by Chip on Aug 7, 2014 15:14:38 GMT -5
while wearing a rubber. I didn't even finish I may be showing my inexperience here but... what? What am I missing? |
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Post by Glitch on Aug 7, 2014 15:15:26 GMT -5
Wait, you banged her 3 long months ago, and she is just now taking a pregnancy test? I aint no anthropologist or nothing, but that doesn't sound right. Would her period have stopped way before?
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Aug 7, 2014 15:16:24 GMT -5
...destroyed?
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Aug 7, 2014 15:17:06 GMT -5
Wait, you banged her 3 long months ago, and she is just now taking a pregnancy test? I aint no anthropologist or nothing, but that doesn't sound right. Would her period have stopped way before? Not always no. Periods don't always stop during pregnancy. |
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Aug 7, 2014 15:18:21 GMT -5
This wasn't even a relationship, it was one night of horrible sex while wearing a rubber. I didn't even finish She can't be pregnant from you if both of these facts are true. Sounds suspect to me. Remain calm until you get more information. Pre-ejaculate combined with a rubber that didn't function is perfectly capable of impregnating a woman. |
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Aug 7, 2014 15:18:54 GMT -5
You have to take responsibility for your actions, man. This. And it's not even a question. You just do it. |
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Post by Koda, Master Crunchyroller on Aug 7, 2014 15:20:18 GMT -5
Like others I am suspect about the truth to what she's saying.
That being said, let this be a wake up call, dude. Maybe it is time you begin slowing it down? I know you are a party monster, that's who you are, but maybe think now before you lay with a woman, "If she ends up pregnant, am I ok with raising the kid?"
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Post by denna5 on Aug 7, 2014 15:29:28 GMT -5
Wait, you banged her 3 long months ago, and she is just now taking a pregnancy test? I aint no anthropologist or nothing, but that doesn't sound right. Would her period have stopped way before? Not always no. Periods don't always stop during pregnancy. Speaking as a girl, periods can be kind of crazy. If you are not on the pill, it is possible they won't be very regular and sometimes early in pregnancy, you can still get a light flow or spot so she may not have freaked out and took a test right away when it was first late. If what she said was true about not having sex in the last few months, then pregnancy may not have been the first thing she thought of when her period was late. |
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Aug 7, 2014 15:32:43 GMT -5
Not always no. Periods don't always stop during pregnancy. Speaking as a girl, periods can be kind of crazy. If you are not on the pill, it is possible they won't be very regular and sometimes early in pregnancy, you can still get a light flow or spot so she may not have freaked out and took a test right away when it was first late. If what she said was true about not having sex in the last few months, then pregnancy may not have been the first thing she thought of when her period was late. Exactly. There's a lot of personal factors and even unknown ones that comes into play during these situations. Period regularity or not this is entirely possible and you frankly need to be treating this with the upmost urgency and respect in case this is a legitimate situation. If it ends up being a lie in the end or something that didn't take then hey good for you I guess because it's obvious a child would be seen by you as a burden, but until then you need to treat this as serious as... well as serious as a child possibly being on the way. And that's pretty f***ing serious. |
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Post by Brood Lone Wolf Funker on Aug 7, 2014 15:35:17 GMT -5
Honestly man up, and your life isn't ruined or destroyed from this. Its called accountability for your actions, having a child is one of the wonderful experiences in the world and honestly one I wish I could experience and I love my niece. Just because you used protection doesn't mean a damn thing pregnancy and other things can still happen. Destroyed is such the wrong word to use here, there are people who would like to know what its like to have a child and can never experience that, those are the people whose lives can be destroyed not someone who made a drunken error and that what it was a drunken error. So just man up and if its yours take responsibility and have an adult conversation with this person and even if she hasn't responded yet take the initiative and tell her you want to talk
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Post by Lila on Aug 7, 2014 15:35:20 GMT -5
If she is pregnant I want ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with her or it. How do I even suggest an abortion at this point or is 3 months too late for that? I have absolutely no sympathy if you can't even take up the responsibilities for your own actions and as far as abortions goes, that's ultimately her decision because it's her body carrying the child. |
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Post by MGH on Aug 7, 2014 15:39:12 GMT -5
Screaming that you want ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with "it" in all caps makes you come off pretty badly, honestly. Actually the entire tone of this is pretty shitty.
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Post by Banecat on Aug 7, 2014 15:43:36 GMT -5
There is only correct choice you can make. Take her on The Maury Povich Show!  |
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Post by Dave the Dave on Aug 7, 2014 15:45:21 GMT -5
I think some people may be acting a little harsh towards the OP. He's freaking out. He may regret saying what he just said soon but he's in a panic.
And an abortion is a hard thing to suggest. If she's 3 months along she might not be willing, but if you feel that's the option you want to take you have every right to suggest it. She has every right to say no, but you are half of the decision so you can speak up. I know this won't be liked, but if you're against having a child with her discuss what arrangements will be. She may not want you around either and just cut you lose. I have a feeling once you find out your child was born you may change your tune, but if she says GTFO then you're free and clear.
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