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Post by Professor Chaos on Aug 16, 2015 2:49:05 GMT -5
Yay or nay? As teenagers its destined to be doomed all around but in your 30's is it acceptable? Seemed to work out for Jeff Jarrett and Kurt Angle.
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Post by Father Dougal McGuire on Aug 16, 2015 2:53:29 GMT -5
Depends on the circumstances. A rebound might be frowned apon, but if there is some distance and what not, like you/they moved away and reconnect years afterwards it could be kosher.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2015 2:57:49 GMT -5
I have neither friends nor been on a date so I dunno.
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Post by The Summer of Muskrat XVII on Aug 16, 2015 3:05:27 GMT -5
Definitely against the Bro Code, but it really depends on the situation. I don't recommend it tho.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Aug 16, 2015 3:07:01 GMT -5
Depends on the circumstances. A rebound might be frowned apon, but if there is some distance and what not, like you/they moved away and reconnect years afterwards it could be kosher. I dunno what to make of it. They've been split for a year. We've always enjoyed dancing together at clubs whenever we get the chance over the course of the past 15 years. We were texting tonight which was getting to the verge of sexting when she said "Guess Who?" was texting her so I backed off. I don't wanna destroy a friendship over a girl but I really do like her and think we have a connection when I have to say he treats her like s**t. |
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Post by Cela on Aug 16, 2015 3:11:00 GMT -5
Key things to note:
How long did they date?
Has your friend moved on?
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Aug 16, 2015 3:18:44 GMT -5
Off limits without his permission, crystal clear permission.
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Post by Dub H on Aug 16, 2015 3:23:12 GMT -5
Yeh,at the very least ASK YOUR FRIEND.
My first ex when I broke up,the first thing my "friend" did was hit on her,not even spoke a word to me.
Spoiler:He lost both mine and hers friendship
The only thing he said to me when their friendship broke was :"I hope you are happy,now you can have her all for youself".
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Post by Professor Chaos on Aug 16, 2015 3:26:44 GMT -5
Key things to note: How long did they date? Has your friend moved on? 10 years. They broke up a year ago. Main reason was because he wouldn't marry her and refused to start a family. I'd be happy in doing so. |
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Aug 16, 2015 3:49:57 GMT -5
Key things to note: How long did they date? Has your friend moved on? 10 years. They broke up a year ago. Main reason was because he wouldn't marry her and refused to start a family. I'd be happy in doing so. You gotta talk to your friend man, that's the bottom line. |
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Post by Cela on Aug 16, 2015 3:53:47 GMT -5
Key things to note: How long did they date? Has your friend moved on? 10 years. They broke up a year ago. Main reason was because he wouldn't marry her and refused to start a family. I'd be happy in doing so. NO! Give it another year or so, or until he's moved on. 10 years is... no, unless he gives express written approval to tap that. |
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Aug 16, 2015 3:56:28 GMT -5
10 years. They broke up a year ago. Main reason was because he wouldn't marry her and refused to start a family. I'd be happy in doing so. NO! Give it another year or so, or until he's moved on. 10 years is... no, unless he gives express written approval to tap that. It's gotta be notarized too. |
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Post by Mozenrath on Aug 16, 2015 3:57:21 GMT -5
If you sincerely are curious about starting something with this person, you need to consider a few things, namely, risks.
Unless he's got a deed or something I don't know about, he doesn't own her, but you do need to realize you risk very likely destroying that friendship. Ask yourself if you're willing risk that, but talking to the friend might be a good idea. Hopefully they're not possessive and if they are, that does not mean you cannot pursue something with this woman. Just, again, you will likely lose a friend and maybe other support if you do.
Jeff Jarrett and Karen Angle for instance. It worked out for them, but not initially, where Kurt Angle's ego had a widdle booboo and Jeff got forced out of his own company. Kurt who if I recall was already dating Rhaka Khan, because he's a hypocrite I guess.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Aug 16, 2015 3:58:50 GMT -5
10 years. They broke up a year ago. Main reason was because he wouldn't marry her and refused to start a family. I'd be happy in doing so. You gotta talk to your friend man, that's the bottom line. Thing is... He's kind of a douche. Whether this girl is the love of his life or some random girl walking down the street he'll put me down like he's better than me. Wish I knew some nice people. |
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Post by Mozenrath on Aug 16, 2015 3:59:52 GMT -5
You gotta talk to your friend man, that's the bottom line. Thing is... He's kind of a douche. Whether this girl is the love of his life or some random girl walking down the street he'll put me down like he's better than me. Wish I knew some nice people. Then you aren't really friends, I guess, or at least, don't care if he's no longer your friend. In which case, do whatever, you don't have a lot to lose on that front. |
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Aug 16, 2015 4:03:48 GMT -5
You gotta talk to your friend man, that's the bottom line. Thing is... He's kind of a douche. Whether this girl is the love of his life or some random girl walking down the street he'll put me down like he's better than me. Wish I knew some nice people. Is he a douche because you're into her and he broke her heart? Or is he just an actual douche? If he is a douche and you don't really care about his opinion or value his friendship, then, pursue her. You're totally free to do that. All my advice was centered around your use of the word friend, actually best friend. |
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Post by Professor Chaos on Aug 16, 2015 4:19:13 GMT -5
Thing is... He's kind of a douche. Whether this girl is the love of his life or some random girl walking down the street he'll put me down like he's better than me. Wish I knew some nice people. Is he a douche because you're into her and he broke her heart? Or is he just an actual douche? If he is a douche and you don't really care about his opinion or value his friendship, then, pursue her. You're totally free to do that. All my advice was centered around your use of the word friend, actually best friend. I dunno what he is to me really. I live 3000 miles away from all my friend's and family and he's the only one rich enough to fly all over the world without care. Since I've seen him the most the past 15 years guess he gets the best friend title. |
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Post by Mozenrath on Aug 16, 2015 4:23:02 GMT -5
I thought you were married already. Sorry if I missed a thread or anything, and I don't bring it up to be callous, but I imagine that could be a complication.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Aug 16, 2015 4:30:10 GMT -5
Is he a douche because you're into her and he broke her heart? Or is he just an actual douche? If he is a douche and you don't really care about his opinion or value his friendship, then, pursue her. You're totally free to do that. All my advice was centered around your use of the word friend, actually best friend. I dunno what he is to me really. I live 3000 miles away from all my friend's and family and he's the only one rich enough to fly all over the world without care. Since I've seen him the most the past 15 years guess he gets the best friend title. Well if he's not really around, I guess do whatever the hell you want. I still stand by talking to him though. |
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Post by Madagascar Fred on Aug 16, 2015 4:56:23 GMT -5
Key things to note: How long did they date? Has your friend moved on? Yeah and how much value your friend/pal has to you I did date a former (short period) ex of a pal of mine and nothing came off of it, neither of us felt any type of guilt |
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