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Post by LexExpress on Jan 19, 2017 14:57:44 GMT -5
So, I'd just been dumped by girlfriend. One of my best female friends invited me out to visit and cheer up. So, I flew across the country, and was greeted by... nothing. She had me take a cab to her place. She promptly set me down on the couch with a tiny blanket, and went upstairs to bang a 60 year old she met the week before. All night. On a squeaky bed. We didn't talk for a year after that. This basically happened to me. I flew to Canada to see my friend. She was 40 minutes late to pick me up from the airport and eventually turned up with her boyfriend in tow. They were both stoned. Got back to hers and she was like "uh, are you hungry? There's chocolate." and then left me on the sofa and went to bed with him. Yeeeeeeah. We are no longer friends. |
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Post by The Ichi on Jan 19, 2017 17:53:03 GMT -5
So, I'd just been dumped by girlfriend. One of my best female friends invited me out to visit and cheer up. So, I flew across the country, and was greeted by... nothing. She had me take a cab to her place. She promptly set me down on the couch with a tiny blanket, and went upstairs to bang a 60 year old she met the week before. All night. On a squeaky bed. We didn't talk for a year after that. This basically happened to me. I flew to Canada to see my friend. She was 40 minutes late to pick me up from the airport and eventually turned up with her boyfriend in tow. They were both stoned. Got back to hers and she was like "uh, are you hungry? There's chocolate." and then left me on the sofa and went to bed with him. Yeeeeeeah. We are no longer friends. Was it good chocolate? |
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Post by bibboid on Jan 20, 2017 1:14:17 GMT -5
Became really good friends with a guy I worked with in New Jersey. After two years of hanging out we moved into a house with three other people. Two years after that he moved in with his girlfriend when she got pregnant. When their son was born they asked me to be his godfather. John got a job offer for twice his pay in South Carolina and I helped him move there. We talked a lot and his life was going well.
A year later, John and girlfriend wanted to buy a mobile home. His credit was weak and he needed a cosigner. I helped him out and he got his loan. Didn't miss a payment for two years. Then the loan company got bought out. Somehow, everything got put into my name. The loan. The property taxes. The land rental. Suddenly they stop paying everything. My phone calls are ducked. After a few months, the property manager contacts me about what is going on. John and girlfriend went on a drunken rampage and destroyed the mobile home. Appliances ripped out. Windows broken. Holes punched in the walls. Then they disappeared. I looked for them for three years but never found them. Eventually I had to default on their $25000 loan. Screwed up my credit for years.
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Post by LexExpress on Jan 20, 2017 2:38:16 GMT -5
This basically happened to me. I flew to Canada to see my friend. She was 40 minutes late to pick me up from the airport and eventually turned up with her boyfriend in tow. They were both stoned. Got back to hers and she was like "uh, are you hungry? There's chocolate." and then left me on the sofa and went to bed with him. Yeeeeeeah. We are no longer friends. Was it good chocolate? Yeah, it was chocolate I'd brought with me from the UK as a gift for her 😂 |
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Post by Mozenrath on Jan 20, 2017 3:21:14 GMT -5
Yeah, it was chocolate I'd brought with me from the UK as a gift for her 😂 The moral is, just in case, bring chocolate. you never know when your friend is going to run off to bonetown. |
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Post by Ted Sheckler on Jan 20, 2017 4:19:34 GMT -5
Long story but you're asking for the worst so you've got it.
- Met a girl in 2009 she had an interest in some events I was hosting and getting involved. I offered her a volunteer position and said if she worked hard and I knew she was a hard worker we could talk about paid positions.
- Was dating a guy at the time who was really weird and would accuse her of cheating all the time so she stopped hanging out with us to save her relationship until he beat her. She stayed with him and eventually left which is when she started talking to me again as a friend.
- Starts dating new guy in 2011 who claims he owns 6 high end night clubs in Sydney City (Biggest city in the country) but wants to work at local supermarket so he knows what "normal people" life is like. Dude claims he was adopted son of millionaire and inherited clubs off him but also had these two babe adopted sisters that he had regular threesomes with. I laugh and tell her this dude is clearly lying to her and that she should run for the hills but she's gullible enough to believe the dude (Or simply put up with the lies simply to have a boyfriend)
- In 2012 guy finds out who I am and that she talks to me quite often and feels threatened despite the fact we're just friends. He's the controlling type and demands that she blocks my number and Facebook. She does as she's told and one day I wake up to someone I considered a friend having blocked me. I'm disappointed but move on.
- A year later she returns. Her relationship is dead, she says she's changed, has missed my friendship rah rah rah. Within 2 weeks she's back with her boyfriend and I get blocked again by her.
- 2014 she returns again for about 3 months behind her boyfriends back. He finds out and blocks me himself this time.
- Early 2015 rolls around and this time after years of abuse from her significant other and drug abuse the dude legitimately causes her to have some kind of breakdown and she ends up in a psychiatric ward. Of course she comes back to me after she gets out with a long message about how she almost died and has a drug problem etc etc. We eventually find out her boyfriend suffers from severe narcissistic personality disorder and that everything he had ever told her had mostly been lies.
- She starts spiraling out of control, having sex with random men and women, going to dodgy sex clubs and sleeping with guys for rent/places to stay and eventually it all catches up to her and she ends up legitimately homeless.
- After a couple nights on the street she ends up being set up with a homeless shelter where she meets a guy and within 2 days she's telling me she's in love with this man, he's "the one" and that she's regularly having unprotected sex with him. All her friends (Including me) try and tell her that it's not a great idea to date a homeless guy and that she should wait and get to know him. She ignores this advice.
- Eventually she finds a girl to take her in and help her and her new boyfriend get back on her feet. I get the invite to hang out. Girl that helped her get back on her feet is now my current girlfriend but the saga of "worst friend" is not over yet.
- 2016 rolls around and my girlfriend (Then friend) says that worst friend needs to start finding a place to stay because it's been a month and she's been more than fair. Girlfriend tells me privately at the time that worst friend is messy, inconsiderate and she feels she's being taken advantage of. Since girlfriend was living in studio apartment at the time I thought this was more than fair especially since originally worst friend was meant to stay for a week.
- Worst friend moves into new boyfriends mums garage. The mother had a restraining order against the son but let him live there to avoid being homeless. She thought nothing of this and put it down to her boyfriend making mistakes.
- In March after knowing her boyfriend for about four months she reveals to the world that despite having no income and living in a garage on a blow up mattress that she is pregnant. At that point I'm involved with her friend pretty heavily so we invite her and her boyfriend over to hang out. On this night the boyfriend tries to attack me because I looked at him the wrong way (No joke)
- Everyone who doesn't know her situation tells her she's going to be a great mum and that everything will sort itself out. I be honest with her and say it's a silly idea to have a child with no income with a guy you barely know. She proclaims she's in love and everything will be fine.
- A few months later she discovers that her boyfriend is autistic and attempts to bring it up with him. He responds by arguing with her and as the argument escalates he gets so enraged that he spear tackles her into his mothers wall and then runs off into the kitchen, grabs a knife and glares at her as she barricades herself in the kitchen and calls the Police.
- Police arrest him, he gets 4 months in prison and instead of trying to find a job she decides to study music performance and tells everyone she will soon be on a reality TV show singing. This never happened.
- She moves into a share house with a woman she barely knows and the woman she moved in with can no longer live with her because she's messy and loud and evicts her after about a month. My girlfriend refuses to take her in so this pregnant woman cannot keep a roof over her head. I keep trying to give her advice to better her life but she refuses to take it.
- Her family jump in realising that if they didn't she would lose her baby to child services. They buy her a trailer and pay the rental space for the trailer at the local trailer park and buy her kid everything it needs to live.
- With this new found confidence and no longer needing me she ditches me and a friend of mine she had become friends with simply because she didn't like our views on her having a child and because she could replace us with family members.
- Had baby. Is still in contact with my girlfriend (Who barely spends time with her anymore) and last I heard she spent her government "baby bonus" on a Playstation 4 and 200 dollars worth of sports clothes despite being about 40 kilos overweight and not working out.
She is 25 and totally reliant on her family. I am no longer in touch with her and I want it to remain that way.
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Post by OldDirtyBernie on Jan 20, 2017 5:40:46 GMT -5
I faced a hard realization recently when I blocked the guy that was my best friend all through high school and a few years after.
I'm not blaming him at all for the addiction problems I had, that's on me, but the first few times I tried vicodin were when he introduced me to them (again, not a cop-out, the escalation was on me entirely.)
He's always been an arrogant asshole, but it seems to have multiplied since he joined the Marines and finally left.
He's gotten me into multiple bad situations, including - having a gun pulled on me on two separate occasions, leaving me alone in a drug dealer's house that he was running for when he lived in Florida, fights, women he screwed over, etc.
What really should have been the breaking point was when I was teetering on finally being clean the first time and he shows up to my mom's funeral with some pills for me to help deal (I could have turned them down but, at that point, there was no way I would.)
After I got married, he had the balls to actually tell me that I settled because my wife is a big girl (I like big women.)
Nevertheless, we did drift apart after I got married.
Then, we started talking again on facebook around the time he was supposed to get out of the service, although I was unaware he was facing a trial for rape that was extendin his leave date. Needless to say, this soured me quite a bit.
As I said, his arrogance got even worse over time and he spent his time on Facebook needlessly starting fights between people just to sit back and watch, posting freaking terrible images, etc.
I finally ended up blocking him and haven't looked back.
I feel bad that he WAS my best friend, but looking back on everything he just seems like a terrible person.
The most terrible thing about the guy is that he had a daughter just a while after my son was born and, while things went south with his then-wife, he hasn't seen his daughter in nearly 8 years. In the time we started talking again, he never mentioned her even once.
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Post by Baldobomb-22-OH-MAN!!! on Jan 20, 2017 6:25:22 GMT -5
my 2 oldest friends are dangerously close to being cut out of my life. they can't talk about women without using words like "bitch, whore and c***" and one of them activly suggested our provincial premier should be shot because too many people die in hospitals. Was it so she would see the condition of the hospitals? nah. he just straight up has a weird false equivalency issue and suggests it's directly her fault that too many people die in hospitals. he also refers to his own trans-gender sibling as "the tranny" and blanket refers to all women who dress as Harley Quinn at cons as a bunch of whores. he also told me and my other friend to our faces that when our dads died in the same year he was jealous because his father was stealing money from him. yeah I'm already in the process of freezing him out, before anyone asks. |
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